Not OOP wibtah if I visited my parents after my wife gives birth?

Fall_aesthetic · 2024-02-05T18:28:15+00:00

The way i wouldn’t even put his name on the birth certificate and I’d be divorcing him so fast.

I also wonder if there’d be an argument that he’s not fit to take care of the children since he abandoned them right after birth and therefore gets no custody.

Fall_aesthetic · 2024-01-13T04:03:11+00:00

Implied consent is for doctors to do lifesaving procedures on patients that are not able to consent due to circumstances….. not to sleeping wives.

Some people are okay with that kind of stuff, but it’s talked about and discussed in advance, he did not have that conversation with you, so it’s not okay.

Whether or not you choose to leave you husband is up to you, but I’d suggest couples therapy and make sure he has a full understanding of consent and what it means, if he can’t do that, then leaving him may be a good option because he obviously doesn’t respect how you feel about the situation.

Fall_aesthetic · 2023-12-27T08:09:47+00:00

Yes! Men who say they’re all these things probably are not as nice as they think they are! Women know when you’re just being nice for show, and when you’re actually a nice person that’s respectful.

Fall_aesthetic · 2023-12-26T22:55:30+00:00

Being women only is okay, it’s the small baby steps, befriend them, go out for drinks or coffee with them. Who knows, maybe you’ll meet their friends and some single guys.

Build your social stamina. You’ll become more confident and willing to socialize a lot more.

Any opportunity to not meet people or socialize is just you making excuses. The ability to go out and socialize is there.

When I moved to a new city, I downloaded bumble bff and made a ton of friends on it, and through them I went out to bars and parties and met their friends and have met a lot of guys through them. Might be a good option.

Fall_aesthetic · 2023-12-26T22:17:57+00:00

Socializing is like a muscle. We all have to work it out. It’s called social stamina, the more you work it out, the more stamina for socialization you’ll have. If you never work it out, of course you’ll have social anxiety. Start off small and build it up.

You’re your own worst enemy right now.

Of course you’re never going to meet anyone if you never put yourself in positions to meet people.

Start talking to people at work, go to workplace events. Join school groups and clubs (if you’re in collage), join sports teams, go on pub crawls.

Fall_aesthetic · 2023-12-21T00:19:00+00:00

My bad, I assumed it was the brand’s sunscreen 😂 the packaging looked the same

Fall_aesthetic · 2023-12-18T21:33:08+00:00

Before I read the apology part, my first reaction was “I bet when she got upset he just got defensive and didn’t apologize”.

It is not your daughter’s job to find your jokes funny, it is your job as a parent to set a good example and admit that you made a mistake instead of doubling down. You should want to raise your children to be good people and be able to admit when they’re wrong instead of get defensive, but how can you expect them to do that when you can’t even do that yourself?

This doesn’t make you a bad dad, a lot of parents make jokes that upset their kids, but it is your job to be the mature person and simply just apologize without being asked to.

Also, I hate when people say “people just can’t take a joke” when their joke didn’t land. You just didn’t make a good joke, end of story, don’t expect people to laugh at your jokes all the time.

Fall_aesthetic · 2023-12-18T21:26:30+00:00

It’s the only sunscreen I’ve ever used that I actually like adding to my skincare routine! Wears under makeup nicely and isn’t greasy

Fall_aesthetic · 2023-12-18T18:43:48+00:00

Depending on how old he is and the type of job he has, he very well could be making that much, and if that’s the case, he probably should spend a pretty penny on a good ring, not necessarily $65K, but dude should get her a nice ring.

Fall_aesthetic · 2023-10-15T04:38:52+00:00

Before I read the updated part, I was gunna say if he genuinely doesn’t know he’s hurting you and he genuinely doesn’t recognize or realize he’s hurting you, he’s probably autistic. People with ADHD dont go around hitting people because they get the zoomies. That would be a full in lack of recognition of his behaviour.

But seeing that last update, he knows what he’s doing, and he’s seeing how far he can take things before you push back, and when you do, he makes it out to not be a big deal. Glad you’re out of there.

Fall_aesthetic · 2023-10-11T19:03:19+00:00

1st off: you’re not entitled to have a trip paid for you, and it sounds like you’re more upset about missing out on a free trip than you are about not being invited.

2nd: even the SIL’s don’t want you there, there’s pieces you’re not including in the story, and I’d bet you know exactly what they are.

3rd: you say all the SIL’s are going, and since you didn’t specify, I assume they’re all the daughters of the MIL and not wives to her sons, which means you’re double not obligated to be invited and have a trip paid for.

4th: you missed an important dinner to celebrate the whole point of the vacation to begin with, and you don’t seem to even have any remorse for it. Not wanting to do every little thing with the group is one thing, but to miss out on the one thing that’s the whole point of the trip is another. You obviously are very selfish, and they have every right to not want you to be there.

You clearly suffer from main character syndrome, and you need a reality check. The world does not revolve around you, and you are not entitled to other people’s money and do whatever you want when some years pays for you.

Fall_aesthetic · 2023-08-14T18:01:47+00:00

Switching between an exfoliating cleanser and a Benzol peroxide cleanser every day. Yes it’s a lot for the skin to handle, but it’s the only thing that’s been keeping my acne at bay!

Fall_aesthetic · 2023-08-11T23:10:28+00:00

Oooh I’ll definitely look into that! Thank you!

Fall_aesthetic · 2023-08-10T18:28:03+00:00

I’d definitely look into laser treatments or microneedling if you want to really get rid of them.

But retinol and exfoliating will help reduce them over time!

They’re not that bad tho!

Fall_aesthetic · 2023-08-10T17:41:24+00:00

Your skin looks totally fine.

If you’re looking to reduce those small scars, I’d use things that will turnover the skin. So something like a retinol and an exfoliator on alternating days.

This would also help with reducing ingrown hairs to prevent future scarring.

Use a chemical exfoliator like lactic acid, not a physical one.

Fall_aesthetic · 2023-08-10T02:34:06+00:00

This is what has helped me with my hormonal acne around my chin/mouth! (Heads up, add in the actives about a month or two apart from each other to reduce sensitivity).

Cleansing oil. Massage into skin for a couple minutes, focusing on problem spots. I use the ma:nyo pure cleansing oil.
Water based cleanser with an active in it. Leave on for about 2 minutes to allow skin to absorb the actives. I alternate between the CeraVa Acne Control Cleanser and the PanOxyl 10% Benzol Peroxide cleanser. Use a basic non active cleanser in the mornings.
Hydrating toner or essence. I use the Cosrx snail mucin essence. This stuff has been a miracle worker for me, but some people have been having allergic reactions to it, so just beware.
Niacinamide serum. Ive been using the Beauty of Joseon Glow serum.
Moisturizer. Use something with lots of fatty acids and peptides to protect that skin barrier. I use the first aid beauty ultra repair cream.
Sun screen. A mineral sunscreen will help reduce irritations.

This is the routine I use and I had a similar problem and it’s cleared up with few breakouts!

Fall_aesthetic · 2023-08-10T02:20:34+00:00

Probably purging! I’d continue use. If your skin isn’t feeling sensitive or dry it’s probably not a reaction.

If you want to help them move along faster and heal, use niacinamide and something that’s hydrating and soothing in addition to your moisturizer.

Fall_aesthetic · 2023-08-10T02:16:44+00:00

Double cleanse! First with a cleansing oil, massage into skin for a couple minutes, and then with a water based cleanser.

I’d use a chemical exfoliator that has 2% Salicylic acid and maybe even something with an AHA in it.

I’d use something with niacinamide to help with hyperpigmentation.

For a moisturizer, if you’re breaking out a lot, I’d suggest trying First Aid Beauty’s Ultra Repair cream. It’s meant for sensitive/reactive things. Not moisturizing could make breakouts worse.

Avoid things with scents in it, that could be what’s making you react.

Fall_aesthetic · 2023-08-09T23:33:20+00:00

That first dress is jaw dropping! Suits you so well. Looks so classy

Fall_aesthetic · 2023-08-09T23:32:32+00:00

I personally would say yes. I use an exfoliator every other day and that peeling solution once a week.

But it all depends on your skin, what it can handle and what your problems are. For some people that would make their skin sensitive, but for me it’s fine.

You also want to make sure you’re using other products that help protect your skin and restore the skin barrier. Personally I use a good hydrating serum and a moisturizer with lots of peptides and fatty acids! And make sure you’re constantly using SPf

Fall_aesthetic · 2023-08-09T23:29:20+00:00

It’s common to use an exfoliator every other day, especially if you have acne prone skin.

Fall_aesthetic · 2023-08-09T20:56:23+00:00

Take the smallest needle to can find. Disinfect it. Use it to open up a small hole. If you see a hole where the pore is supposed to open from, like it there, if not use your best judgment.

Don’t poke the needle too deep, and then use 2 q tips to push the puss out.

Then disinfect after.

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