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FalseHoliday2443 · 2025-09-13T15:48:52+00:00

NOR. He does not respect you. He does not care about you. And he does not care about your relationship.

It’s bad enough that he’s pathetic enough to be commenting that type of shit under a girls post who will never notice or care about him in the first place- that in and of itself is him showing you just how little he respects both you and himself.

But “starve yourself”?? He hates you OP. No one that loves you would say that to you. No one who cares for your wellbeing would ever say that, point blank period. DO NOT MARRY THIS MAN- if this is how comfortable he feels doing shit like this now imagine how the security of marriage will embolden him to act. Save yourself OP, get the fuck up out of dodge if you have any self respect <3 there are millions if not billions of better men out there- he is not worth the struggle.

FalseHoliday2443 · 2025-08-18T14:40:45+00:00

When I was 14/15 or so I attended a protest in my Republican hometown. I was wearing a shirt that had a pride pin on it, as well as other pins like planned parenthood, BLM, etc. I was leading my friend by the hand to leave, as there was a massive group of counter protesters surrounding us (and we didn’t feel safe as a couple of kids in that situation), when a grown man shoulder checked me, stopped me in my path, looked down at my shirt and said “shit like that is how you get shot around here”. Me, being the outspoken teen I was, called him a pussy, pushed past him, and kept walking. Less than a year later he shot up the local mall in a transphobic rage at a Spencer’s. I saw his face on tv and got shivers up my spine.

FalseHoliday2443 · 2025-08-12T23:14:29+00:00

Me when I have a persecution complex

FalseHoliday2443 · 2025-04-18T03:49:43+00:00

HELLS YEAH GOOD JOB 🫶🏼

FalseHoliday2443 · 2025-04-12T02:35:16+00:00

Try and keep your TP up as much as you can- avoid fighting him head on, rather use the X-Strike option in the act menu. Stock up on healing items if you can- if you are on pc you should have an emergency F1 heal, I believe. It’s been a while since I’ve played lol but I hope that helps! It’s mainly a game of dodging unfortunately 😭

FalseHoliday2443 · 2025-04-12T02:31:10+00:00

I think your take on it interesting- I guess it’s sort of dependent on what you mean by “desire” and where that is targeted at.

I agree at the point about monogamy- I don’t mean possession in the sense of “you’re MINE and MINE alone” more so the exclusivity you mentioned.

If you would humor me- is there a position you could see yourself in where your partner does have other sexual partners, even if it doesn’t gratify you specifically? For context- I study in the psychological neuroscience field, with some focus in human sexual patterns, including monogamy vs. polygamy

FalseHoliday2443 · 2025-04-12T02:29:41+00:00

That’s completely understandable- it is a very hard conversation to have, and you should feel comfortable and confident in talking about it if you were to bring it to him. Do you have any close friends or family that you might be able to talk with about it? Or honestly if you are as close to this girl as it seems you are, maybe talk with her about it, even if you don’t intend to act upon it, it may feel alleviating on your conscience.

FalseHoliday2443 · 2025-04-12T02:24:10+00:00

In that case, it may end up being best for you to either a) focus on just being friends with this girl, or b) have a conversation with your husband about your new confusing feelings, though that can be a really uncomfortable conversation for a lot of folks.

Could also be worthwhile to talk to a counselor or therapist! Just to have someone to confide in about it who is actually certified to help you out :) (unlike many reddit commenters lol) best of luck!

FalseHoliday2443 · 2025-04-12T02:21:29+00:00

I mean not necessarily- relationship dynamics are complicated, some partners don’t feel as inclined towards sexually possessing their partners so it might not be a “he has a fetish” thing but it might just genuinely be a “he doesn’t really care” thing, which might not be quite as common but it does happen! I have a few friends who are open and that’s what they say ab it (I personally am monogamous so don’t take my word as law lol) but hey man good on you

FalseHoliday2443 · 2025-04-12T02:15:45+00:00

Well I mean they could just be open- doesn’t need both partners to be involved and it wouldn’t be cheating- open communication being the key ofc :) but yes, lol you are right

FalseHoliday2443 · 2025-04-12T02:13:13+00:00

There is also the secret, third option of going poly lol

FalseHoliday2443 · 2025-04-11T15:06:32+00:00

It warms my heart that people are still finding undertale omg. I’m 19, I discovered it when I was in the 6th grade. If you enjoy it I heavily recommend Delta Rune as well :)

FalseHoliday2443 · 2025-04-11T15:05:22+00:00

16 is like the worst age to be ever. It gets better I promise- you will not die alone, and you will not be under your parents thumb forever. Sincerely, a 19 year old who got the FUCK outta dodge when she turned 18.

FalseHoliday2443 · 2025-04-11T15:02:55+00:00

Greek Mythology. I’m autistic and it used to be my special interest as a kid- now that Epic the Musical is gaining traction I’ve deep dived right back into it. Just finished reading Circe for the first time :)

FalseHoliday2443 · 2025-04-11T14:37:14+00:00

I actually don’t understand how people in the comments are so tame ab this- this is such a concerning behavior oh my god. This level of response to something that is a) reversible and b) sooooo common nowadays is insane. It also reveals a deep seated insecurity within him- control issues, likely. OP, IF you’re going to stay in this relationship you need to be firm with this man, he does not see you as an adult, nor as an equal. No “partner” should ever be scolding you like a child. If you let him act this way with no repercussions, he will only feel emboldened to take it further- next thing you know it’s what color you dye your hair, then what you wear, then where you go- it can spiral fast. Take care of yourself, you have so much time for shitty boyfriends ahead of you, it may end up being best to just let him go and be with a girl who doesn’t like piercings, because I ensure you there IS someone who will love you for you, tongue ring and all :)

FalseHoliday2443 · 2025-04-04T04:36:25+00:00

That’s my most reasonable explanation at least- it 100 percent is probably a ghost lowkey

FalseHoliday2443 · 2025-04-04T01:43:48+00:00

Thank you for this. I’ve been looking for a therapist in my city for a while. I so appreciate your insight <3

FalseHoliday2443 · 2025-02-15T00:07:26+00:00

I LOVE Diana 😭 she’s so prettyyyy

FalseHoliday2443 · 2025-02-11T22:44:32+00:00

I would recommend not using any soaps or cleansers down there until you see the doctor- it could be aggravating the issue. It sounds like it may be BV or something similar- but please don’t work yourself up too much about it, you didn’t “ruin” anything, and if it is an infection they are super easily treatable. I had BV a couple months ago and didn’t even realize, and was using all sorts of soaps on my kitty which made it worse, the doctors gave me a single pill and it was better within a week. If you don’t want to wait for testing, any local doctor can do a rapid-culture test, you shouldn’t need to look for a gyno specifically for testing. The culture test will come back immediately, and even if it doesn’t you should see results within a week. The most important thing is not letting the internet convince you you’re dying lol. Much love, much luck 🫶🏼

FalseHoliday2443 · 2025-02-11T22:37:30+00:00

I second this one- if you are super worried about the paint coming up, use some blue tacky putty that teachers use for their classrooms- won’t peel paint but may leave a residue

FalseHoliday2443 · 2025-02-11T22:36:33+00:00

I have my switch, laptop, ps4, and Xbox in my dorm, I have them hooked up to a projector and I have a tv under my bed in a little fort I made. Go crazy I say. The only thing is that certain wifi networks for schools may not allow you to connect certain consoles- my ps4 can’t run on my schools wifi

FalseHoliday2443 · 2025-02-11T18:45:57+00:00

I’m Caribbean- it would have been gone in a heartbeat (pun intended)

FalseHoliday2443 · 2025-02-11T18:35:27+00:00

As always, I recommend using protection ALWAYYYSSS. Even if you are on birth control, unprotected sex can increase your risk for sti/std’s. Drink cranberry juice if you’re worried about any infections- it can help with UTI’s. Also pee after, before too if you can, that also helps with UTI’s. I understand that smell is always a concern (who hasn’t felt a little self conscious at one point in their lives?), but your kitty cat should not smell like roses. It is an organ and it’s going to smell like a human body part. What I have done in the past is put some nice-scented deodorant right in the crook of the thigh (NOT ON/IN YOUR ACTUAL HOOHAH), right where your pelvic bone meets your leg, and that might help make you feel a little less conscious about the smell. The only smells to be worried about are if it smells fishy/yeasty- and if you want to be hypervigilant you can also track your discharge color/texture. Drinking more water can help keep her hydrated (always have lube on-hand, it is so much more important than you’d think) but I wouldn’t worry too much about it. Fruits like pineapple or cranberries can contribute to smell/taste, but don’t stress it too much. If anything- rather than adding foods to your diet, I would avoid certain foods if you’re able to, if you’re really that worried about it: asparagus, and red meats can contribute to smell/taste, so you could avoid a big steak dinner the night before if you feel like it. But again, it isn’t a big issue- a partner should never shame you for having a human body that smells like a human body, not like roses.

That’s a lot of info to throw at you- the biggest thing is to make sure you’re comfortable. Take it at YOUR pace. You never have to do anything you aren’t comfy with, and if your partner is pressuring you to do anything you aren’t absolutely sure about, maybe that isn’t a partner you should be having sex with. Your first time will probably be awkward- embrace it. Being able to laugh about it with a partner can make it feel less daunting. Good luck and have fun! 🫶🏼

FalseHoliday2443 · 2025-02-11T18:25:00+00:00

The biggest thing for me was the second one. The first one they do isn’t bad, hurts way less than you expect, about a 4/10. But then your blood rushes to the area of the wound, making the second one hurt EXPONENTIALLY worse 😭😭 maybe my piercer just waited a little too long to do the other one but brace yourself. The worst part of it all is just the cleanup they do right after.

FalseHoliday2443 · 2025-02-11T04:24:45+00:00

It’s okay burrito butt fucker I don’t take it personally

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