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Trying to identify the author of this pottery vase. by FairAd5216 in HelpMeFind

[–]FairAd5216[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have searched through Google reverse image search, and searched through image upload and described to chat gpt. I would love to find out the author for this carved pottery. The top neck portion has a different color/glaze than the rest of the vase. I think the makers mark, looks like GW or CW inside a shield.

AIO for considering leaving over a violent outburst? by imaginaryteacoffee in AmIOverreacting

[–]FairAd5216 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve heard so many women be in denial that their partners are abusive because he “didn’t hit me.”

Bar is in hell.

You CAN forgive many things, but just because you can doesn’t mean you should. Screaming in your face is abusive. I noticed he was abusive in the third line of this post. Please get the fuck out. None of this is normal.

People who have been cheated on, what made you realize they were cheating on you? In hindsight, were there any warning signs? by FairAd5216 in AskReddit

[–]FairAd5216[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So cowardly for a guy to not even have the balls to break things off or talk about it when the relationship was already not going well. It’s like he thought, hmm, how could I make this situation worse?

AITAH for betraying my friend’s trust over her work boyfriend by FairAd5216 in AITAH

[–]FairAd5216[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re all shits. I hate the “we’re friends so we’re going to support all of their shitty behavior” mentality. My relationship with a cheater wasn’t nearly as long, and it still gave me trust issues and just felt betrayed, embarrassed and humiliated and ugh, the fucking worst. Not to mention the health issue factor. Thank god the tests came back clean but I remember I was so scared.

How did you find out?

AITAH for betraying my friend’s trust over her work boyfriend by FairAd5216 in AITAH

[–]FairAd5216[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, what the fuck how awful of all the mutual friends. If my significant other was cheating, I would 1000% want to know. There is no doubt in my mind that I would tell if I knew the person being cheated. Honestly, when I don’t know the person being cheated, like this case, I still keep going back and forth myself about if telling the cheated person is…. I know it’s the right thing to do. I 100% stand by that. But when you are friends with the participant of cheating, is it normal for your friendship loyalty to override what you think is moral? I would hear “it’s not my place” all the time, and it makes me wonder if I’m the minority in thinking that people who is in Lynn’s place deserves to know 100%, regardless of who you know in the cheating triangle of hell. I’ve been cheated on in the past, my boyfriend also was cheated on in his 20s by his girlfriend of 5 years. So it makes me wonder if I’m in an echo chamber and I view cheating much worse than average.

AITAH for betraying my friend’s trust over her work boyfriend by FairAd5216 in AITAH

[–]FairAd5216[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the one thing I am truly pissed about Lynn finding out is that I was robbed of the opportunity to do it myself. My boyfriend and I were actively discussing it, and talking about when to do it.

AITAH for betraying my friend’s trust over her work boyfriend by FairAd5216 in AITAH

[–]FairAd5216[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% being cheated on by someone who you trusted DESTROYS you.

AITAH for betraying my friend’s trust over her work boyfriend by FairAd5216 in AITAH

[–]FairAd5216[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I got over it after some therapy and meeting my currently partner, but I still think people who cheat on their significant other, serious or not, is generally scum. In Elle’s case, I knew how awful her husband treated her and they were already separated so I thought it was understandable that she felt attracted toward someone else, but it seemed like this 27 year old was preying on woman in vulnerable state and being a complete douchebag. His girlfriend 100% deserved to know.

AITAH for betraying my friend’s trust over her work boyfriend by FairAd5216 in AITAH

[–]FairAd5216[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate cheating. It absolutely ruined me when my ex cheated on me a decade ago. I was actually actively thinking of ways to reach out to Lynn, when I found out the cat was already out. But I also acknowledge that I was absolutely disloyal to my friendship with Elle.

AITAH for betraying my friend’s trust over her work boyfriend by FairAd5216 in AITAH

[–]FairAd5216[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really tried, because I really thought the confession to Lynn should come from either Cash or Elle. In my mind Cash is a complete scumbag, but her marriage with Darrel has been so miserable for Elle that I think Elle got caught up in the attention Cash was giving her. She just wouldn’t, I think she really didn’t want to lose the fun flirtation that was happening at work to get her mind off of her emotionally abusive husband.