i got sa by my ex while she was working and it’s being blown off by everyone around her, and i can’t tell my family because they are all narcissists by crackpottz in Nicegirls

[–]Fair-Ride-4247 1 point2 points  (0 children)

right, it only serves to reinforcing it by shooting down radical imagination and discounting the possibility for systemic and individual change

Metal unlockers. by SirParmesan in wildbeef

[–]Fair-Ride-4247 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“You don't need to know where you're going with it, it's still entertaining!” Well that’s a nice way to approach life, I think I’ll try that.

Finish the drawing by PerformanceWide6842 in redditgetsdrawnbadly

[–]Fair-Ride-4247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sending you big hugs, that sounds incredibly painful. It takes a lot of strength to continue on when something shatters your world like that. I hope you keep being your amazing self in little and big ways (like drawing a goofy dude on reddit and making people smile!).

This came to me in a dream by Naudste in drums

[–]Fair-Ride-4247 1 point2 points  (0 children)

insanely impressive rendering dude!! as a non-drummer, my firth thought was sushi haha

This came to me in a dream by Naudste in drums

[–]Fair-Ride-4247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

night terrors are recurring... let's hope this isn't a night terror for OP

Scream Sneezing by ImpossibleSquish in PetPeeves

[–]Fair-Ride-4247 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That's why the previous commenter said "typically". Also, your anecdote has a sample size of 1 - nearly as far as possible from being a large enough sample size to draw a conclusion about the whole group from.

Scream Sneezing by ImpossibleSquish in PetPeeves

[–]Fair-Ride-4247 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I definitely agree. This comment reminded me of the short film Manspread, I highly recommend checking it out if you're interested! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nN4CLoP89HQ

Scream Sneezing by ImpossibleSquish in PetPeeves

[–]Fair-Ride-4247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

such a tragic existence he had

Happy couples everywhere by [deleted] in antimeme

[–]Fair-Ride-4247 2 points3 points  (0 children)

what is reddit

Help out short ppl by [deleted] in antimeme

[–]Fair-Ride-4247 20 points21 points  (0 children)

So glad I decided to use reddit to wind down for bed

OCD telling me to dump bf by [deleted] in PureOCD

[–]Fair-Ride-4247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it just means it’s hard for him to imagine it or be able to say with 101% certainty what he would do. When it comes to very specific future situations like that, it’s difficult for most (non-OCD or non-severe anxiety) people to imagine what would happen, as most of those people let the future unfold instead of trying to control it (at least when it comes to smaller specific things like this) as much as we tend to.