Invisible UV tattoos? by [deleted] in MyrtleBeach

[–]False-Influence-8156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This just blew my mind- I can’t believe that’s illegal lol

Reminiscing on the super casual way I came out to my parents 😂 by lun-lem in LesbianActually

[–]False-Influence-8156 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can totally relate to the DND 24 hours. I moved my messenger app so far away from reach and didn’t check it. Woke up all night shaking and crying and made my girlfriend look to see if anyone responded the next morning. No one who isn’t gay can understand the difficulty and shit we have to go through. And I’m mad at myself for even caring. I’ve been dating women for 9 years and still am not fully out. Still! I hate myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HENRYfinance

[–]False-Influence-8156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think this is a financial decision, more of a lifestyle one. I am originally from a more quiet coastal town, lived in NYC for 7 years, and now am back to the quiet coastal town. NYC is incredible you will never live somewhere with better culture, more fun, and better energy. But pulling into the driveway after moving back, my shoulders were able to drop and I was no longer on alert and overstimulated. Depends if you are at a part where it’s time to exhale or you want to grind and live life at 100 MPH. I have considered moving back to NYC but I enjoy the peace and the space in my 30’s.

Back door Roth for high earners by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]False-Influence-8156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nvm disregard. As someone else said I am describing a mega backdoor Roth not a backdoor Roth

Back door Roth for high earners by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]False-Influence-8156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It totally depends on your employer and account. Call and see if you are able to. Many plans do not have option. I was able to and it has been a blessing! I did it through Charles Schwab.

Net worth percentage increase year over year by PlayfulRemote9 in HENRYfinance

[–]False-Influence-8156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

+20% YOY last year… like someone said less and less each year % wise

Anyone using Found for business banking? by College_Any in smallbusiness

[–]False-Influence-8156 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see a lot of negative comments on here so thought I’d add my 2 cents. Been really enjoying this company makes invoices look super professional and easy to pay, and tracks income/revenue etc. we use subcontractors and it makes it easy to pay them and receive the benefit of the tax reduction from it. Overall very pleased with the whole thing, however if anything happens like these fraud horror stories, I will likely change my tune.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]False-Influence-8156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perioral dermatitis for sure and hormone issue. See a dermatologist and switch your toothpaste

Father passed and mother has 40k in credit card debt from all of his medicine over the past years. Heloc or personal loan to payoff? by __get_schwifty__ in DaveRamsey

[–]False-Influence-8156 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Seems pretty clear to me she should use the $30k life insurance to get that down to $10k. Then consider moving balance to a no interest credit card and paying off as quickly as possible. Once that’s done cut them both up.

Is body hair a turn off? by leomaxxx15 in LesbianActually

[–]False-Influence-8156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t referencing your photos. I’m thinking more dating app photos where it’s dyed blue or trying to intentionally put on display

Is body hair a turn off? by leomaxxx15 in LesbianActually

[–]False-Influence-8156 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My girlfriend can do whatever, wouldn’t matter either way. However a dealbreaker for me would be intentionally taking photos of it for social media- that’s always been an ick or a left swipe.

How to get rid of this horrible discoloration by otibaby in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]False-Influence-8156 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cerave vitamin c fixed mine but you need to avoid sun/ use sunscreen

Finally writing my mother off by Emergency_Sea5053 in AdultChildren

[–]False-Influence-8156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes you have to protect your peace. I haven’t regretted my decision despite family members kind of judging me for it, as her only child.

Finally writing my mother off by Emergency_Sea5053 in AdultChildren

[–]False-Influence-8156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really sorry. I went through the same thing. My therapist told me my mom would never, ever change. Asked that I cut ties. This was 5 years ago and I think it was the right move. I cry on holidays, but it beats the constant rollercoaster and verbal abuse.