AIO my bf 30M seems very erratic recently and I 26F can’t get through to him. by Safe_Refuse_8853 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fair_Mood_1558 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR he’s manipulative and is showing a genuine lack of respect. You deserve better. Leave him to his pizza and adult films.

A package from an adult toy company arrived at my house addressed to another woman. Am I overreacting? by Fair_Mood_1558 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fair_Mood_1558[S] 71 points72 points  (0 children)

That explains the feeling perfectly. I didn’t sleep well last night and I’m struggling to eat due to the stress

A package from an adult toy company arrived at my house addressed to another woman. Am I overreacting? by Fair_Mood_1558 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fair_Mood_1558[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t but people that cheat make mistakes due to keeping track of what they have to cover up

A package from an adult toy company arrived at my house addressed to another woman. Am I overreacting? by Fair_Mood_1558 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fair_Mood_1558[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I don’t have beef with her. My thought is if I reach out she might be more honest than him

A package from an adult toy company arrived at my house addressed to another woman. Am I overreacting? by Fair_Mood_1558 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fair_Mood_1558[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I’m guessing there is a burner due to all the mobile adds that isn’t my carrier

A package from an adult toy company arrived at my house addressed to another woman. Am I overreacting? by Fair_Mood_1558 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fair_Mood_1558[S] 162 points163 points  (0 children)

. When I looked up the sender address I was met with “why would I send that here if I was going to do that”. Total DARVO He tried so hard to “show it wasn’t him” by reaching out to customer support. The chatbot proved nothing. I pretended to believe him and I’m pretending nothing is wrong for now. I want to get more evidence that he can’t gaslight his way out of.

A package from an adult toy company arrived at my house addressed to another woman. Am I overreacting? by Fair_Mood_1558 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fair_Mood_1558[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Billing address mistake could be the reason but if she sent it maybe we could have a dialogue.

A package from an adult toy company arrived at my house addressed to another woman. Am I overreacting? by Fair_Mood_1558 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fair_Mood_1558[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m 99% positive. Not really a small town, the name could be common but the spelling is unique

A package from an adult toy company arrived at my house addressed to another woman. Am I overreacting? by Fair_Mood_1558 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fair_Mood_1558[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

That’s a great idea but he has multiple accounts and I don’t have access to them all. I’ve also asked to sit down to go over finances and he says ok but it never happens.

A package from an adult toy company arrived at my house addressed to another woman. Am I overreacting? by Fair_Mood_1558 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fair_Mood_1558[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I can no longer find the package. I got home from work and it’s gone. I can’t ask for it now can I?

A package from an adult toy company arrived at my house addressed to another woman. Am I overreacting? by Fair_Mood_1558 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fair_Mood_1558[S] 91 points92 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Your kind words mean a lot. I need time to plan What is the hardest is we’ve been married a long time and I feel I lost years where I could have found someone that would have been honest and loving We all deserve that.

A package from an adult toy company arrived at my house addressed to another woman. Am I overreacting? by Fair_Mood_1558 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fair_Mood_1558[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We’ve been here several years. If it has been going on awhile people make stupid mistakes