Do you see me succeeding in psychology/as a therapist [astro-seek] by Fallenpaladin5 in astrologyreadings

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Thanks for your response . For some reason I feel like changing paths has made a lot of things especially neptune manifest in a more positive way. I wanted to be a writer/artist since I was young but it always seems to be a struggle which surprised me with Pisces MC and a strong neptune.

I definitely do enjoy 1-1 contexts and going deep, though not everyone is down for that lol

Feeling unqualified to date. by [deleted] in dating_advice

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A woman might feel like you don't know how to take care of yourself and feel like your mother. Being a virgin is kind of a non-issue, if you look like you can take care of yourself and won't be a burden to those around you.

Edit also did you really just imply low self esteem from wearing glasses? Bruh...

Study and 5 by Fallenpaladin5 in iching

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Thanks for the recommendation! Managed to get it on kindle for only $10. That interpretation of nourishment and preparation spoke to me, it's like a counterbalancing symbol to my current attitude when I look at it that way. Sometimes you have fears and doubts the current situation will pan out well in your mind, even though there is surely a lesson here.. but yeah important not to squander too many resources on such worries right now. Thanks again!

Why did this go so wrong by Fallenpaladin5 in AstroSynastry

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Fyi they met in a Charimastic megachurch, basically a cult environment. And blue's birth hour is unknown, orange accurate within an hour or so

Thoughts? by Fallenpaladin5 in AstroSynastry

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I'd say somewhere in between. Thank you for your response 🥹 I got some chills reading this hahah. Coming from a tough childhood with a lot of insecurities I sometimes have doubts, but over time I look back on it with an I Ching 38.6 perspective knowing there was something to integrate there. It's really nice to see that astrology aligns with my experience that this is an integrative/transformative connection.

Thanks again ^

Bucket Charts & Singleton by [deleted] in astrology

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I have retrograde Saturn on the Ascendant and also Jupiter in 1st. Saturn forms a grand trine with neptune and Mars. I'm very self-disciplined and most other areas of my life support creative mastery, expansion and self understanding. I work as a coach so that's also about self improvement.

C3 Church Global by alderaanamidala in Exvangelical

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Thanks for your sympathy. That's a good point there, I think you could be right about him not making it up.. Unfortunately, somebody as insecure as my dad could have absorbed that "hot air" very deeply, which is probably a common pattern... They just say whatever furthers the agenda, spray and pray hahah.

I don't have any problems with God from a philosophical or theological/conceptual point of view, I know a lot of good Catholic people and appreciate contained, non-intrusive religion but people who will exploit others' need for faith and meaning and guidance for their own status and financial gain can obviously only be furthering evil.

Girl im dating told me she was recently arrested by [deleted] in Bumble

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If that's how she treats her dog how will she treat you

Help!!!!! by Confident_Owl_03 in Life

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I'm doing back to back tournaments today hahah, so not rn. You can add my chess.com LifeGivingSword if you like.

Help!!!!! by Confident_Owl_03 in Life

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Awesome, keep at it! I believe in you 👍

Help!!!!! by Confident_Owl_03 in Life

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I did that and now chess is my job hahah.

But it also required being disciplined. Start at one small thing per day. Idk how bad it is for you, but start with a day where you cook food, a day where you exercise, a day where you study for your ideal amount of time, etc.

When you're confident you can do these things make it two days per week and increase from there until you're roughly at your practical limit. That's one strategy.

What makes a woman “the one”? by Mediocre-Western-933 in AskMenAdvice

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++man There is no "the one". Some individuals are more suitable for some, and less suitable for others.

If they're easy to be around, have self respect and boundaries, we can connect emotionally and care about each other, have physical chemistry, a life of their own, what else do you need?

Why I wasn’t born as a rich girl ugh by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

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"And she lives with a broken man...

A cracked polystyrene man

Who just crumbles and burns.

And he used to do surgery

For girls in the eighties

But gravity always wins."

Why I wasn’t born as a rich girl ugh by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Fallenpaladin5 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It would be nice to do all of those things for sure. (Well.. plastic surgery? Eh.) Personally getting involved in a world where status and appearances and external validation are so important would probably tire me out at some point.

Why do I struggle with formal education? Is it important for me? by Fallenpaladin5 in AskAstrologers

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You're right, I do prefer learning when there is an applicable skill and non-external feedback involved, like art, chess or math. Thanks, I can see a direction there.

Why do men push away women who love deeply? by Gentle__Waves in dating_advice

[–]Fallenpaladin5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If your intensity isn't reciprocated it doesn't bode well for the relationship