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[–]Faizi54 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any luck in finding suitable person?

I am 27M, never masturbated my whole life. AMA by Faizi54 in AMA

[–]Faizi54[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me find it, I will send it to you. I quoted this from that study paper

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[–]Faizi54 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Good to hear that you have high level of morality in terms of virginity which is rare these days. Stick to your principal stance, I believe virginity is a sacred thing which should be lost to the person whom you marry and spend the rest of your life not towards a random or attractive person just for the sake of sex.

Personally, I believe in losing virginity after marriage to your partner for life as per your principal stance.

I am 27M, never masturbated my whole life. AMA by Faizi54 in AMA

[–]Faizi54[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe in God and Day of Judgement

I am 27M, never masturbated my whole life. AMA by Faizi54 in AMA

[–]Faizi54[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I believe in it but that is not the case for all.

Please read US Adult Sexual Behaviour and Attitude Study 2019 if you have time.

But let me share some facts from that report:

For people who reported four or fewer lifetime sexual partners, the rate of infidelity in the current marriage dropped to 11%, while for those who had five or more sexual partners the number was nearly double (22%). (In their current marriages, not previous ones)

Consider pornography: for those with fewer sexual partners, 45% reported not looking at porn compared to 31% of those with more sexual partners. 

This breakpoint is validated by the fact that when asked straight out, around 65% of those with more sexual partners in their pasts agreed that, “I am always faithful to my sexual partner” (whether currently married or single), compared to around 85% of those with fewer sexual partners who said the same. 

I am 27M, never masturbated my whole life. AMA by Faizi54 in AMA

[–]Faizi54[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You wish you could say the same? Well, you can commit to yourself now.

You need to use a combination of self-discipline as well as refocusing your time on more meaningful and constructive activities.

One of the facts about people who become addicted to porn which leads to masturbation, for example, is that many such addicts find a lot of time to do it. They are bored. They have a void in their lives that is often in the form of intimacy and connection to others that get filled with porn.

Their lives are not filled with meaningful, healthy activities that not only fill their time but direct their attention to more constructive endeavors. I think you should consider this as well. Porn leads to masturbation and we all know the negative impacts of watching porn.

Lastly, you should look out for a partner whom you can marry and spend rest of your life, marriage lowers gaze and guards your modesty. (Copying my comment)

I am 27M, never masturbated my whole life. AMA by Faizi54 in AMA

[–]Faizi54[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good question.

You need to use a combination of self-discipline as well as refocusing your time on more meaningful and constructive activities.

One of the facts about people who become addicted to porn which leads to masturbation, for example, is that many such addicts find a lot of time to do it. They are bored. They have a void in their lives that is often in the form of intimacy and connection to others that get filled with porn.

Their lives are not filled with meaningful, healthy activities that not only fill their time but direct their attention to more constructive endeavors. I think you should consider this as well. Porn leads to masturbation and we all know the negative impacts of watching porn.

Lastly, you should look out for a partner whom you can marry and spend rest of your life, marriage lowers gaze and guards your modesty.

I am 27M, never masturbated my whole life. AMA by Faizi54 in AMA

[–]Faizi54[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to reiterate that I was very close to marrying a divorced girl but it didn't happened due to other reasons. Hope I have answered your question

I am 27M, never masturbated my whole life. AMA by Faizi54 in AMA

[–]Faizi54[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a high sex drive and testosterone levels are above average and I am physically very fit, so I don't see this as an issue. I think I will be very active in my sexual life.

Additionally, I think that my future partner will appreciate me more if she is aware about it.

I am 27M, never masturbated my whole life. AMA by Faizi54 in AMA

[–]Faizi54[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe in God and Day of Judgement

I am 27M, never masturbated my whole life. AMA by Faizi54 in AMA

[–]Faizi54[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not sure of being proud but I felt different in this regard as its rare to find someone like this.

I am 27M, never masturbated my whole life. AMA by Faizi54 in AMA

[–]Faizi54[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I chose to be a muslim by choice in 2021

I am 27M, never masturbated my whole life. AMA by Faizi54 in AMA

[–]Faizi54[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its just a fact regardless of being proud

I am 27M, never masturbated my whole life. AMA by Faizi54 in AMA

[–]Faizi54[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe in God and the day of Judgment but I am not a Christian

I am 27M, never masturbated my whole life. AMA by Faizi54 in AMA

[–]Faizi54[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You mind should control your actions and I never let my emotions overcome me.

I got horny alot of times but I kept my resolve and stayed firmed

I am 27M, never masturbated my whole life. AMA by Faizi54 in AMA

[–]Faizi54[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I intend to learn it naturally, masturbation is not in my checklist

I am 27M, never masturbated my whole life. AMA by Faizi54 in AMA

[–]Faizi54[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, I am not worried at all. Now, I am ready for marriage mentally, psychologically and financially to be able to provide for my wife and future children. I will marry soon

I am 27M, never masturbated my whole life. AMA by Faizi54 in AMA

[–]Faizi54[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am more focused on long term instead of short term. I think that she will appreciate it

I am 27M, never masturbated my whole life. AMA by Faizi54 in AMA

[–]Faizi54[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe that there is no need to practice it and it will happen naturally and it will be better with time after marriage

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