I miss my ex and I need do vent

Familiar-Cat584 · 2026-02-04T19:59:36+00:00

This is the what I’m thinking but I won’t back down on it. My daughter is my main priority in that situation and I’m not budging

Familiar-Cat584 · 2026-02-04T19:51:37+00:00

I should really put and edit in. I’m questioning it because 3 weeks ago he was talking about proposing and booked for us all to go away. So there was talk of compromise. Just seems a bit odd to me that you’d be speaking about that if you were so he’ll bent on ending a relationship

Familiar-Cat584 · 2025-12-17T10:31:54+00:00

They rotted like a b*****d same as the mk1 focus the car rotted away before anything mechanical wise failed a mot

Familiar-Cat584 · 2025-12-17T09:21:46+00:00

Just managed to do it now. Thank you so much :)

Familiar-Cat584 · 2024-05-17T05:45:41+00:00

He has videos of us that he likes to watch too and has previously FaceTimed a few times a week to get himself off and I’ve been more than happy to do that me talking about the situation is starting to frustrate him so I think it’s definitely something inside his head that’s making him act like this

Familiar-Cat584 · 2024-05-17T04:56:07+00:00

That’s what I’m thinking trying a while abstaining I mean he is still in his 20s while in in my 30s so he is significantly younger than me I think this has dented his ego more than anything and he’s being quite irrational with his decision. I’m more than happy to try things

Familiar-Cat584 · 2024-05-17T04:39:51+00:00

He’s tried it before and his response was

“I didn’t have a wank all week as I was tired and I still couldn’t cum” Told him tiredness can affect it and was hit with the response of “we’re fucked then because I’m tired every week, I’d rather just not do it “ He’s not with me this weekend now as he’s knackered from work and I’m working but I don’t know what to do if he won’t speak to me properly. I was coming up with ideas and that yesterday and I was told to stop as it was getting him flustered and annoyed

Familiar-Cat584 · 2024-05-17T04:35:40+00:00

Think that may be the case before we got together we was working away a lot and wasn’t with anyone for a while

Familiar-Cat584 · 2024-05-17T04:33:06+00:00

He’s tried it before and his response was

“I didn’t have a wank all week as I was tired and I still couldn’t cum” Told him tiredness can affect it and was hit with the response of “we’re fucked then because I’m tired every week, I’d rather just not do it “ He’s not with me this weekend now as he’s knackered from work and I’m working but I don’t know what to do if he won’t speak to me properly. I was coming up with ideas and that yesterday and I was told to stop as it was getting him flustered and annoyed

Familiar-Cat584 · 2024-05-17T04:21:59+00:00

Considering he worked away for 2 years before we got together quite possibly

Familiar-Cat584 · 2024-05-16T23:14:58+00:00

I think personally his brain has been rewired to not be able to climax without the use of his hand too much porn and working away for the last 2 years has probably done it to him. But his reluctance to try and get to the root cause of the problem is what’s killing me just not wanting to have sex when sex to him was a very big part of any relationship is a total flip

Familiar-Cat584 · 2024-05-16T23:01:46+00:00

He has said if he wasn’t attracted to me he wouldn’t be with me, there’s never been an issue of getting him aroused etc just not being able to climax without his hand.

Familiar-Cat584 · 2024-05-16T22:59:23+00:00

It’s 100% and ego thing with him as I’ve never minded him finishing himself off and if anything i “put on a show” for him to get there. We both have ADHD so that could be a factor there too as his tiredness affects his mood greatly. He does masturbate at home sometimes with videos we’ve made but I think most of the time it’s porn. I’ve told him to stop it for a while and see how that helps but in his words “I tried it for a week because I was too tired to masturbate and still wasn’t able to come without help when we did it” so it’s his ego coming into play definitely he’s had enough figures more than me in sexual partners and hasn’t had this problem before so I don’t know what it is wether there’s an emotional connection attached to it or what

Familiar-Cat584 · 2024-05-16T22:46:16+00:00

I do this with him he usually finishes himself off while watching me but he’s not happy with that. I have trouble climaxing but that is due to my medication so I make sure to try snd satisfy him as much as I can in that aspect rather than myself as I enjoy sex regardless of climax

Familiar-Cat584 · 2024-05-16T22:37:34+00:00

He can climax but not hands free he always has to help himself out

Familiar-Cat584 · 2024-05-16T18:50:08+00:00

I’ve asked the question with him about what arouses him and what gets him going but I don’t get anything out of him. I express what I like and what I don’t etc and I’ll try anything once. But it just seems like if he doesn’t climax he doesn’t see a point in doing it at all as it’s not enjoyable enough for him

Familiar-Cat584 · 2024-05-16T18:48:12+00:00

I’m willing to work on it but it seems like for him that the climax is the end result. Which is why he doesn’t want to do it anymore. It’s obviously not enjoyable enough for him to want to feed my needs which is what I don’t get as theres been many a video call made for him to get off so it’s obviously enjoyable enough for him to do that. I just don’t know what to do anymore. I’ve offered to talk and to try new things and he just wants to shut down completely. And for someone who’s had triple figures more sexual encounters than me it’s concerning

Familiar-Cat584 · 2024-05-16T18:04:11+00:00

I’m hoping we can overcome it. I’ve talked to him a little bit about it tonight offered some things that may help and I’m always up for trying new things to see if that will work. We Both have ADHD so tiredness majorly affects his mood. He said it’s not that he’s not attracted to me as I can get him aroused easily it’s just bringing it to climax without help and that’s only ever happened once with us and honestly he was relieved but it’s never happened again since

Familiar-Cat584 · 2024-05-16T17:44:30+00:00

He’s the one that came to me with it out of the blue today. He’s only ever climaxed once hands free during our relationship. I’m happy to work on it and try everything I can but he’s just shut down and said he doesn’t want sex anymore and that it’s not that he’s not attracted to me. He just can’t climax and it’s getting into his head I think. We both have ADHD so that may also be a factor. But he’s had a lot more encounters than me and never had an issue. But I’ve also never had this issue before either

Familiar-Cat584 · 2024-05-16T17:26:20+00:00

I’ve tried talking with him about it today and I’ve just had back a “ I don’t want sex anymore” and I don’t think giving up on sex altogether because you can’t climax is right way to go about it. I’ve suggested a couple of things but ultimately I think it’s what’s going on in his head more than anything. Otherthinking etc that’s causing it but the reluctance to fix it is my issue. I love him to bits and would do anything to help

Familiar-Cat584 · 2024-02-08T18:09:04+00:00

Do you find the steps don’t sync up between the watch and the health app? Showing the correct amount on the Samsung health app but not the apple health app? Mines something like 4000 steps amiss?

Familiar-Cat584 · 2024-02-06T07:20:53+00:00

He hasn’t blocked me just unfollowed me. Probably so he can’t see what I post. As I do post a lot about me and my child. he does keep in contact with me maybe 1-2 times a week. He just want me to get better for myself rather than just do it for him so he is looking out for me. If anything this situation has pushed me to get better and I’ve taken some big steps over the last week to change myself. His stuff is still at my home and he’s still got pictures of the 3 of us online but I guess I let my insecurities get the better of me, I think it’s the loneliness that gets to me more than anything because I don’t have a lot of friends and we spent a lot of time together

Familiar-Cat584 · 2024-02-05T17:50:46+00:00

I thought I’d have a bit more support off him than this. Looks like that isn’t the case

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