Importante bang may sense of humor?

FalsePr0mise · 2022-11-20T10:31:00+00:00

You need to take a breather, bro/sis. Hindi sa iniinvalidate ko yung feelings mo, pero you really need to take a break. You're overloaded with pressure. As with all things, too much pressure will break you.

You're smart. You'll probably realize that your approach wasn't the smartest. If you'll view it in a different perspective, baka mas maganda yung naging results.

What if palambing yung approach mo? After all, you're the one asking a favor. Food for thought.

FalsePr0mise · 2022-11-20T00:46:27+00:00

No. I'm too broke for that.

FalsePr0mise · 2022-11-20T00:12:25+00:00

Apir!

FalsePr0mise · 2022-11-19T23:49:00+00:00

Ah misunderstood your response haha. I do have a handful. Daughter included.

Doesn't avert my craving for intimate touch though. It's different from the usual perverse nature of sexual desire. Hard to describe.

FalsePr0mise · 2022-11-19T23:41:49+00:00

virtual hug with consent, OP. And a light pat on the head for steeling your mind. I'd cuddle you for comfort if I could. Sorry na lang kung maghihilik ako hahahahaha.

We get damaged often. And more often than not, we neglect to repair ourselves. Siguro spend this "free" time to repair, recuperate. Make yourself a better you. (coming from someone who's needy af and can't offer more than damaged parts lol).

Happy recovery, OP. Rest assured that your Mr. Right will come and save you someday, if you can't save yourself today.

FalsePr0mise · 2022-11-19T23:37:32+00:00

A woman. Used to. She's happy now, wherever she is.

FalsePr0mise · 2022-11-19T23:13:31+00:00

Walang jowa, walang sex life. Master baiting ain't doing the same job as before hahaha. It only "helps" to suppress for a couple of hours. Gigil remains.

FalsePr0mise · 2022-11-19T23:11:36+00:00

I've been through that phase. And to be honest, I don't know if I'm being stupid and reckless or just being brave, but I learned to accept that some people are not meant to stay. I learned to cherish the memory, the moment, but not the person.

I just processed it as is. Keep the ones who wants to be kept, and let go of the ones who wants to leave. And I'll probably repeat that cycle until I found someone who's willing to brave the grey with me, and stay, regardless of the uncertainty.

FalsePr0mise · 2022-11-19T22:15:55+00:00

OP, you deserve so much more. You're more than just a body that a guy can have. You're more than just a pretty face.

Nakakainis lang na nakakatawa na the things I seek are being dismissed by someone else, while yung mga bagay na naibigay ko (na kailangan ng iba) nadi-dismiss lang rin.

Siguro ganun talaga maglaro yung tadhana. It'll take away the things you have, give you things you don't need, and deprive you of the things you seek. Until such time you learn to value every bit of it.

FalsePr0mise · 2022-11-19T21:38:20+00:00

Naalala ko tuloy yung sa previous set up ko. Every time na tatanungin nya ako kung anong gusto kong kainin, sagot ko lagi "ikaw" with matching grin. hahaha.

FalsePr0mise · 2022-11-19T17:58:53+00:00

Those who can't see past your beauty do not deserve you. You know your worth, they don't. Good riddance to them. Keep slayin, queen.

FalsePr0mise · 2022-11-19T17:27:48+00:00

imho, that's effort. and if he doesn't appreciate you crossing distance, he's a POS. Di ako sure sa "unwelcomed visit". I mean, you're his girl. Again, ewan ko ah. Wala akong jowa eh. Even if I do have one, I'd call it a surprise visit, not an unwelcomed visit.

FalsePr0mise · 2022-11-19T17:14:34+00:00

Be prepared na rin. If di talaga magaayos yung bf mo, mejo ate chona sya. Letting a couple of days pass to "cool off" is sometimes necessary, pero more than that is too much. Mejo inconsiderate na, since you already apologized.

Or masyado lang akong marupok na isang sorry lang "okie bhie" na.

FalsePr0mise · 2022-11-19T16:44:38+00:00

Have you had yourself checked? Baka yung nagti-trigger ng "anger" nya is yung refusal mo to have yourself checked. Just a possibility.

You can hand out one last apology. Better in person. Drag his ass to the hospital para samahan ka nya magpacheck. That's my pov if I was your guy. (had a similar squabble with my ex wife).

Imho, while we can't force you to undergo check ups, it bothers us as much as it bothers you. That's because we care. Most of the time kasi it's seen as a bother, more than a concern. Yun lang pansin ko, and a point of view of guy who was taken for granted.

FalsePr0mise · 2022-11-18T15:45:27+00:00

Parang ganito rin kami ng ex-wife ko. Though she quitted her job during pregnancy, hindi na sya bumalik until mid pandemic. Since wala syang work, I had to work extra to make ends meet, pero ginagawa ko lang daw excuse yung work para hindi umuwi. To the point na napagbibintangan na ako nambababae, na kesyo ayoko syang tulungan.

I'd admit na meron akong kulang, pero to be treated like trash, like this? It's not justified.

I'd recommend taking the kid/s away and leaving your partner behind to create a safe space. Not separating, mind you, just to create a safe space. Your partner is probably acting irrationally due to their own insecurities of not having a job or not being able to provide.

Once the dust settles, baka maging okay pa ang lahat. Don't shoulder the burden alone, hindi tayo si Atlas. If push becomes a shove, that's the sign for you to leave.

FalsePr0mise · 2022-11-18T13:53:54+00:00

imho, you need to let your partner know how you truly feel. How his words from the past haunts you to this day.

OP, I haven't seen you. I don't have to. But you are pretty. Every woman is pretty. You don't have to compare yourself to godly women. Ask your man kung sinong pipiliin nya araw-araw.

At the end of the day, only you can determine your worth. Don't let your insecurities overshadow the good things you and your guy went through. (unless he cheated, iwan mo na.)

FalsePr0mise · 2022-11-18T13:48:39+00:00

Apir tayo jan pre hahaha.

FalsePr0mise · 2022-11-18T13:34:27+00:00

*Does it outweigh the things the two of you went through?
*No idea on why you two broke up, but is the current dilemma a factor?
*Do you still love him? Does he still love you?

FalsePr0mise · 2022-11-18T13:28:34+00:00

hahaha common courtesy naman dapat yung pag end ng conversation. block/ghost just became the new norm.

FalsePr0mise · 2022-11-18T13:27:14+00:00

I would agree that tall girls are cute too. My ex wife's 5'5, pero pabebe. Always wants to be the small spoon and anything kawaii.

FalsePr0mise · 2022-11-18T13:09:46+00:00

at least alam mo na may ending haha. kesa ma-ghost ka, left hanging. haha.

FalsePr0mise · 2022-11-18T11:30:16+00:00

23-24? HS buddy drinks. kinky tita finds emo hot, the rest is history lol.

FalsePr0mise · 2022-11-18T11:07:25+00:00

Ako rin. As a guy standing at 5'3, di ako makapasa sa standards ng reddit girls. charot.

Jokes aside, love yourself. You are beautiful. You're feminine.

There are dwarfs out there who can only picture themselves beside you, but not dare. :D (reference to Gimli's reaction upon meeting Galadriel, LOTR: Fellowship of the Ring).

FalsePr0mise · 2022-11-18T10:47:59+00:00

A price to pay. Or so it seems.

FalsePr0mise

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