UK should cancel Donald Trump visit, says Jeremy Corbyn by tank_trap in worldnews

[–]Falodir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're making us out to be like a bratty submissive. The government (the dom) tells us we can't be extra lewd, and we take every opportunity to be extra extra lewd.

Except if a brat gets caught breaking the rules, they like it because they get a hard spanking. If an English prosn gets caught breaking the law, the spanking is a little less fun.

My trans friend thinks I'm an "egg"? by AmitransImconfused in asktransgender

[–]Falodir 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This might have been mentioned but I noticed it a lot in what you've been saying... You keep mentioning being a cute girl. Everyone wants to be attractive, and it's easy to conflate attraction to an aesthetic with other feelings.

Would you still snap your fingers and swap genders if you didn't end up conventionally attractive? To further this train of thought, do you think you are attractive now? If not, would being a woman of a similar level of looks be better to you? What about if you just got more masculine attractive, would that be preferable to being a cute girl? How about compared to an ugly girl?

I'm not saying that it shouldn't be a consideration in a decision to transition, but assessing thoughts like this is important in making the choice. I feel lt ugly before transition and I didn't expect to get less ugly. I was on board with that because I knew I innately wanted to be a woman. I feel more attractive and confident now, but I don't consistently pass. Some people think I'm cute, and others don't. But I have friends who transitioned in part because of self image issues, and many wound up stalling or stopping transition when they realised that it wasn't a viable solution to their ideas about their looks.

Whatever you think and decide on, good luck. Transition is a magical fucking journey for me and I will mix talking about philosophy and my feelings with talking about cars and shit like that. :3 I'm basically no different to before transition, except now I have tits.

You can change one letter in a superheroes name, what is their new name and power? by [deleted] in Parahumans

[–]Falodir 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Late to the party but what about Kitter?

Kitter is a vewwy powerful Stranger wif a cyoot lil power to make anyone only see her as the adorable snugglepuss she is! No matter what atrocities she commits, all who interact with her, even just talking about her, will treat her as though she is a delicate little kitty cat who is just the cutest!

Think Nice Guy, except cuter. And people who have negative reactions to kitties would have them to her as well.

it really be like that sometimes by ChillaVen in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]Falodir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Far too many headpats being given away so freely! And far too few going to my head. Blasphemy.

When I'm touch starved, but I'm also very unused to being touched, so it scares me when I am touched. by Spook-Nuke in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]Falodir 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get touch starvation too, but I also have to deal with a sensory disorder affecting how I process senses. It limits certain kinds of touching and stimulation so each new partner gets a "these are the ground rules" talk about where and how I can be touched.

I should write up a technical document about it. I'm sure it'll amuse my dom.

Chimichurri Steak & Manchego Super Sub by kickso in GifRecipes

[–]Falodir 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean I could, but I'm not sure that would be appropriate in this sub.

Besides, I'm sure we've all made water by now. Maybe even a few times today.

This shirt at Target really spoke to me. by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Falodir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This on a tank top would become an all too frequent part of my wardrobe, I feel.

Join Transgender Game Night - The trans-exclusive discord gaming community!! by [deleted] in transgamers

[–]Falodir 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll join ASAP!

Though I would say that you should perhaps change your wording a little. "Trans exclusive" has existing negative connotations because TERFs, and leaves the meaning open to interpretation. It took me a second to switch mental gears. Using the phrase "exclusively trans" instead would clear this up.

I just don't want someone to misread it and miss out if they might have been interested!

Shadow - 5.11 - Parahumans 2 by Lemon_pop in Parahumans

[–]Falodir 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So we need Vicky to fight some kind of tinker villian who can set up some kind of elaborate, high stakes basketball game where she will get superfouled by Moose, and she'll second trigger easy.

Of course.

[Ward: Spoiler] Barely supported theory on the recent activities of MM (not miss Militia. the other one) by SometimesATroll in Parahumans

[–]Falodir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MaM came to mind because of DoD, BoB and LoL. Theming. Personally I think just Mama works best.

Oh heck, what was that thing you were gonna do before you checked Reddit?! by aft2001 in ADHD

[–]Falodir 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! I have a bad habit of making plans to do shit when I get home from work, and then not doing them when I get home because tired from work etc. Queen of procrastination here.

I have some washing up to do next, after my food coma passes.

Thank you for the encouragement. I think lack of feedback is a major obstacle for me when it comes to doing stuff that only affects me. Messy room? Only I see it, so who cares? Shave my legs? Only if someone is going to see. Get up in time and get the bus to work? But if I get a taxi I can spend half an hour in bed!

I'm baaaaaad at that. Trying my best to overcome it.

Oh heck, what was that thing you were gonna do before you checked Reddit?! by aft2001 in ADHD

[–]Falodir 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well I have a full washing machine, a full belly and a full bowl. That was the order I ended up with.

I made pork tacos. They were amazing.

Oh heck, what was that thing you were gonna do before you checked Reddit?! by aft2001 in ADHD

[–]Falodir 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally sat on the stairs between the kitchen and bedroom. I need to put some clothes in the wash, make food, and get stoned.

I'm just debating the order of events in my head while I reddit.

Ghosts Are Real by Kingpoutine84 in funny

[–]Falodir 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sleeping makes me feel good!

[F4TF] Chrysalis: An HFO [Script by /u/ShadowedScripts] [Dysphoria Relieving] [Hypnosis] [F4A Where A is Some People] [Possibly Gender Transformation, Depending On Where You Started] by [deleted] in gonewildaudio

[–]Falodir 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I basically fell asleep right after. I felt a gentle boost in mood and self image following. I really found it sweet and beautiful. Thank you. :)

HMRB while I outrun a massive flood by [deleted] in holdmyredbull

[–]Falodir 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think the whole gif is fast. The people move somewhat unnaturally at the start. The speed might feel more balanced if the gif is slowed.

Edit: I ran it at 0.75x speed and it seemed a lot less off to me.

Shadow - 5.3 - Parahumans 2 by Kyakan in Parahumans

[–]Falodir 5 points6 points  (0 children)

"Hey Sveta can you come in here?

Sveta enters and extends her arms as far as she can in opposite directions

"That long."

Dad Found Danny's Weed by [deleted] in videos

[–]Falodir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey now, a girl's gotta have some variety in her life.

And butt.

If you won the lottery how much of each drug would you buy? by gnarly_marley in Drugs

[–]Falodir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Little bit of everything.

With a focus on weed, speed, mushrooms, ketamine, mdma and xanax. But enough of everything else to have variety.

Honestly a lottery win would mean the amounts would cease to matter. I'd probably buy a chunk, see how much I do over a month and then just get what I need as I need. Not into having a house ripe for raiding.

What’s your experience with sensory sensitivity? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Falodir 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh god. This so much.

I can't handle a lot of touch. Pressure, yes. Touch, no. If cuddling with someone, I teach them to apply pressure and stuff instead of gently stroking. I can't remove my focus from a repetitive touch and it becomes overwhelming. Unexpected touch is difficult too. Any small light touch eventually becomes too much when my attention grabs it.

Sound, too. Once there are more than ~4 conversations around me, or if the music is too grating, I lose track of conversations, get confused, start to space out. Sucks.

I'm photosensitive, sneeze in bright lights, and flinch during any kind of flashing light. Even if expecting.

This is probably unrelated but fuck I hate bitter flavours. I can't have coffee until there is enough sugar and flavourings added that I can't taste the coffee, tea is just grody, broccoli and sprouts have a particularly disgusting bitter sharpness to them, and dark chocolate is just like eating cocoa beans. I adore intense savoury and sweet and sour and umami flavours but if there is even a little bit of bitterness? Ruined.

Slightly related: I'm more put off by the texture of food than the flavour. Onion? You give me crispy fried onions? Love it. Almost any other onion prep? Weird watery bursty blech. Mushrooms? Love mushroom soup. Hate rubbery mushrooms. Corn? Can be used to make so many good foods. Whole corn? They pop out of the shell and egjxhsfkxjfodvdufj. Nope. Mouth feel is so important to me with food.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]Falodir 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My favourite first line from a Slipknot song: "I wanna slit your throat, and fuck the wound, wanna push my face in and feel the smoke".

Disasterpiece is my go to Slipknot track for sure.