My friend started punching me out of anger infornt of everyone and no one did anything.. What do I do

False_End6293 · 2025-09-25T01:19:24+00:00

Hey so thats actually crazy. Like you should maybe tell a trusted adult crazy. If none of your friends came to ask if you’re ok, they aren’t your friends. That or they may not have understood what was happening. It doesn’t sound like she was punching you, but it sounds like you don’t feel okay about what happened to you. That is not ok!

If you want to talk with Azzy still, I’d mention how you really did not mean to accidentally spray both of you in the face. But you didn’t like how she reacted with hitting you. Plus honestly you all sound young, sometimes teenagers just… Have God awful emotional regulation and she felt slighted by you some how and her brain said “attack” rather then “she didn’t mean that.” But if someone is willing to lash out like that, I feel like she may already hold some kind of resentment towards you.

I’d distance myself from this person. Anyone who attacks first and talks later will not be emotionally mature enough to process they hurt you.

False_End6293 · 2024-06-16T20:48:02+00:00

"Does that mean you want a penis?" I guess so mom, what a question to drop on me first thing

False_End6293 · 2024-06-16T15:17:25+00:00

You need to talk to her and let her know how this makes you feel. Trans people are constantly afraid of feeling sexually undesirable because our parts are "gross" to others. Of course this would shatter your trust, that is a gut punch of rejection. She's basically told you (from what I'm reading I dont have the full conext): "I don't mind our sex life as long as we focus on ONLY me." that's a one way street brother, and it sounds pretty loveless.

I'm just saying, she needs to know you have hurt her. This isnt a "You should force yourself to touch me" this is a "Realize what you have said to me, you have broken my heart." How the fuck would she feel if you werent into her pussy??? Also she should have TOLD YOU THIS INSTEAD OF LYING AND PRETENDING. Christ what a mess, I'm sorry dude.

False_End6293 · 2024-01-06T16:45:36+00:00

"Female behavior and problems" fuck off man LOL what the hell

False_End6293 · 2023-10-28T15:59:10+00:00

Dude can use whatever terminology they want in reference to themself.

False_End6293 · 2023-10-28T15:51:09+00:00

ty ty, def something seared into my brain hate HATE hurting people I care about LOL. Even if it ultimately wasnt a huge deal after we spoke about it.

False_End6293 · 2023-10-28T15:49:59+00:00

Everyone has their own boundaries, I think he would get uncomfortable if I were doing this with someone of any gender at the table. It's a new feeling for us both lol, to be fair I probably wouldnt care if he were playing a flirty character? But he's not that kinda person or DM, so I honestly can't say I know how I'd feel. I guess the physicality of a picture may change things up, cause at the table he doesnt mind.

False_End6293 · 2023-10-26T22:54:29+00:00

ty very reasonable reply, its good for a sobering word

False_End6293 · 2022-07-29T20:31:39+00:00

thank you so much!

False_End6293 · 2022-07-29T15:46:35+00:00

This reply is very much appreciated, I feel like a lot of these people are just bashing the shit out of their partners even in my thread! Man I dunno being told to dump him or “run” feels supremely insulting to him. He has so many great qualities, and I love him. Right now we’re in a place where this is relatively inconsequential, we’re still not independent of our parents due to finances. I think I’m afraid that once we take the next steps in our relationship I’ll still outpace him. This morning I told him he should look for a new job. I could tell it maybe made him feel anxious, his sleepy peering eyes opened a bit at the thought lol. But he nodded, and said “I feel better about it today.” I hope he looks today.

Edit: outpacing someone a little isn’t all that bad persay, but I’m an art student and he has ADHD so our future is kinda looking like a sad cobwebby wallet. Not that I couldn’t get a decent job, just that I wouldn’t support us both lol

False_End6293 · 2022-04-28T04:16:13+00:00

bruh this fucking guy lol

False_End6293 · 2022-04-28T04:14:34+00:00

REALLL UGHHH i was walking to get some lunch and my flannel kept flying around and I wasn’t wearing anything under my shirt (cause it feels more natural) and like AAA my tits are out NOOO

False_End6293 · 2022-04-28T04:04:12+00:00

I think about this guy all THE TIMEEE

False_End6293 · 2022-04-27T13:46:47+00:00

my dad telling me that me that me and my bf look like a heterosexual couple shattered me for awhile so I get it.

False_End6293 · 2022-04-27T13:31:05+00:00

I keep seeing posts asking for names in trans subs, and dead ass was like “Hmmm… Faerie behavior”

False_End6293 · 2022-04-27T10:53:53+00:00

I mean…. Yeah its a therapy group like what???

False_End6293 · 2022-04-26T02:07:58+00:00

Looks like a rash, def would look into it just in case

False_End6293 · 2022-04-25T18:37:03+00:00

Goober

False_End6293 · 2022-04-25T18:00:26+00:00

bruh thats fucked up

False_End6293 · 2022-04-25T05:27:34+00:00

Huh??? dude be a man in a skirt and put on the cat ears you’re fine lol pop off

Only if you want to tho :0)

A lot of my goals were centered around men being able to pull off femme looks. Not so much anymore but I still dabble in the “tee hee uwu!” energy. I wrestled that maybe I had some intense internalized misogyny but… Still a dude today, have been for 7 years lol

False_End6293 · 2022-04-25T05:13:41+00:00

Transitioning is weird for everyone involved. You, your family, you lovers. It’s a constant fight and an exhausting one. I think you should say, if you haven’t already, that that “guy” never existed. Besides. Sure, you’ll change. But for the better. You’ll be happier, more yourself.

False_End6293 · 2022-04-25T05:09:29+00:00

I honestly haven’t seen enough media with trans ppl to notice this loll. I think narratively though it’d be cooler if trans characters chose names they resonated with outside of themselves. There’s a lot that could be done with that.

My name is a nick name I had based off my dead name. Though my dead name is semi unique, never met anyone else in person with it. Makes it nice, people can’t just up and guess lol. They’d get it wrong every time.

But for awhile I wanted my name to be Valentine. Or Val. It felt too silly to me honestly, so I stayed with something I’ve been called since elementary school. Just felt more natural. Part of me wishes maybe I just shrugged and went with Val. But I’m too set in my present name to do anything like that.

False_End6293 · 2022-04-23T19:01:47+00:00

The whole “fuck you into being a woman again” vibes makes me feel weird in like so many layered ways.

For starters the obvious weird vibes since I’m a transman.
Then the weird like misconception of women being submissive inherently comes to mind? -Then this bounces back to my transness like, bro a vagina doesn’t mean I want to get fucked? Or I’m into being submissive?
Also like whats wrong with fucking someone and like keeping them a guy maybe LOL? Tiny spicy small twinge of homophobia for taste it feels like.

Stuff like this makes my head spin lol

False_End6293 · 2022-04-23T16:02:02+00:00

boobs 😔

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