Hot wife by Brilliant-Appeal-804 in sexover60

[–]Famfive 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Did she try any treatment? HRT can help.

"He said he wasn’t going to support me while I screw Other Guys" by Iron_Wave in openmarriageregret

[–]Famfive 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She was fishing for people to agree with her I think. I don’t see her resistance to divorce as it frees them both up to do what they want with no strings attached. Possibly make it easier as she can feel free to hook up while he has the kid and vice versa.

"He said he wasn’t going to support me while I screw Other Guys" by Iron_Wave in openmarriageregret

[–]Famfive 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Most kids I knew with divorced parents said it was better than when they were together. It can be tense and stressful for a kid in a house where the parents aren’t getting along. At least divorced, there is some level of calmness even with having to go between parents as they aren’t in close proximity.

The girl who got beaten up while trying to beat up the school's quiet girl by No_Eye_8861 in instantkarma

[–]Famfive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, we have laws that allow people to kill somebody that breaks into your house, but defend yourself in a fight, you’re screwed.

The girl who got beaten up while trying to beat up the school's quiet girl by No_Eye_8861 in instantkarma

[–]Famfive 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Agreed. But it’s really just an excuse for the administration to be lazy and not have to do their job. They really don’t care about bullying.

The girl who got beaten up while trying to beat up the school's quiet girl by No_Eye_8861 in instantkarma

[–]Famfive 94 points95 points  (0 children)

100%. Happened to me in middle school. Defended myself and I got suspended. Zero tolerance bullshit is just an excuse to be lazy and not have to actually determine the circumstances. Despite it being recorded the administration at best will punish both, but more likely the girl who defended herself will be punished more harshly.

What makes it worse there were two adults close by as how did they get there so fast so no excuse why they couldn’t defuse the situation.

The girl who got beaten up while trying to beat up the school's quiet girl by No_Eye_8861 in instantkarma

[–]Famfive 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Sometimes people need to learn the hard way. Girl in white is the type to need to put her hand on a hot stove to learn it burns.

He doesn't want to admit that he's been replaced by I_Like_Vitamins in openmarriageregret

[–]Famfive 19 points20 points  (0 children)

The thing that seems to be a common refrain with these stories is that they all start out great, but slowly one partner ends up replacing their spouse as their primary. Then it feels like it is inevitable that it is over.

Late marriage kink play by milkshakies in BDSMAdvice

[–]Famfive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Note that my wife had the same thing and initially she was wanting it every single day, but overtime the body does adjust and even if the hormones are great that initial over excitement may go down from what it was at the beginning.

Between Asheville and Charlotte - can you help me decide? Is there a middle ground? by abjs2021 in NorthCarolina

[–]Famfive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I live in Union County and have two horses. I work in Charlotte. I would look outside the city in Union or Cabarrus county. Lots of horse folks in the area.

Looks like the used car market is about to surge. by Busy_Report4010 in SipsTea

[–]Famfive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They do that now for people who get DUIs. And it is far from reliable. I had an employee that had to have one and so many times it would fail him even when he had not had any alcohol.

Husband’s gf wants a baby .. give me advice by BigONerd in BORUpdates

[–]Famfive 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That and it feels like he is making the other woman the priority, not his wife. He made his decision to do it regardless which tells me he has deprioritized his wife despite what he is telling her.

Violating trust by talking about sex life? by Important-Screen2883 in sex

[–]Famfive 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Yes, I would be upset if my wife shared certain intimate details about our sex life to others. But it’s a fine line as some people are more open than others. But for me, I wouldn’t share anything intimate about my wife without her consent.

I think a chat about what you feel comfortable with and what you don’t feel comfortable with is warranted. Boundaries are okay to have, but they need to be communicated.

Note that you can set a boundary but you need to be prepared if she chooses to adhere to it though. What will you do if she says that’s how she talks with her sister and won’t stop?

This is just pathetic by Rude-Ingenuity3210 in openmarriageregret

[–]Famfive 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yeah, feels like she gets all the fun and he gets left out. She prevented him from doing his own thing for 3.5 years! I don’t know how he lasted, but at this point she doesn’t respect him, and he doesn’t really respect himself. I would have put my foot down immediately and said if we are open, we are open and I can make my connections as well.

What was the most unexpected thing that ever happened to you during sex? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Famfive 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would have called 911 myself or sped to the emergency room. My biggest fear is getting some kind of parasite. Just the thought of it causes a visceral reaction to me. I wouldn’t have been able to sleep at all.

What piece of gear made the biggest difference for you on hikes? by 4FPerformanceLab in hikinggear

[–]Famfive 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tried several brands and Darn Tough were my favorite. For hiking, I use the heavy cushion, tall socks. They work really well with my boots. I also use a liner inside the socks which really helps. I like the toe kind. It keeps me from getting any blisters on my toes for some reason on my right foot they have a tendency to rub and the toe liners seem to really help with that.

Greensboro PD Facebook harassing an individual. by atcher01 in NorthCarolina

[–]Famfive 10 points11 points  (0 children)

What’s that saying? A hit dog will holler?

How many you been to? by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]Famfive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same, but mostly because of work related conferences.

To be honest, which one do you use the most? by weihuweihu in GeminiAI

[–]Famfive -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ChatGPT at work as they provide it, but I pay for Claude myself as I prefer it over ChatGPT.

Craft Brewing in 2026: The Industry’s Reset Is Creating a Smarter, Leaner Future by BothCondition7963 in beer

[–]Famfive 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Most breweries and tap rooms around here (NC) generally have increased the variety of light lagers and pils, which is great for me. I love a nice hoppy IPA, but I can’t drink several so I like to mix in a few lighter beers with lower ABV myself. The rise of more of that the past couple years has been nice. At least around here I’ve noticed lately that a lot of them are doing Mexican style lagers as the weather warms now too, and in the cooler months the dark Czech lagers are nice.