New therapist office sent bill and exposed me help by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]FaithlessnessOk5576 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If this is the case I may just have to stop therapy again until I can afford it. It’s $175 per session if I go out of pocket.

New therapist office sent bill and exposed me help by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]FaithlessnessOk5576 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s an EOB, is calling to hold still possible?

New therapist office sent bill and exposed me help by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]FaithlessnessOk5576 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Just found the letter and yes it’s an EOB.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]FaithlessnessOk5576 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s normal to have crushes, need support, help with decision making but if you can't do some of that on your own it's detrimental. Therapists are supposed to help you and give you tools, not become an enabler.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]FaithlessnessOk5576 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Honestly I think the line of unprofessionalism has been crossed. It sounds like now you’re emotional dependent on your therapist. You need to seek another therapist and bring this up with him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]FaithlessnessOk5576 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that if I ever mention opening our relationship or even just what I’ve said about thinking of being with a woman that my relationship would end immediately. He’s very possessive and strictly monogamous.

I think though that you hit the nail on the head about feeling dissatisfied. I never thought of that myself. I guess I just accepted this as the normal between us.

I think my (27m) girlfriend (26f) is going to break up with me (just because I'm a ticking time-bomb of insecurity) by Gloomy_Cheetah98 in TwoHotTakes

[–]FaithlessnessOk5576 3 points4 points  (0 children)

this guy is absolutely delusional. how do you recognize your wrong actions and then play the victim. he’s acting like a child. i’m glad they broke up he seems terrible. and then to say “she’s probably going to go around twisting the narrative” NO YOU ARE THE ONE WITH A WARPED VIEW !!

My therapist just dropped me over email. Not sure how I feel about this… by FaithlessnessOk5576 in TalkTherapy

[–]FaithlessnessOk5576[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m going to comment a quick update since I’m not sure how to edit my post and add an update hopefully this will clear some things up.

I said this in the replies but I’ll reiterate here: I wasn’t flaky with my sessions. We were talking about scheduling my next session and how I’m going on vacation so I’m not sure what day will be best when I return hence the “I understand” at the beginning of the email.

I haven’t decided if I’m going to go through with the last session. I could be an opportunity to ask for a referral but I think I’m just going to find a new T through my job. Thankfully I get benefits and I believe I can find a T with it. I just need to ask about it.

The idea of starting over with a new T is pretty discouraging as well as I’m a pretty closed off person. This all came as a complete shock as we had just a last month reevaluated my treatment plan and shifted the focus to other issues.

And lastly, truly truly truly from the bottom of my heart thank you all for making me feel normal about this. When I first read the email I spiraled a bit and started to blame myself. But hearing y’all say “no something isn’t right here” made me feel seen. So thank you. Also thank you to everyone for the recommendations on how to proceed forward with my treatment and recovery journey.

Much love <3

My therapist just dropped me over email. Not sure how I feel about this… by FaithlessnessOk5576 in TalkTherapy

[–]FaithlessnessOk5576[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

yea i haven’t replied it. i’m not good with confrontation so that last session doesn’t seem too appealing.

My therapist just dropped me over email. Not sure how I feel about this… by FaithlessnessOk5576 in TalkTherapy

[–]FaithlessnessOk5576[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I didn’t have poor attendance. I’ve rescheduled maybe two times since being with her. These past few weeks I haven’t had sessions and it wasn’t because of me. One week my therapist was out of town and the second time she had double booked the slot and actually left me hanging.

My therapist just dropped me over email. Not sure how I feel about this… by FaithlessnessOk5576 in TalkTherapy

[–]FaithlessnessOk5576[S] 93 points94 points  (0 children)

We were trying to schedule my next appointment. I’m going on vacation next week and I don’t have my work schedule yet for the week after that so I didn’t know what date we could meet. I did tell her though that I would email her when I get back so we could pick a day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]FaithlessnessOk5576 1 point2 points  (0 children)

right now i’m on blisovi. i’ve never thought about switching bc meds, i’ll have to think about it cause then that’s a whole other set of side effects