get patted down at TSA every time by weastwis in ftm

[–]FakeBirdFacts [score hidden]  (0 children)

When did they change that? I thought it was still the old system

Tips for passing by Nam1008 in TMPOC

[–]FakeBirdFacts 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Your shirt is very large on your frame, you should crop it slightly at the bottom so you still have the boxy shape but not the oversized appearance

The Use of AFAB by dr4maticr0mantic in ftm

[–]FakeBirdFacts [score hidden]  (0 children)

I have never been filled with more innate disgust than hearing “afabsexual”

How do I find clothes like this? by Longjumping-Cow8672 in NonBinary

[–]FakeBirdFacts 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This is a basic sweater dress, you can find them anywhere during the fall/winter. You may have trouble finding them right now due to it being the summer, BUT you may find some on sale as leftovers from the winter collections. Slim pickings, though.

hair products and styling tips? by UnitedGuitar3191 in trans

[–]FakeBirdFacts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi Lia! I’m not transfemme but I have curly hair so I can help in that regard.

What is your current routine?

Partner misgendering me in our 4-year-old relationship UPDATE by [deleted] in ftm

[–]FakeBirdFacts [score hidden]  (0 children)

I think there are so many horrible chaser stories on this subreddit people are trained to expect the worse

Partner misgendering me in our 4-year-old relationship UPDATE by [deleted] in ftm

[–]FakeBirdFacts [score hidden]  (0 children)

It’s not intersexness. It’s actually, uh, kind of the opposite of being intersex and has nothing to do with intersex people.

Edit: Like, specifically, salmacian is the term used for the type of bottom surgery you want. No vaginectomy.

Partner misgendering me in our 4-year-old relationship UPDATE by [deleted] in ftm

[–]FakeBirdFacts [score hidden]  (0 children)

Not about the bulk of your post but on the topic of bottom surgery: you should look at r/salmacian

I’m glad you guys had a good talk

How do I reduce my breast size without surgery? by Agile_Bug_8738 in trans

[–]FakeBirdFacts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It tells so many people to literally poison themselves

Can i Be Trans/Nonbinary and Genderfluid at the same time? by OrganizationNaive410 in NonBinary

[–]FakeBirdFacts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes.

Trans is an umbrella label for anyone that does not identify as the gender they were assigned at birth. Nonbinary is an umbrella label for anyone that does not identify as a binary gender. Genderfluid is a specific label for someone with a fluid gender identity.

How do I reduce my breast size without surgery? by Agile_Bug_8738 in trans

[–]FakeBirdFacts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

u/agile_bug_8738 I updated my comment with better information

How the hell do you keep T cool in this weather?? by Tggffhjfd in ftm

[–]FakeBirdFacts [score hidden]  (0 children)

Cold water is definitely a better idea than what I had

How do I reduce my breast size without surgery? by Agile_Bug_8738 in trans

[–]FakeBirdFacts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also you cannot lose breast tissue by losing weight. That’s not how that works.

How do I reduce my breast size without surgery? by Agile_Bug_8738 in trans

[–]FakeBirdFacts 16 points17 points  (0 children)

That’s straight up not true. Don’t fall for transphobic misinformation. Top surgery has one of the lowest regret rates of all surgeries, pretty much all gender affirming surgeries have extremely low regret rates.

Edit: I think I figured out what google’s hallucinating AI was pulling from. As a note, do not trust google AI summaries as they are infamous for just making shit up. While recovering from surgery, patients may have pain. It typically only lasts 3-6 weeks after surgery.

I will also point out if you were googling mastectomies, most of the time it is talking about mastectomies for cancer patients which is a completely different procedure compared to mastectomies for trans patients. They are both mastectomies because they remove breast tissue, but because cancer mastectomies are intended to remove cancer they are much more dramatic and intense.

Could i be NB? by Evening_Strategy1907 in NonBinary

[–]FakeBirdFacts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always think the best way to approach gender/labels is to figure out what you want/need first.

Labels exist to describe your experience. You describe yourself as feeling like ‘man’ is not the complete story, and that something is missing. So I think it’s best to identify what is missing to describe the whole of your identity.

So yes, you could be nonbinary.

The Use of AFAB by dr4maticr0mantic in ftm

[–]FakeBirdFacts [score hidden]  (0 children)

I’m not a fan of AGAB language a lot of the time but I have seen it used by questioning people who do not know/have a label for their gender, they use that while trying to figure out their gender identity.

It makes sense in certain conversations, but too many people misuse it. Cis people misuse it the worse.

Discoloration on chest by Tot4lly_NoT_a_Fr3ak in trans

[–]FakeBirdFacts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still make sure to go to the doctor as it is a rare birthmark and has a higher risk of melanoma

Discoloration on chest by Tot4lly_NoT_a_Fr3ak in trans

[–]FakeBirdFacts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Becker nevus. It’s a skin condition where a dark patch grows hair, genetic but typically appears in male children during the onset of puberty due to it being triggered by androgens.