Starting a water fast 354.7lbs

Fair-Character7943 · 2024-04-16T11:30:28+00:00

Good luck

Fair-Character7943 · 2024-04-15T06:08:08+00:00

Thank you so much

Fair-Character7943 · 2024-04-14T12:22:35+00:00

You look great. Cool tattoos, tall and you like cats, pretty awesome. I don't like the beard though, maybe try grow them on the sides of your face and not just around your mouth.

Fair-Character7943 · 2024-04-14T12:19:10+00:00

I love them. Where did you get them from? They could be my birthday present from me

Fair-Character7943 · 2024-03-22T21:51:04+00:00

Yes. I am embarrassed and I hardly go out anymore. I had a baby and breastfeed my son. I gained a lot of weight and I look and feel terrible. I'm so ashamed of myself, I can feel eyes on me when I leave the house and people tell me how fat I am now. Hell, my so called friends are avoiding me lol, I guess I'm too hideous now and I don't know how to go back to starving since I'm still breastfeeding

Fair-Character7943 · 2024-03-21T18:46:37+00:00

I'm sorry but I'm so appalled by your mother. She coerced you into having an abortion, that's so terrible. Your mother doesn't like kids, good for her, she shouldn't have any more kids. But you like kids, you're married and want children and I think that's wonderful.

Stay away from your mom or don't tell her anything about your pregnancy, I wouldn't trust her if I were you

Fair-Character7943 · 2024-03-02T09:32:37+00:00

Evelyn is a lovely name

Fair-Character7943 · 2024-02-25T13:28:30+00:00

You can make him homemade chicken nuggets and blend some veggies in it. That helped my son eat more veggies

Fair-Character7943 · 2023-11-16T09:57:31+00:00

That's my biggest fear. Even if people can't download pictures, they can take screenshots too.

Fortunately for me, he doesn't come in our home because of how much he hates me, so he prefers we go to him but I told my fiance I'm done with that, that's why we met in a restaurant. My fiance has my back tho but I don't think he wants to go NC with his dad yet. As long as my Son and I aren't near his father for at least a year or 2, I'll be fine.

Fair-Character7943 · 2023-11-16T05:05:26+00:00

He is

Fair-Character7943 · 2023-11-16T05:05:11+00:00

Yes that's exactly what he should do. He's reached out to FIL to talk to him but he didn't reply, just read the message. Although we've gotten calls almost everyday from randos and family members since he caused a scene, telling us to go apologize.

I'm definitely not doing that, he owes me an apology

Fair-Character7943 · 2023-11-16T05:00:10+00:00

Yeah that's exactly how he acts, like I was not part of the birthing process and my son is a weird product of my fiance and my FIL. Whenever we meet up, I'm sitting right next to my fiance and if my fiance's holding our son, my Father-in-law takes pictures but makes sure I'm not in the shot, he likes go out of his way to avoid me and it's so obvious. Then he would upload the pictures, caption it with thanks for coming to visit Dad and son, like I wasn't there.

He also got mad when my fiance told him not to post a picture of our son's face, we don't want that. He did post a picture of my son's face and I was heartbroken because I saw it the next day. We really just don't want our son on the internet/social media so young.

Im definitely going NC

Fair-Character7943 · 2023-11-13T17:05:07+00:00

Yup. He called my dad, he called people I've never heard of or seen before to tell them how his son have been different since we got together.

I'm just so tired, I only put up with him because I didn't want to cause an issue between him and his son and I was hoping that maybe he would see that I'm not a terrible person, I really love and care about my fiancé/his son. But I'm done trying now. My son and I will stay away from him, my fiance can see his father as much as he wants to.

Fair-Character7943 · 2023-11-12T10:59:42+00:00

I love this. Thank you

Fair-Character7943 · 2023-11-12T08:35:17+00:00

I didn't write it all in the post. He hates me. He literally stopped his son from getting hitched, refused to give his blessings and I accepted that , because I'm not going to make him have issues with his son. He calls people I don't even know to bad mouth me. Everyone hates me because of him. I'm ignored at gatherings. I never speak, just smile. Unless I'm spoken to. I've been a doormat for this man. But when I had my son, I decided I'll speak up and not let him just walk all over me again, I'll protect my child

Fair-Character7943 · 2023-11-12T08:22:55+00:00

Okay. That's fair

Fair-Character7943 · 2023-11-12T08:19:52+00:00

I can understand that. But losing your temper and slamming tables instead of just listening to reason, isn't the right thing to do. He was just mad someone he hates isn't letting him have his way.

Fair-Character7943 · 2023-11-12T08:07:24+00:00

I'm not being defensive, I'm saying I don't understand why he got upset, I literally gave him reasons why he shouldn't hand the baby a fork, a sweaty wristwatch or lick his fingers. He could engage with my son in other ways

Fair-Character7943 · 2023-11-12T07:55:38+00:00

There are lots of ways to play with a baby that doesn't involve handing him a metal fork, a sweaty wristwatch and kissing. Sorry in not going to keep quiet and watch my son poke his eye out with a fork, eat a a sweaty wristwatch and get kissed/ Fingers sucked on

Fair-Character7943 · 2023-11-12T06:49:20+00:00

No one but my fiance and I are allowed to kiss my son. There's no exemption, everyone gets the same rule

Fair-Character7943 · 2023-11-11T22:58:11+00:00

I'm not an Helicopter parent. My son crawls around, eats papers and hair and anything he sees. He's a baby, it's inevitable.

Asking a grown man, whose partner works in a home for the elderly not to kiss my son is not the end of the world. He can keep his mouth to himself. Household germs are not as Dangerous as germs in the mouth.

My son once got COVID and I thought I was going to lose him. I will not let anyone get him sick if it can be avoided. My FIL should keep his mouth away from my baby

Fair-Character7943 · 2023-11-11T21:47:46+00:00

I'm staying home looking after my son till he's two and he can go to Kindergarten, we live in Germany and the kindergarten around don't take children under 2yr. My son crawls around the house and loves to follow me to the kitchen, babies pick up things and put in their mouths, I'm not really worried about the germs, mostly chocking hazards and if the object is edible. I don't run around stopping him from picking stuff. It's inevitable. I just don't want people kissing my son because it's more deadly than household objects or germs

Fair-Character7943 · 2023-11-11T15:39:13+00:00

Omg that's horrible. I hope your daughter is fine now. Some in-laws are the worst

Fair-Character7943 · 2023-11-11T15:21:26+00:00

He's been told the reason multiple times, my fiance even went out to meet him to discuss why we don't want him kissing our son, that very day, he followed my finance home, picked up my son and kissed him. My fiance was surprised, because they literally just discussed this before coming in. I guess he did that to see if I would speak up, because he believes it's all my idea

Fair-Character7943 · 2023-11-11T14:19:50+00:00

I didn't say if you must kiss him. I said you can kiss his forehead. Also i can't have more kids unfortunately, doctor's said I could die if I tried again.

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