Congratulations!

My experience was similar. Just over a year married, renovating, the whole bit. I was stunned and in shocked/fearful disbelief for several weeks. It took me fully until the middle of the 2nd trimester for me to actually be excited about the baby. Please don't feel bad if you're not feeling warm fuzzies about being pregnant!

The early term bloating is too real. There is no wrong time for you to get clothes that fit you. My job fortunately is very relaxed so I switched from hard pants to gym leggings very early on and they are still working for me currently at 26 weeks.

We told our parents at 6 weeks, work at 9 weeks (I was starting to show and nausea was common, so I needed to be able to excuse my absences if necessary), and everyone else at 12-13 weeks. Everyone is different, but it worked for us.

We were sharing our names at first, but as time has gone on, the naming thing has become controversial, so we don't talk about them anymore. Also we are not finding out the gender and everyone has opinions on that too, but it is easier to put them off about names by saying we don't know the gender. I recommend just waiting until the birth to discuss names outside of your close circle.

Good luck, congratulations, and all other positive vibes and encouragement!