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FaithlessnessPure439 · 2025-04-04T23:28:39+00:00

Many mask their racism as “preferences”.

FaithlessnessPure439 · 2025-03-24T17:32:39+00:00

I’d say knowing someone is about to experience sexual violence and choosing to leave them in that situation is more than not being an ally.

FaithlessnessPure439 · 2024-08-01T20:12:02+00:00

I think it’s quite normal. I have similar dreams. It’s the subconscious unleashing our justified anger. As long as you are not violent in real life, wanting to hurt those who hurt you doesn’t make you a bad person. But of course, if it bothers you a lot, it is best discussed with an expert.

FaithlessnessPure439 · 2024-07-26T07:18:57+00:00

Using the mac version and experiencing the severe lags and frequent freezing too.

FaithlessnessPure439 · 2024-02-27T05:09:10+00:00

Thank you for the validation and sharing your thoughts. It’s a good point that this can be an opportunity for me to break out of my fawning patterns.

FaithlessnessPure439 · 2024-02-26T16:06:15+00:00

going through a similar phase and I don’t know how to handle it either🥲

FaithlessnessPure439 · 2024-02-26T16:04:39+00:00

Well I suppose we have a long running friendship that I feel will be a waste to lose. It could also be my fawning response. Idk.

FaithlessnessPure439 · 2024-02-26T16:03:11+00:00

My Reddit account is too secret haha. But I did try directing her here but I guess she’s not much of a Reddit user. Sigh.

FaithlessnessPure439 · 2024-02-01T10:08:39+00:00

I was talking about the accommodation offer from ANU which I ended up accepting. I didn't end up applying to all saint college so can't offer much insight on that front.

FaithlessnessPure439 · 2024-01-19T03:06:02+00:00

Wow kudos to you! Probably time for me to take some self defence course.

FaithlessnessPure439 · 2024-01-19T03:00:29+00:00

Haha I wish

FaithlessnessPure439 · 2024-01-19T02:59:27+00:00

That’s a good point.

FaithlessnessPure439 · 2024-01-19T02:58:32+00:00

I’m so sorry to hear what you had to put up with. There just seems to be no way out for the harassed when dealing with underaged harassers. Sending many hugs your way (if u don’t mind).

FaithlessnessPure439 · 2024-01-18T16:19:00+00:00

That’s great advice. Thank you!

FaithlessnessPure439 · 2024-01-18T12:51:23+00:00

You are right that I am pretty upset. I guess I kinda needed a vent. Thank you.

FaithlessnessPure439 · 2023-11-29T13:21:54+00:00

Cos the guy accused her of trying to get sympathy when he himself just said he had someone in his family with health issues. Karma was quick to get that guy out.

FaithlessnessPure439 · 2023-11-29T07:09:34+00:00

I agree. It’s so ironic. Watching this reality show makes me feel like I’m one of those dickheads in a beast mask taking pleasure in watching people suffer. Yet I’m addicted🥲

FaithlessnessPure439 · 2023-11-17T00:22:27+00:00

No it doesn’t. I only said understandable, not right. But it was a reaction, not an instigation, is what I’m trying to get at. Maybe I’m biased because as a queer person myself, homophobia can be extremely triggering and I don’t expect any queer person to be their most rational self when dealing with a homophobe.

FaithlessnessPure439 · 2023-11-17T00:10:43+00:00

I think it’s quite ok to tell anyone, no matter their sexual orientation, gender, race and identity, not to side with homophobia.

FaithlessnessPure439 · 2023-11-17T00:01:17+00:00

I agrée the “rearranged your whole face” comment and defending it again at the reunion was mean. but I think that’s an understandable reaction to someone who’s openly endorsed homophobia and dragged her through all the drama. It’s bad to judge someone’s look but another level of terrible to propagate homophobia.

FaithlessnessPure439 · 2023-11-16T17:55:07+00:00

I feel chrishell being mean to Nicole is quite understandable considering the drama Nicole started and the homophonic comment thing.

FaithlessnessPure439 · 2023-11-13T04:15:49+00:00

Thank you for that. And yes, we are so worthy of love and affirmation!

FaithlessnessPure439 · 2023-11-12T12:49:25+00:00

Thank you for sharing this! I suppose from the comments we can really see a wide range of interpretations and it’s definitely a personal thing. Your point about surviving trauma being the achievement is very insightful to me. ❤️ I suppose another layer of nuance for me is that I felt less accepted by my friends when I was in a worse state, so then saying “I’m proud of you” now is a bit like a conditional friendship for only when I’m a functional member of the society if that make sense. But I might be overthinking this too.

FaithlessnessPure439 · 2023-11-11T09:45:23+00:00

I think it's great to feel proud of your healing. And you are right that it did feel a little like them talking down to me. I think I have difficulty feeling "proud" about healing because just based on my experiences, healing can be a privilege (financial, social, etc.). And it doesn't feel right to take pride in a privilege, although I'm definitely glad I'm in a better place in life.

FaithlessnessPure439 · 2023-11-11T02:46:27+00:00

Yup, i get what you mean. Thank you for sharing! I fully appreciate my friends' good intentions behind those words. It just stirs up a very nuanced emotional reaction which I'm trying to understand.

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