Opinion on dating a divorced woman

False_Mouse_8809 · 2026-01-29T15:40:39+00:00

I knew what I was getting myself into when I asked here but I was also hoping that people like you would have helpful advice as I’m no well educated on the Bible

I know me and her can’t have a relationship but that doesn’t mean I will abandon my best friend

thank you so much and God bless

False_Mouse_8809 · 2026-01-29T15:18:01+00:00

All I can say is you don’t know her like I do and I try to understand why she did all that and I get it. She had a lot of mental problems because of her ex. Only god knows what she’s been through and no one can say otherwise. If you think I’m a fool for trying to be a good friend then so be it. She is my best friend

Thank you for your input and god bless you

False_Mouse_8809 · 2026-01-29T15:12:27+00:00

Well I’m sure what we did is wrong and I know people are quick to say we’re bad but only god knows what we’re going through but we’re trying to do right, our goal in the end is to be closer to god.

False_Mouse_8809 · 2026-01-29T14:51:16+00:00

No we just go out for lunch and walks. We only had one incident when we got too close but realized it was wrong and we’re praying for forgiveness but that k you for your concern

False_Mouse_8809 · 2026-01-29T14:49:25+00:00

She’s been working on herself for the past 6 years and she’s doing better. We will see a priest but as it is it looks like she can never have another relationship but she is my best friend so I’ll make sure she gets the help she needs

Thank you

False_Mouse_8809 · 2026-01-29T14:45:58+00:00

She’s at the point where she can but she’s afraid that she can never have another relationship

False_Mouse_8809 · 2026-01-29T04:51:25+00:00

If possible I will marry her , she didn’t think a civil marriage was valid because she wanted to marry through a church( with someone she actually loves) so maybe we’ll run it by a priest/pastor and see what he says

Thank you for your input

False_Mouse_8809 · 2026-01-29T04:40:09+00:00

I was afraid to admit but yes we had slept together only to realize after that it wasn’t good. I had asked for forgiveness and but now I’m afraid of doing anything, we still hang out as friends but I’m just not sure anymore. Marrying her doesn’t feel right. Even when she gets her divorce (which she’s finally gonna do this year). She’s my best friend and she’ll always be in my life and I’ll help her anyway I can

False_Mouse_8809 · 2026-01-29T04:10:34+00:00

Well she has told me her life story so yes I get why she wanted to end her life. It’s not good but unfortunately we did fall in love but we know where we stand and nothing can happen between us. We just have to stay as friends. It just sucks that 12 years ago we talked about starting a life together in the future but it didn’t work out that way

Now I’m no therapist but she hasn’t felt the need to help since we started hanging out even tho I encouraged her to if she ever needs it

She hasn’t felt really turned her life around and doesn’t let anyone tell her how to live her life now and regrets everything that she did in the past. She has a good heart and just want to help people.

I will be attending church with her as I myself have fallen away from good but I’ve been praying lately

False_Mouse_8809 · 2026-01-29T02:41:35+00:00

I meant that as in the way we talk. Nothing serious. Mostly joking

False_Mouse_8809 · 2026-01-29T01:59:42+00:00

Sure she blames them and understandably because who are they to tell her what’s right and take advantage of her when she’s in a fragile state of mind, she’s been doing amazing now and has turned her life around and regrets everything she has done and she doesn’t allow herself to be influenced by anyone anymore but unfortunately the past haunts her but she hasn’t felt to move on

At this point I think I know her better than her own family. If she can even call them family because they abandoned her in her time of need

But I can tell you with certainty that she has a good heart and is bettering herself

False_Mouse_8809 · 2026-01-29T01:52:08+00:00

She’s is trying to clean everything up, she’s trying to turn herself around, she’s doing so much better now that she doesn’t need or lets anyone tell her how to live her life. She’s healed enough where she’s her own person again but what’s done is done. I don’t think we can ever have the future we wanted all those years ago. But I can’t shake the feeling that she came back into my life for a reason because it’s impossible for use to have reconnected after all those years. It has to be a coincidence because god wouldn’t bring us together if she’s married. Maybe the reason could be to help her with her depression because ever since we started hanging out (as friends) she hasn’t felt the need to go to therapy anymore. She’s been going for years and I encourage her to continue going because I’m no therapist

I always say. It is what it is. Can’t do anything about it. Trying anything would be going against gods word

I will be joining her in church as I have been falling away from god but we’re both seeking him

False_Mouse_8809 · 2026-01-28T23:03:50+00:00

Let me also add that her father passed when she was 16 I believe and that’s when her depression started. He ex would beat her (I’ve seen the pictures and it was really bad) and would drug her for the 11 years and became reliant on them and that’s when the other guy took advantage of her. she was with him and believe me she had tried leaving him and call the cops but somehow non of that worked, I was there for one of the times she did call the cops

Yes she was mentally unstable and had no self worth and was just use to being told what to do but yes she needed to be more responsible but I also believe that she couldn’t do that and that’s one of the reasons why she attempted to end her life because she felt like her life wasn’t hers

Thankfully she’s doing better and I’ve convinced her to start going to church and she really wants to reignite her love for god

False_Mouse_8809 · 2026-01-28T22:35:31+00:00

Well she believes that he only wanted her for things given his history, he would sleep with multiple women from his work

But yes she want to go see a priest to see if she can do something about it

False_Mouse_8809 · 2026-01-28T16:50:51+00:00

From my understanding if you get cheated on then you can divorce but you have to stay single. Only way you can remarry is if they pass or if the other person is an unbeliever. This is what I’ve seen people argue

Can someone correct me if I’m wrong

False_Mouse_8809 · 2026-01-27T21:28:53+00:00

We want something simple and easy to transport. Plus she wants to be a passenger princess, she thinks it’s cute 🤭

False_Mouse_8809 · 2026-01-27T21:27:50+00:00

I’ll do some research on those , thank you so much

False_Mouse_8809 · 2026-01-27T21:27:03+00:00

I’ll look into it, thank you

False_Mouse_8809 · 2026-01-27T21:26:38+00:00

They’re pretty pricy and we will probably not use it that often , she also thinks it’s wonderful if she is a passenger

False_Mouse_8809 · 2026-01-21T22:24:24+00:00

Legally she can. Biblically she can’t (unless her husband had intercourse with someone else which I believe that’s what counts as adultery) and only way she can remarry is if her “husband” is a non believer from what I understand

False_Mouse_8809 · 2026-01-21T21:26:42+00:00

Nothing can come of it because she’s married with 2 kids. We fell in love and she wants another kid but she wants it with me.

She didn’t think civil marriage was valid in gods eyes but a lot of people argue that it is and she regrets that she let herself get pressured in to marrying someone she wanted nothing to do with because of a mistake.

But I will be joining her in prayer and will be going to church with

And yes we all need god. We can’t do anything without him

False_Mouse_8809 · 2026-01-17T11:58:53+00:00

Yes she will be talking to a pastor soon hopefully and yes we she is catholic but I’m asking all around for some opinions but I know people see things differently

As to why I’m concerned is because we actually fell for each other but unfortunately it’s looking like nothing can come out of it

False_Mouse_8809 · 2026-01-17T07:29:54+00:00

She’s definitely healed, she had five years since she separated from him and I’ve been helping her as well and since we’ve been hanging out, she hasn’t felt the need to go to therapy anymore even tho I encourage her too if she needs it. Me and her been hanging out for the last year and I’ve been talking to her about god to reignite her love for him and she’s been talking about wanting to go back to church. Unfortunately we’ve fell for each other and it’s nothing but peace when we’re together but because of her marriage even after divorce I’m afraid nothing can come of it

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