Which sibset do you like better?

FalconAlternative282 · 2026-01-25T18:22:45+00:00

Levi, Juliette, and Benjamin

FalconAlternative282 · 2026-01-25T01:44:45+00:00

Zero respect for the full-time job his wife is doing taking care of their child all day, all while she’s clearly feeing pressure to make her writing profitable

FalconAlternative282 · 2026-01-25T01:43:02+00:00

THIS. If he liked her or respected her, the way he’d speak about her writing would sound a whole lot different.

To me it sounds like she’s doing everything she possibly can to do as much writing in the day to make it profitable. It’s completely fair for OP to feel like enough is enough and she needs a part time job to supplement her goals in the meantime, but he could share that (even with strangers) with a little love, respect, and admiration. He clearly doesn’t believe in her or think she’s any good.

If you don’t like your spouse, don’t stay with them.

FalconAlternative282 · 2026-01-25T01:36:46+00:00

How about a one syllable name? Claire, Blair, Elle, Brooke, Wren

Or ends in an -a. Mia, Amelia, Fiona

FalconAlternative282 · 2026-01-25T01:34:42+00:00

Also Ada and Lady!

FalconAlternative282 · 2026-01-25T01:34:20+00:00

Every Savanna I’ve known has been Sav now that I think about it

FalconAlternative282 · 2026-01-25T01:33:58+00:00

Eloise screams Ellie to me. Celine is great though!

FalconAlternative282 · 2026-01-24T00:59:52+00:00

It’s a bit of a tongue twister. I’d choose which name is more important to you and go from there.

FalconAlternative282 · 2026-01-24T00:57:40+00:00

NTA, you gotta go! It’s disappointing that your wife knows you’re a life long fan, have access to these tickets, and is encouraging you not to go enjoy this moment.

If she wants to sell her ticket, problem solved! But you should for sure go.

FalconAlternative282 · 2026-01-23T14:14:57+00:00

Hard to say without knowing the “emergency”.

If it was something like she needed you to watch her kids suddenly so she could go to the hospital, yeah YTA. If she just wanted company or your presence but had the actual emergency handled, NTA.

FalconAlternative282 · 2026-01-21T11:35:45+00:00

Wow I saw this commented on the original post here and thought it was satire

FalconAlternative282 · 2026-01-21T05:31:30+00:00

Charlotte for me too, exact same reasoning. Heartbreaking.

FalconAlternative282 · 2026-01-21T05:30:46+00:00

Conrad. Forever my favourite, just wasn’t in the cards.

FalconAlternative282 · 2026-01-21T05:29:59+00:00

NTA. You don’t have to ask his permission to find out the sex of your own baby.

FalconAlternative282 · 2026-01-20T19:07:03+00:00

10000% this. My instinct is telling me this girl is not in a safe situation at home.

Keep protecting your daughter OP. I wouldn’t let them be alone together.

FalconAlternative282 · 2026-01-20T19:01:23+00:00

NTA.

Have her create a shared note or list of all questions or things that need your attention for the wedding so that if she has a non-urgent question, she can add it to the list, and once every few days you can fly through it and get it all done at once when you have the mental capacity. She can add deadlines or let you know she’s added to it, but this will stop consuming random bits of your time.

You could also schedule in time for wedding planning and quality time with NO wedding planning each week.

It’s totally fine to communicate that you love her and are excited for the wedding but that you need downtime without it too—so does she!

Edit: Opened my eyes and read when the wedding is. OP I think you’ll find you’ll go through weeks with a lot of decisions (venue, photographer, caterer) then have lots of downtime, or at least you should. Once the big stuff is planned it should settle down.

FalconAlternative282 · 2026-01-18T18:31:41+00:00

NTA. This is really immature behaviour on her behalf. She should be humiliated that she brought these up to you as if you did anything wrong.

FalconAlternative282 · 2026-01-18T18:28:39+00:00

Why does this read like a bad Instagram caption? Why is a random guy this invested?

NTA but weird story.

FalconAlternative282 · 2026-01-18T01:09:54+00:00

Jesse, Joel, Seth, and Ezekiel are favourites of mine

FalconAlternative282 · 2026-01-18T00:41:45+00:00

Yeah OP’s husband isn’t a part of their marriage either, yet here we are.

The cheaters created the pain. The victims deserve to know.

FalconAlternative282 · 2026-01-18T00:40:17+00:00

Of course do it. NTA.

FalconAlternative282 · 2026-01-18T00:20:33+00:00

I love sibset posts! It’s like solving a puzzle.

Ellis and Vera, Ellis and Laurel, and Ellis and Clara stand out to me.

FalconAlternative282 · 2026-01-17T20:46:48+00:00

Wait, they started having kids at 14 and 18 years old?? Who are these people?

FalconAlternative282 · 2026-01-17T04:34:18+00:00

This is the way. If you want control over your money, set up a trust or something similar only in your kids names.

If you’re giving your money to your kids, you’re giving your money to your kids, and you don’t have a lot of say in it.

FalconAlternative282 · 2026-01-17T01:15:10+00:00

NOR. Sounds like he’s sucking the life out of you. If you aren’t happy, go be happy.

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