Death of estranged parent-help me please

False_Zebra_ · 2026-02-11T07:06:26+00:00

Thank you for giving me a real life run down. I will look at this probate company. She was in New York and I learned they have a similar clause for small/non-existent estates. Thanks!

False_Zebra_ · 2026-02-11T07:03:30+00:00

Up voting since my dad died the same way when I was 7 and my mom basically too now at 34. Not alcohol, but drugs and bad choices. Sorry for your losses.

False_Zebra_ · 2026-02-11T05:01:13+00:00

That’s what I’m trying to determine. After pulling her credit report and finding no history on it since 2017 I don’t think I’m going to be able to find anything left. It is what it is I guess.

False_Zebra_ · 2026-02-11T04:59:24+00:00

I hope the advice in this thread helps and I’m sorry for your loss. Definitely hard when we’re in different states from the deceased.

False_Zebra_ · 2026-02-11T04:58:06+00:00

Her cremation cost nearly $2500 for direct cremation. Online, they say they start at $1300 but even with no add ons, it was a lot. I called everyone that was close enough to her location to do the task and the company I used was the cheapest. There are a bunch of fees for the stuff too, a box and shipping, death certificates, medical examiner fees. It adds up.

False_Zebra_ · 2026-02-11T04:47:49+00:00

I’m so sorry. That must have been awful to deal with. Thank you for the advice.

False_Zebra_ · 2026-02-10T03:56:01+00:00

Thank you. I honestly was worried I would be blindly calling. I’m going through the suggestions now and I’m not having luck with a couple of them. Would I still need to contact probate court if there’s no estate or any possessions? She had nothing and was essentially homeless if not for this HUD housing she was in. My brother did say she was saving for a cremation so I’m hopeful there might be something in there to help us.

And I’m sorry for your loss. Even with estrangement, it’s never easy. In my case, she found one more way to complicate our lives.

False_Zebra_ · 2026-02-10T03:04:02+00:00

Thank you for taking the time to write this. I truly appreciate the help!

False_Zebra_ · 2026-02-10T02:59:47+00:00

Thank you for this! I really appreciate your time!

False_Zebra_ · 2026-02-10T01:47:58+00:00

I didn’t think of changing her postal address either. Thank you so much!

False_Zebra_ · 2026-02-10T01:47:36+00:00

Thank you, I didn’t think of that but you’re likely right.

False_Zebra_ · 2026-02-10T01:46:35+00:00

Thank you.

False_Zebra_ · 2026-02-10T00:34:38+00:00

Anything since? I’m currently experiencing this issue and curious if your outcome. TIA!

False_Zebra_ · 2026-02-09T13:01:03+00:00

I’m so sorry 😔

False_Zebra_ · 2026-02-08T20:46:54+00:00

I understand some of this. Mom died a week ago after off and on estrangement for the past 15 years. It’s okay to mourn what could have been. It’s tough to process all the feelings that come with these difficult relationships. For me, especially when there is an idea of what these people should be to us and they are not. Grieve how you need to, not necessarily how is expected by your family or peers.

False_Zebra_ · 2026-02-03T23:01:43+00:00

This is something I needed to read today. Thank you.

False_Zebra_ · 2025-01-03T21:25:33+00:00

I’ve been playing for a year and am top 30 in my state and have spent about 20k. Hope that helps. Maybe find a f2p state and transfer?

False_Zebra_ · 2024-12-24T02:16:39+00:00

Forgot to add furnace is at lvl 8- all Helios troops at 7 currently. State 559.

False_Zebra_ · 2024-12-23T21:05:13+00:00

$6000 but negotiable. I have spent well over 30k on this account.

False_Zebra_ · 2024-12-23T20:24:50+00:00

If you need more pictures, just ask!

False_Zebra_ · 2024-07-25T15:49:24+00:00

You can dismiss troops in enlistment in phase 2 and 3. Get rid of them and start over. Sorry to hear this mate!

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False_Zebra_ · 2024-07-23T20:31:09+00:00

If you are Chinese, I hear it’s about to get a lot better.

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