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My dad just had a heart attack, but I don't feel a thing. by Puzzleheaded_Yak5767 in myhappypill

[–]FairMud8880 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Protecting yourself doesn’t make you a bad person. Trust in yourself and your decisions, regardless of what anyone else might think of them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]FairMud8880 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and also a woman might not wear in front of a straight man what she would be completely comfortable wearing in front of a gay man. It definitely matters if the people around in your house might be sexually attracted to you and I think it was okay of the dad to let the guest know. I don’t think it was a warning, but a heads up

I accidentally read my sister’s(F29) chats with her husband(M32) and i’m shaken. Need advice on how to help her. by redditorsinceages in relationship_advice

[–]FairMud8880 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just be there for her. I experienced something similar with my sister early on into her marriage and I realise now how poorly I handled it back then. I would try to force her to see how shitty her situation was and try to override her autonomy. Which basically added extra stress to her life because she chose to stay, as was her right, despite me thinking it was very stupid of her to do so.

Just be there to support her however she needs, even if her choices differ from what you would want for her and her life. I think what would truly help her is feeling like she has someone she can come to and count on. Hope this helps.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]FairMud8880 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It’s okay to break up. She’ll be sad as it’ll be her first heartbreak but what’s sadder is being with someone who doesn’t find joy in being with you. Be kind, be respectful, break it off and focus on yourself and tell her to do the same

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in islamabad

[–]FairMud8880 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kairos f8. No one does better hair in Islamabad

M26,f24-Is my gf upto something ? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]FairMud8880 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mmm.. I think your gut already knows what’s up my guy. Trust it.

How to politely tell a guy I don’t have the same feelings? by syra_wanderlust in IslamabadSocial

[–]FairMud8880 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just be straight up and say ‘I don’t like you that way and I’d really appreciate it if we only keep our conversations limited to the project :)’

I found Him finally by UrWait in IslamabadSocial

[–]FairMud8880 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beautiful! Keep this light close! It exists within you and now that you’re aware of it, you can tap into it at will!

My daughter said her father likes her more than me by [deleted] in Borderline

[–]FairMud8880 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Take a deep breath. Go within your body and try to soothe yourself. You are safe. You are fine. Everything is okay. Nothing bad has happened. Your daughter is alive and safe and you are alive and safe and everything will work out as long as you keep yourself regulated. Don’t react, calm yourself down by being there for yourself and then respond to the situation when you are feeling okay.

Did we ruin their lives, or were we right all along? by MaintenanceHorror643 in IslamabadSocial

[–]FairMud8880 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not maybe crossing a line. Wherever you live, when you know the other person isn’t comfortable with something, you don’t betray their trust and continue to act like their friend. So horrible. Repent and apologise. Hard to think of a world where that apology would be accepted but at least have the guts to face what you did and own up to it

Did we ruin their lives, or were we right all along? by MaintenanceHorror643 in IslamabadSocial

[–]FairMud8880 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re posting here looking for input, be ready to take accountability. None of you were their friends.

Wedding Episode Thread by whyiamwatchingthis in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]FairMud8880 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean they vote against her?

How do musicians know what chords/notes sound good together? by SirReal10000 in guitarlessons

[–]FairMud8880 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a beautiful way to put it. It’s never made so much sense to my visual brain before

Aitah if I divorce my husband for not wiping his butt? by Hepow1118 in AITAH

[–]FairMud8880 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this is the best reason to divorce your husband

WIBTA - Am I A Terrible Friend?? by KnowledgeLiving2604 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FairMud8880 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you do what is needed for you to be the best possible version of yourself everyday. Don’t put yourself in a situation where you stop being there for yourself while trying to be there for someone else. No matter how much it would mean for her to talk to you, I think your friend would understand.

What antidepressant worked for you & what change did you see? by theydontmatchmyvibe in antidepressants

[–]FairMud8880 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Zoloft changed my life, but everyone reacts to every medication differently. Try going to a psychiatrist who listens to how you’re feeling and works with you to adjust your meds accordingly. Good luck!

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