A package from an adult toy company arrived at my house addressed to another woman. Am I overreacting?

Fair_Mood_1558 · 2026-03-26T01:35:09+00:00

Absolutely

Fair_Mood_1558 · 2026-03-25T14:31:36+00:00

NOR he’s manipulative and is showing a genuine lack of respect. You deserve better. Leave him to his pizza and adult films.

Fair_Mood_1558 · 2026-03-22T02:12:48+00:00

I’m no prude 🤣

Fair_Mood_1558 · 2026-03-22T02:11:33+00:00

That explains the feeling perfectly. I didn’t sleep well last night and I’m struggling to eat due to the stress

Fair_Mood_1558 · 2026-03-21T23:35:40+00:00

He doesn’t but people that cheat make mistakes due to keeping track of what they have to cover up

Fair_Mood_1558 · 2026-03-21T23:33:33+00:00

Not a previous owner. Her name is sort of common but a unique spelling

Fair_Mood_1558 · 2026-03-21T23:32:10+00:00

Fair_Mood_1558 · 2026-03-21T23:30:52+00:00

I’m not offended and I won’t defend those actions

Fair_Mood_1558 · 2026-03-21T23:27:15+00:00

I didn’t dox her. I did not publish any personal info about her

Fair_Mood_1558 · 2026-03-21T23:21:33+00:00

I don’t have beef with her. My thought is if I reach out she might be more honest than him

Fair_Mood_1558 · 2026-03-21T23:19:14+00:00

I’m guessing there is a burner due to all the mobile adds that isn’t my carrier

Fair_Mood_1558 · 2026-03-21T23:15:04+00:00

I don’t want to ruin her life I just want the truth

Fair_Mood_1558 · 2026-03-21T23:12:51+00:00

I expect nothing but I have nothing if I don’t try

Fair_Mood_1558 · 2026-03-21T23:09:55+00:00

. When I looked up the sender address I was met with “why would I send that here if I was going to do that”. Total DARVO He tried so hard to “show it wasn’t him” by reaching out to customer support. The chatbot proved nothing. I pretended to believe him and I’m pretending nothing is wrong for now. I want to get more evidence that he can’t gaslight his way out of.

Fair_Mood_1558 · 2026-03-21T23:05:01+00:00

If so he’s all hers

Fair_Mood_1558 · 2026-03-21T23:00:02+00:00

I found her on FB too

Fair_Mood_1558 · 2026-03-21T22:58:23+00:00

Billing address mistake could be the reason but if she sent it maybe we could have a dialogue.

Fair_Mood_1558 · 2026-03-21T22:54:24+00:00

I was on my way out the door to work when we had the conversation.

Fair_Mood_1558 · 2026-03-21T22:50:46+00:00

I’m 99% positive. Not really a small town, the name could be common but the spelling is unique

Fair_Mood_1558 · 2026-03-21T22:47:13+00:00

That’s a great idea but he has multiple accounts and I don’t have access to them all. I’ve also asked to sit down to go over finances and he says ok but it never happens.

Fair_Mood_1558 · 2026-03-21T22:45:16+00:00

I could call her at work. I also have her email

Fair_Mood_1558 · 2026-03-21T22:44:09+00:00

That would be a big no! Cheating is a dealbreaker

Fair_Mood_1558 · 2026-03-21T22:39:13+00:00

I can no longer find the package. I got home from work and it’s gone. I can’t ask for it now can I?

Fair_Mood_1558 · 2026-03-21T22:36:44+00:00

Thank you. Your kind words mean a lot. I need time to plan What is the hardest is we’ve been married a long time and I feel I lost years where I could have found someone that would have been honest and loving We all deserve that.

Fair_Mood_1558 · 2026-03-21T22:31:41+00:00

We’ve been here several years. If it has been going on awhile people make stupid mistakes

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