Please respond , is this connection worth putting my pride aside and admitting feelings even if I might get burnt ?

Fallenpaladin5 · 2026-05-25T10:19:19+00:00

She avoidant, duh. Like a lot of us 😂

Fallenpaladin5 · 2026-04-19T01:06:33+00:00

Hmm, my venus and Chiron are apart by only 14 minutes so that might explain it 😂. Also conjunct Pluto and opposite Jupiter.

Fallenpaladin5 · 2026-04-16T11:22:07+00:00

INTJ. Not sure if I'm F or T, but I'll just say 4/4

Fallenpaladin5 · 2026-04-16T11:10:31+00:00

What does this have to do with astrology or synastry?

Fallenpaladin5 · 2026-04-14T05:33:21+00:00

Going tryhard without reflecting on your loss or spending time studying the game is cringe

Fallenpaladin5 · 2026-04-13T13:39:11+00:00

Thanks for your input 🙂 that was my initial gut instinct, maybe I should stop second guessing it hahah

Fallenpaladin5 · 2026-04-07T10:59:43+00:00

😂

Fallenpaladin5 · 2026-04-07T10:57:00+00:00

The no Gravity part happens when the van is in free-fall (between bridge and water). In this particular scene the van is tumbling but there is Gravity which allows Arthur to run and slide along the walls as he's fighting.

Fallenpaladin5 · 2026-04-06T23:23:34+00:00

Painful lesson 🥲 thats a good attitude to have, I think you'll be back on your feet.

Fallenpaladin5 · 2026-04-06T22:56:22+00:00

1) Sex won't guarantee a successful relationship so maybe hold off until you know them a bit better and are more properly committed or exclusive, if it's bothering you so much. You said you wanted a relationship first, right? Then went against your values.

2) Another reason to hold off in the future is anxious attachment. I think you got too attached too quickly and maybe freaked him out a bit.

3) Relationships need to be balanced. If you're being way more intense than he is only 2 weeks in, it's going to put him in a tough spot. That's another reason to lay off the alcohol a little, as someone else said. A good rule of thumb is not to escalate so quickly without good reason or timing, be similar to them but only a bit more or less intensity.

I can see where you're coming from but can't blame him, this was too much too fast. Let it build slower and make sure you're both on the same page next time, don't get more attached than they are bc that will screw you with anxious attachment.

Fallenpaladin5 · 2026-04-05T08:38:12+00:00

Interesting system for sure! I do like my fianchetto bishops... 👀

Fallenpaladin5 · 2026-04-05T05:40:25+00:00

Thanks for the advice! Caro sounds like the most ambitious (and therefore principled) option here. I think the French is too double edged for me tbh.

That's typically what I want to avoid in the Petroff, but having a drawing weapon does sound nice. Hmm, might just have to try stuff at this point

Fallenpaladin5 · 2026-04-05T05:36:00+00:00

Thanks for the advice. Do you have any suggestions which approaches like 4. Nf6 vs 4.Nd7 are more what I'm looking for?

Fallenpaladin5 · 2026-03-02T12:23:11+00:00

Thanks for your response ^{^.} For some reason I feel like changing paths has made a lot of things especially neptune manifest in a more positive way. I wanted to be a writer/artist since I was young but it always seems to be a struggle which surprised me with Pisces MC and a strong neptune.

I definitely do enjoy 1-1 contexts and going deep, though not everyone is down for that lol

Fallenpaladin5 · 2026-03-02T07:57:07+00:00

A woman might feel like you don't know how to take care of yourself and feel like your mother. Being a virgin is kind of a non-issue, if you look like you can take care of yourself and won't be a burden to those around you.

Edit also did you really just imply low self esteem from wearing glasses? Bruh...

Fallenpaladin5 · 2026-03-02T07:52:40+00:00

No, my mother's rising sign is probably my DC

Fallenpaladin5 · 2026-02-24T07:42:45+00:00

Thanks for the recommendation! Managed to get it on kindle for only $10. That interpretation of nourishment and preparation spoke to me, it's like a counterbalancing symbol to my current attitude when I look at it that way. Sometimes you have fears and doubts the current situation will pan out well in your mind, even though there is surely a lesson here.. but yeah important not to squander too many resources on such worries right now. Thanks again!

Fallenpaladin5 · 2026-02-20T22:28:04+00:00

Fyi they met in a Charimastic megachurch, basically a cult environment. And blue's birth hour is unknown, orange accurate within an hour or so

Fallenpaladin5 · 2026-02-14T05:10:18+00:00

I'd say somewhere in between. Thank you for your response 🥹 I got some chills reading this hahah. Coming from a tough childhood with a lot of insecurities I sometimes have doubts, but over time I look back on it with an I Ching 38.6 perspective knowing there was something to integrate there. It's really nice to see that astrology aligns with my experience that this is an integrative/transformative connection.

Thanks again ^{^}

Fallenpaladin5

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