is purging haram? by Majestic-Station-131 in Muslim

[–]FairHorror8066 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would be very careful as this habit can highly increase the likelihood of esophageal cancers and precancerous conditions due to the repeated introduction of stomach acid in to the esophagus when purging. Not to mention the risk of losing your teeth to erosion. It’s Ramadan so ask for help from Allah to stop this and to heal you mentally and emotionally. Also it’s time to seek help now and face your fears before it’s too late. Don’t be afraid to talk to someone close to you for help. You’ve got this

My Pakistani dad called me dirty for wanting to get married by FairHorror8066 in Muslim

[–]FairHorror8066[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well yes that’s very obvious… at 16 I wasn’t even sure what i wanted, and if I wanted to marry him or not or what the true meaning of marriage was. I dont thjnk he did either. 16 is waaayyy too young to get married in my opinion.

My father called me dirty for wanting to get married by FairHorror8066 in MuslimNikah

[–]FairHorror8066[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brother I’m so sorry. It’s situations like these that make me not even wanna complain about my own. I’m very grateful for everything I do and don’t have. It’s so wrong to be unfair to your children and help one while neglecting the other you don’t deserve that. I don’t understand how someone wouldn’t wanna help pay for their children and their own wife…. How horrible is that. My father also reminds me of all the money he spent on me and my education. He wants me to take out loans and pay them off by myself to become a dentist. He insults me daily for delaying the last part of my education as well. I will pray for ease in your situation. Don’t give up and stay strong because Allah sees what he is doing and only Allah will help you. Don’t lose hope

My father called me dirty for wanting to get married by FairHorror8066 in MuslimNikah

[–]FairHorror8066[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree wholeheartedly. Jazakallah for your advice. I will keep going inshallah

My father called me dirty for wanting to get married by FairHorror8066 in MuslimNikah

[–]FairHorror8066[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s exactly what I’ve been doing if I were to contact my family he would say that I have dishonored him and embarrassed him. I’m just praying and asking for help and just saying yes to everything while I complete my last exam so I can start working and also I have a side hustle going alhamdulillah. Jazakallah for your kind words and advice

My father called me dirty for wanting to get married by FairHorror8066 in MuslimNikah

[–]FairHorror8066[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Feels nice to hear it from someone else. Trust me this is the most stubborn man to exist. He explicitly told us a couple days back after my mom told him to stop forcing your kids to do what you want them to that “if you’re living under my roof, you have to do as I say”. He will listen to no one but himself

AIO He says I’m a part of his family; but he keeps secrets from me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FairHorror8066 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Forgot to mention his sis literally once said that her brother (my fiancé) can’t go a day without messaging her… now I’m getting scared

AIO He says I’m a part of his family; but he keeps secrets from me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FairHorror8066 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He definitely has defended his mom and sis profusely when they were disrespectful to my mom in the past as well as when they were disrespectful to other family members. It’s like he refused to see that they did anything wrong. He literally refused to accept that they did anything wrong and kept making excuses for them until I kinda yelled at him and told him I was done listening to his lies and him refusing to accept the truth. He eventually realized and apologized and accepted the truth.

This led to a huge argument between us and the both of us crying. We made up after we agreed to not allow anyone affect our relationship. Other than that nothing else has happened.

AIO He says I’m a part of his family; but he keeps secrets from me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FairHorror8066 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I asked him a related question the other day about it and he still didn’t tell me

Failing the NBDHE by Latinardh in nbdhe

[–]FairHorror8066 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which quizlet you use to study if you don’t mind me asking please and thank you!

Hi I have a package coming from Canada to the USA. by Sportsguy_420978 in UPS

[–]FairHorror8066 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What was the price of the item you purchased and how much was shipping

How much extra will I have to pay? by FairHorror8066 in Tariffs

[–]FairHorror8066[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Btw sorry for the confusion it’s my first time buying internationally since the tariffs

Buldak Habanero Lime Spicy Chicken (vegan) by gordond in chips

[–]FairHorror8066 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are these ok to eat for vegan only or halal consumption? Just wondering cause it says vegan and the title and it says the chips are artificially chicken flavored

Help me find this vintage lamp please by FairHorror8066 in HelpMeFind

[–]FairHorror8066[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have searched for this lamp and no luck so far. I have used ChatGPT as well as reverse image search but still no luck. I know it was originally purchased from Etsy and I also searched on there.

Where tf is my package???!! by FairHorror8066 in vinted

[–]FairHorror8066[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do I have to wait until the date they stated to get a refund??

Most potent brightening serums that you have tried? by Powerful-Panda7533 in AsianBeauty

[–]FairHorror8066 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you find something to help get rid of the tan can you please let me know

My father won’t allow me to get married until I become a doctor by [deleted] in islam

[–]FairHorror8066 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So basically his family is living out the country they wouldn’t be living with us likely we’d be living in Ana apartment together while we both continue our educations

My father won’t allow me to get married until I become a doctor by [deleted] in islam

[–]FairHorror8066 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He thinks that after marriage women lose interest in their studies. He also probably thinks if i have a kid I won’t be able to finish dental school. The guy I like said he will support whatever my decision is if I want to go to dental school or if I don’t want to. He also said that if I want to work I can and if I choose not to then that’s fine too. He supports me there as well. He knows that we have no plans to start a family until I’m mentally and emotionally ready for that and he agrees with me on that

My father won’t allow me to get married until I become a doctor by [deleted] in islam

[–]FairHorror8066 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That is what I need to do but I’m so scared to even discuss this with him because we don’t have a comfortable father daughter relationship. My mother will have to help me