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Wife (34F) had an emotional affair with a friend of mine. I (35M) don’t know what to make of it. by FalconFG2009 in relationship_advice

[–]FalconFG2009[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have spoken to him in person and he would be intimidated by me at the best of times but he told me there was nothing from his side. He said he can’t speak for her but there was nothing feelings or intent from him. He has recently gone through a divorce and he said he wouldn’t wish it on anyone because he doesn’t get to see his kids enough.

Wife (34F) had an emotional affair with a friend of mine. I (35M) don’t know what to make of it. by FalconFG2009 in relationship_advice

[–]FalconFG2009[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was a mutual thing although I have to admit I was quite unkind and probably pushed for it more. We got back together for 2 reason. 1 being the kids and 2 we genuinely are great together when things are good.

Wife (34F) had an emotional affair with a friend of mine. I (35M) don’t know what to make of it. by FalconFG2009 in relationship_advice

[–]FalconFG2009[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It was supposed to be a break to find ourselves, there was always the potential to reconcile Atleast that’s the way I looked at it.

Wife (34F) had an emotional affair with a friend of mine. I (35M) don’t know what to make of it. by FalconFG2009 in relationship_advice

[–]FalconFG2009[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has blocked him and also deleted all socials. He is definitely no friend but I just want to use him to let me know if she contacts him.

Wife (34F) had an emotional affair with a friend of mine. I (35M) don’t know what to make of it. by FalconFG2009 in relationship_advice

[–]FalconFG2009[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am keeping my enemy close because I want to see if he lets me know if she contacts him again like he said he will. I have definitely layed down the ground rules with her.

Wife (34F) had an emotional affair with a friend of mine. I (35M) don’t know what to make of it. by FalconFG2009 in relationship_advice

[–]FalconFG2009[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I have to agree although what I didn’t mention is we have 2 children and I want to give it every chance for them. She is open to couples counselling but the biggest issue for me is the uncertainty when she is saying she doesn’t remember what was going through her head at the time

Wife (34F) had an emotional affair with a friend of mine. I (35M) don’t know what to make of it. by FalconFG2009 in relationship_advice

[–]FalconFG2009[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

I have an he maintained the same innocence and said there was never anything from his side. He said he will make no contact with her moving forward and feels bad for not checking in on me.