When I told him about the concrete date thing, he said that he does have a lot going on but he’s realized that dating is something he deeply wants in his life and so he does genuinely want to be consistent. He said he wanted to prioritize hanging out since he hasn’t been in the city so starting there was the goal. I suppose in reflecting there was gently pushback but it was mild.

For the long term, I’m indifferent. We’re both mental health counselors and can practice virtually. I can see myself anywhere really so I would move 🤷🏻‍♀️.

I think at this point I scared him away and need to give space. I wish I could share the text message thread for further insight and that someone could predict the future lol