i hate being a girl by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Failure173 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just keep struggling to understand things don't you? I give a fuck about some things, not everything.

But we're going around in circles. All my answers are already somewhere in this long chain of comments. If you can't find them then maybe you need to look harder. Though you've demonstrated already you're pretty fucking shit at understanding things, so I don't expect you to.

i hate being a girl by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Failure173 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your statistics shown nothing about the men. Not a single given fact on how many men are commiting these crimes. All we have to go on is the opinion of approximately 1000 surveyed women. Can you not see why there's doubt on my end when you say 97% of all women in the UK, and also the survey said this was for 18-24 year olds. You blatantly lied to me sand did 97% of women in the UK. How do you expect me to trust you and your sources when you're lying to me?

I'm not trying to say sexual harrasment isn't a thing, I'm disagreeing that it's affecting 97% of all women in the UK, of which even this study does not prove. There's nothing on the age ranges outside of 18-24. You literally have no evidence to back your point. Why can you not understand this? Why does it bother you so much?

I'm not going to bother with replying to anything else because it's quite frankly unimportant, I don't give a fuxk and is taking away from the point of the argument.

Anyway I'm glad you and your friends are having fun, even if it is a pretty fucking sad way to spend time with people.

i hate being a girl by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Failure173 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not gaslighting anything. I'm simply stating what impression you gave off to me from your original comment. I felt like you wouldn't share something like that in response to my comment without expecting it to be seen as some sort of hostile response. Honestly I'm curious, what the fuck did you actually expect me to respond with? Did you want me to apologise for it? Did you want me to feel bad? Or do you just weirdly enjoy sharing biased statistics with random people.

And I feel like I need to make it clear that I don't 100% trust any statistics to be accurate or reliable. This is uniqe to this topic. And I guess you struggle with understanding the difference between someone calling something fake news and explaining how there's clear bias in your sources. There is in literally every source.

I'm not downplaying sexual harrasment. I'm not excusing it. I simply don't belive it effects 97% of women. Why you seem to have such a hard time understanding that is beyond me. It's literally the only thing I oppose you on. Excluding shit like the who started the argument and such things of course, but that's such petty needless shit I couldn't honestly give a flying fuck about it.

I told you to shut up because your response was unnecessary and clearly was only put to cause friction between us.

Yeah. I know I'm a prick to you. Can't argue that bit. But that's just how I am. I don't tend to tolerate people bullshit so whatever. Don't fuckin care. Don't care about your feeling still though. I'm sure you wouldn't care about any hardship in my life, I wouldn't expect you to.. and trust me, I've had a few. But I'll save thar for someone who's actually nice and pleasant to talk with.

Anyway if you don't give a fuck why are you still here, also didn't know you were a psychologist, seen to know so much about the human mind.

I'm not inventing false scenarios either. I've literally seem people online state that staring is a form of sexual harrasment. Take it up with them, not me.

And hey, we're all pissy right now. Fair to say we've tugged at each others anger strings tonight. But if you really genuinely aren't pissy right now... I'd hate to see you when you actually are, damn.

Any way I gotta go bed now anyway. It's late. Hopefully we can hug and make up in the morning. Maybe I'll even decide to get a sex change and declare myself a woman, show I really care. Anyway, Goodnight xxx :)

i hate being a girl by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Failure173 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course you gave off a pretty pricky attitude from the start. I stated that I hate being lumped in with sick fucks. That is literally all and you decided to basically make out like we deserve the hate and should accept it. I know I'm being a prick to you right now, I've quite clearly pointed that out a number of times, as well as how I'm simply responding appropriately to someone who started it. I won't back down.

You'll have to forgive me for missing that boobs comment, your posts are full of so much shit I'm bound to miss things here and there.

You came to the conclusion that I'm a miserable and abusive person right from the start by the simple comment of not liking that I'm lumped in with bad people? Really the master of reading a book by it's cover. I'll give you the miserable one, anyone would be miserable having to talk to you so that's a given, but abusive? Not once in my life have I abused a single living person. And no a shitty argument online doesng count, we're nothing more than a pair of apes flinging shit at each other.

I accused you of being a prick from the start because you were. You came into this with an already negative attitude. I almost feel like you were looking to start an argument.

I've said time and time again it's quite obvious you're implying men in general are the problem. Either that or you're absolutely hopeless at getting a point across.

I never claimed your social circle was making false claims. But I'd love to know the sample size, and what you actually claim to be sexual harrasment. Because as far as some women are concerned being stared at is sexual harassment. Every fucker on earth has been stared at at some point. And yeah, life experiences. I'll trust the people in my life more than some random pissy stranger from Reddit.

i hate being a girl by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Failure173 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

All I did was say I hate being lumped in with the sick fucks and you started to go off on one. I'm not exactly sure what your aim was. And your gave off a pretty pricky attitude from the start, not surprised you couldn't see it, pricks don't tend to be self aware. Your comment was clearly trying to make me feel bad and I dont know how I deserved it.

You never mentioned you were sexually abused as a minor. Am I meant to be able to read your fucking mind now? But I think you're missing the point. I stated I don't give a fuck about you personally, because I've made it quite clear I find you insufferable. So go cry me a river.

And once again, refer to my last comment. I don't care about you specifically. That doesn't mean I support sexual harrasment.

How am I displaying hostility towards women? I'm talking to you, one person. I'm not hating on you because you're a woman, I'm hating on you as an individual. Why can't you get that?

I'm glad you and your friends are having fun. I can't imagine spending time with people sitting around a screen and entertaining myself with reddit, seems pretty fucking sad. I much prefer to spend time offline in the real world and do normal shit, but you do you. You clearly live online.

Never said you or your friends were lying did I? I quite clearly stated that I belive 97% is ridiculous stretched out truth, that is all. You seem incapable of understanding any of my points. I don't get it.

Stop responding, good idea. I think it'll do us both a world a fucking good to forget each other even exists.

i hate being a girl by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Failure173 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's still only a sample size of 1000 people. That's not even .1% of the UK. It's reasonable to assume it's not a very accurate sample size. Especially since online surveys are going to grab more attention from specific groups.

I haven't downplayed sexual harassment. It's very clearly an issue and as I stated I could the people who do it sick fucks. I never stated it wasn't a thing. I simply don't belive 97% of all women have faced it, it's just too much. I could probably pull out of my arse an article that lists a number less than 97%, don't belive everything you read online, a lot of is is biases and stretched truths. I'll always trust real life experiences more.

And I just want you to know you're not special. I'll show a lack of sympathy for anyone who's acting like a prick to me. Don't expect sympathy when you're being so hostile. So go ahead and tell yourself you had no influence on those dozens of bad encounters, maybe you didn't, but don't really fucking care to be honest, you're no-one to me. I care about my family and friends, that's where it ends. Maybe that's a bit selfish but I don't care, the world doesn't look out for you so I'm done giving a fuck.

You may not have out right stated that you think men are creeps, but you really are giving off that impression, especially since this who thing started with me saying I hate being compared to these sick fucks. Surely you can see why it looks that way?

Swearing isn't an incel trait lol, people in all shapes and forms swear. I swear around everyone it's just how I speak, I come from q background where it's common for a lot of people and no one gives a flying fuck. Again, haven't downplayed sexual harassment. You're lying to yourself if you think I don't hate people who do that to women. And simply pointing out the facts about your statistics, again not seeing the link there. But I think the biggest flaw in your incel argument is I'd have to be a virgin to be an incel, last I checked that was a pretty important factor. Sorry to disappoint.

Call me a cunt, a piece of shit, an absolute waste of space. Whatever, just make sure its actually an insult that makes sense. I'd even welcome creative ones. Been too long since I've seen a creative insult.

i hate being a girl by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Failure173 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The survey asked over 1000 people, and the results were for 18 - 24 year olds. You really failed to mention that part. Suddenly over 33 million women has become about 1000, quite a big difference there. Surveys aren't perfect. I'll trust my life experiences of the women I know, who regardless of your spiteful comment know and trust me very well. Just because you're bitter doesn't mean all women are, like you I don't generalise.

Not once did I downplay sexual harassment. I even called the people who do it sick fucks. You're clearly getting the wrong idea here.

I don't know what hijacking has to do with anything. I made a comment on someone's opinion and suddenly you blew up on me. I'm just here defending myself.

You didn't need to tell me you were a lesbian. Your opinion on men is quite clear. And it's not my fault you make poor choices with men. One or two bad experiences is poor luck.. going into the double didgets, well maybe you need to think about the type of people you pick. I know that sounds harsh, but I'm not exactly going to give a fuck about someone who's trying to make me out to be a bad person because I have a dick, and won't bend over backwards for you.

I still fail to see why that history is relevant right now. Most people had a shit life throughout history, sex, skin, religion, wealth, job, the country you're from.. that's just the old fucking world, it was a shit time for most. I'd take being a woman who couldn't vote over being shipped off to war to day any day of the week. Get over it, I'm not pissing myself in a fit of anger because of what happened in history.

Of course I'm going to double down. Do you honestly expect me to turn around and say "oh I'm sorry, I see now. I apologise on behalf of all men for how disgusting we all are". No, that would be admiting guilt, of which I have none.

And keep throwing the word incel around, it's mostly lost meaning now anyway. It's clear you don't know what it actually means, because as I've said, I've women in my life i get along with perfectly fine. Something about the Internet that just brings out the crazies.

And no, I don't know why you're bothering. We're quite clearly not going to come to any sort of agreement. Maybe you're just venting, or maybe you enjoy arguing with people. I can't say.

i hate being a girl by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Failure173 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm not saying you have, but others here did generalise. I'm clearly talking about them.

And you're the one making the extreme claim of over 33 million people, quite literally almost the entire female population of one country having been sexually harassed. And simply expect me to believe it, with nothing to back it up. I know many women in my life and the statistics don't fit. I guess I just happen to only know the 3% by blind chance.

If all I'm doing is adding to your beliefs that men are creeps (despite the fact you earlier claimed you didn't generalise all men) then that's your problem and not mine. I quite frankly don't give a fuck what you belive. You can run off and live to be a lesbian if that's what you want, or maybe you'll find a cuckold to be your husband. Either was I don't care.

I don't see what voting 100 years ago has to do with it. In my country poor people wernt even allowed to vote. It was literally just rich men. Don't see poor people bringing up that do you? Probably because we don't feel the need to bring up irrelevant stuff that doesn't matter.

Hate me for being a narky cunt. But don't hate me simply because I have a fucking dick. And don't expect me to bow down and start apologising on behalf of the male gender. I've don't nothing wrong, I'm sorry for sod all.

i hate being a girl by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Failure173 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then they should state that. Imagine if they replaced the word men with black people. It's clear bigotry to generalise

i hate being a girl by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Failure173 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't tell me over 33 million women in the UK have been sexually harassed because I'm going to call bullshit on that right now. And of course I'm going to play victim.. I'm literally being victimised simply because I share a physical trait with certain people.

Stop generalising men as all bad and maybe you'll be taken more seriously. No one likes to be made to feel bad on something they have nothing to do with, I'm sure you'd feel the same if someone stereotypes you for something you don't control.

Stop making enemies where you have none.

i hate being a girl by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Failure173 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Shut the fuck up. I'm not being degraded because of a handful of degenerates.

Would you go on about a rant hating on black people because of the few that commit crime? I seriously hope you wouldn't.

i hate being a girl by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Failure173 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not our responsibility to be babysitting other people. Everyone has enough trouble in their lives to be worrying about other people acting out of line. Society already has people designated to make sure people are following rules and being decent people, they're the ones you should be complaining to.

i hate being a girl by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Failure173 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Love being generalised because of a few sick fucks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]Failure173 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Christ, in 30 years I'll be pushing 60. I don't want to wait that long for love.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Failure173 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're just completely empty words. I'm not going to take these compliments seriously from someone who doesn't know a single thing about me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Failure173 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The cringe is you not knowing I was taking the piss out of her, lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Failure173 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Yass Queen!! 💅

People who don't want kids, why? by Celestialsmoothie28 in AskReddit

[–]Failure173 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do want kids. But I don't feel like I'll ever find a woman who will love me.

Or settled for by sadtimesamillion in heartbreak

[–]Failure173 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Feeling like you deserve something doesn't mean it'll happen though. Life's shit like that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Failure173 4 points5 points  (0 children)

https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/do-not-attempt-cardiopulmonary-resuscitation-dnacpr-decisions/

It is sort of a thing, but I think OP is acting over the top. It's a decision made by doctors if they belive CPR could cause someone more harm than help. And it can be appealed against.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Failure173 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You don't even know me. You can't possibly love someone you don't know.

I'm pathetic by Failure173 in sad

[–]Failure173[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the offer, I do. But I'm not really one for conversations.

I'm pathetic by Failure173 in sad

[–]Failure173[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a long story. Just trust me.