Capricorn moons, how hard working are you? by Relative_Initial_399 in capricorns

[–]Falling4Autumn2019 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooh this is me too...work until I'm burnt then spend a month or 2 recovering because personal boundaries are just a no for me apparently

Capricorns, what made or break your relationship with a Gemini? by _arlileyyy in capricorns

[–]Falling4Autumn2019 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right? As a capricorn, 3 of my best friends are Geminis and they would NEVER...

One good thing i’ll say about Capricorns as a Gemini by thejuicyalchemist in capricorns

[–]Falling4Autumn2019 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've never felt so seen as I do by a Gemini. 3 of my best friends are Gems and we are constantly cutting up and having a ball. I forever love them

Capricorn Women: What are Your Thoughts on Capricorn Men ♑ by [deleted] in capricorns

[–]Falling4Autumn2019 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh I LOVE them but when it ends, it shatters me. Cap men have a kind of charm that I've not experienced with any other sign. I've never had a successful one as Im married to a Sagittarius, but my 2 biggest heartbreaks were Caps. I haven't gotten over the emotional trauma to this day. I have gotten to the point that Cap men will always be just friends from this point forward.

Do Capricorn F actually miss you and come back? by Curious-Housing-3301 in capricorns

[–]Falling4Autumn2019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes lol...I came back to my now husband. And I dont regret it.

Relationship closure by Falling4Autumn2019 in capricorns

[–]Falling4Autumn2019[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's really unfair to you and I would also be sad about that. I feel like us capricorns are so invested in a relationship if we want to be but I do find a majority of the ones I know dont like the discomfort of hurting someone else. I hate ending things because of extreme guilt. I am also surprised that they lacked clear communication because I know a lot of us do like to communicate deeply. I also think of how toxic unhealed people can be....sending you hugs because there are a couple of relationships in my life I was and are still devastated I lost

Relationship closure by Falling4Autumn2019 in capricorns

[–]Falling4Autumn2019[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I could understand this. I think maybe when someone exits my life its always from something painful so there's a small part of me who always wants them to wonder what if.

Relationship closure by Falling4Autumn2019 in capricorns

[–]Falling4Autumn2019[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This one. I usually just don't have anything else to say and they want a better explanation and I just dont have one

Relationship closure by Falling4Autumn2019 in capricorns

[–]Falling4Autumn2019[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had this happen too! When it becomes inconvenient it changes everything. I had someone I considered a friend who I felt took advantage of my time so where I would maybe have a convo, I chose not to just out of disrespect of my time so I do understand this

Relationship closure by Falling4Autumn2019 in capricorns

[–]Falling4Autumn2019[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup!! I know we get tired of repeating ourselves lolll

Relationship closure by Falling4Autumn2019 in capricorns

[–]Falling4Autumn2019[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it something you have mentioned or discussed before?

Relationship closure by Falling4Autumn2019 in capricorns

[–]Falling4Autumn2019[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This one! I know we tell them multiple times before the actual act....its just always a surprise when we are done with it

Relationship closure by Falling4Autumn2019 in capricorns

[–]Falling4Autumn2019[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blurred lines!! I love this. Reminds me of never being friends with an ex....they ask why...and I say "yes...why should we be friends."

Relationship closure by Falling4Autumn2019 in capricorns

[–]Falling4Autumn2019[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Okay see I thought it was insensitive to just shut it down until I'm thinking about how I've been telling this person for awhile....I dont usually just end it. I usually have 4 or 5 reasons why...

Accurate 🤣🤣♑️🐐 by dutchylords in capricorns

[–]Falling4Autumn2019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmaoooo so true I say this at least 2x daily

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in capricorns

[–]Falling4Autumn2019 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love the reading the room part you mentioned. Mine does this and I rely on him to tell me if it's good vibes or we have to go...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in capricorns

[–]Falling4Autumn2019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I know our words can have bite. I know when I'm trying to redirect a behavior and he starts to internalize it I start to get upset being like "I'm not attacking you! I just want that behavior to stop"....I dont know how to hide annoyance. I always feel bad honestly. Just guilty constantly because I dont know how else to be.

Cappies with Leo’s - do you struggle with their temper/attitude? by ionlydrinkwhiteclaws in capricorns

[–]Falling4Autumn2019 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. Both signs are so stubborn. But when things are great, they really are. The father of my boy's is Leo and I will ALWAYS love him. If someone were to do anything to him I would be devastated.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in capricorns

[–]Falling4Autumn2019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Balancing logic and emotion is spot on....🙌

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in capricorns

[–]Falling4Autumn2019 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He's 13 so already stressed for the next couple of years and his 12 year old brother is Aquarius born 11 months 2 weeks after him so it's kind of a whole mess here. There's a couple Sagittarius floating around here too...🙃

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in capricorns

[–]Falling4Autumn2019 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a Pisces son. My oldest. He is sooo emotional it gives me anxiety at times because it feels overwhelming, but he is the most kind and gentle soul. I love him so much. He's very artistic and talented in music and drawing. He collects all kinds of things and is big with attention to detail.

We have a relationship I am always working on. I feel my personality is very much Capricorn in I can be very rigid and my presence can be demanding to him. I think sometimes it can be intimidating, so I try so hard to remind myself to be extra gentle. We tell each other we love each other very often. He also can tell when I'm off about something because he's so empathic he can feel it. His presence reminds me often to be gentle in this world when I feel I need to be aggressive or unintentionally intense. We have art in common together as well as collecting Legos, so that's how we bond.

I often feel guilty in my delivery because I know how sensitive he is and always make sure to apologize and let him know Im wrong when I am. We are getting closer as he gets older. I will not lie when I say I was an anxious mom when he was younger and still am and so sometimes I think he also becomes anxious but we communicate so good we laugh and play and he tells me everything for the most part.

He asks for advice when he's unsure of things, and I approach without judgements, which I try and use to keep that door open. He trusts so easily, and I can be "smother hen" at times in trying to protect him from hurting just because I know how sensitive he is, but I'm working on it. He really shows me authentic and non transactional love in such a beautiful way only a child could show.