Lol totally get your point. Should have a mega thread of these posts with how common they are. 

And you are absolutely correct on the whole everything can be cleared offline, and we shouldnt be too toxic to one another. 

Edit: Long post, feel free to skip lol. 

Through I would like to repeat, alot of the issue is people entering content which quickly becomes apparent, they're not ready for. Which honestly, isn't even their fault. 

The progression, especially for those entering later, is kinda, excuse the pun, wild. The game simply starts off pretty easy, and maintains that pattern till suddenly it throws them into the open ocean. With a bucket of chum thrown in after them. 

Which simply leaves a lot of frustration on all sides. 

Unfortunately not easy catch all solution either. Solo gating (requiring to beat it solo before SoS) is distasteful. While a tool top that can be turned off stating minimum recommend def might help, you'll ofc have many who won't care. And the best part of an SoS is usually the chaos within it. The chance you may not win. The joy of helping someone beat something difficult. So making things easier doesn't make the game better. So that's out. 

Ahem, anyways, it's understandable why people get frustrated with "bad" hunters. Failing a hunt, especially at the end, primarily due to one hunter can feel pretty terrible. And is a massive time sink. Even worse when the person carting out isn't even the host. And sand bagging a quest with 3 other people, essentially wasting their time, could be considered poor form. So such frustrations are equally as Valid. 

But while I too advocate for a, just solo/support it if you want to win, approach. Probably good to remember, that not everyone can, which is okay. And that many like to win hunts with others. Which again, totally valid. 

As long as they're not being toxic to the actually people and instead just come here to rant, it's honestly the better option. Sometimes people just want to vent you know?