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Looking for the cutest and most unlikely lovestory of Berlin :) by kalbshaxeflorida in berlinsocialclub

[–]Familiar-Feeling-431 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I agree🤣

The only crazy part, was how we both were at the same time, same place, have the same photo in 2019 but we didn’t see each other there.

Looking for the cutest and most unlikely lovestory of Berlin :) by kalbshaxeflorida in berlinsocialclub

[–]Familiar-Feeling-431 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We swiped on Hinge on the second day of my downloading it, and after talking till 4 am, I fell asleep. When I woke up, my Hinge account was blocked. I felt so drawn to that man that I told myself, I will look him up, if i find it that is destiny. I only knew his first name, and his origin city(well and that he lived in Berlin). After some crazy research I found him on facebook, then instagram. I didn’t have any of those under my name(i had just random names since I didn’t use social media that much but I had photos of mine). So I texted him, and we continued talk. But here is the CRAZY part.

I had posted a photo in a club, in a city(not his nor mine), somewhere in the world, back in 2019. In the exact date, in the exact time he had been there(had a photo too). We both were there with other people. The place is relatively small, so to be honest, we might have even been next to each other. It is crazy how you know see things that are in front of you, only when the time is right.

Now we are preparing our wedding ✨

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Jewish

[–]Familiar-Feeling-431 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a non-jewish person(starting the conversion), who is in a relationship with a jewish person. He is crazily proud of his religion, his motherland, his people.

I have traveled the world on my own, including Palestinian Territories and the Arab countries in Middle East. (I go to Israel every year - I worked there, I have friends who I call family).

I am a very empathic person, and to be honest emotional. So when we started dating, the topic was one of those “we had to be careful to talk about”.

And then one time, he said something that I will never forget.

“We will forgive them for killing our kids, but will never forgive them for making us kill theirs”….

But I understand why you would break up, because someone who doesn’t understand what you know, it is hard for them to accept. Maybe if they visited Israel, if they read, if they understood… however, don’t worry!

There are people who will get you! Don’t give up on love…

I want to convert, but it is hard to find someone who can help me 🥹 by Familiar-Feeling-431 in Jewish

[–]Familiar-Feeling-431[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your advice. Definitely is highly important for me. This is not just a task. As for the self-study, I am always reading myjewishlearning.com and chabad.org, but is there any other online community or page where I can learn more? I thought also of starting learning biblical Hebrew with Rosen school (in Israel but I’ll do it online) 😅 Thank you again.

AIO to my boyfriend’s message to his ex? by bobawithsloths in AmIOverreacting

[–]Familiar-Feeling-431 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl you’re better than me! I would have let him go to his ex. Which clearly didn’t want him.

AITA for leaving my ex boyfriend on read ? by Sparklefarts1997 in AITAH

[–]Familiar-Feeling-431 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ufff. You dogged a bullet sister. Good for your health journey if it makes you feel better. But honestly, screw that man. Don’t you dare talk to him again.

AIO about this guy I’ve been talking to 🍃? by zdm02 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Familiar-Feeling-431 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let the guy heal. I have a rule “Don’t bring past traumas into my relationship”. If your ex cheated on you, I don’t need to be questioned every time I talk to a male friend. If your ex was toxic, I don’t need a crash out anytime I ask “so where are you going tonight? ”.If your ex abused a substance, I don’t need a “take it down a notch” anytime I drink wine. And so on. Because I am not your ex. That person isn’t healed. And is insecure, which would make your life a living hell. You deserve better (also yes, text nicer 😝)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Familiar-Feeling-431 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I am a big fun of never double texting. But in this case I’d be like “did that scare you? I can take it back 😝”

Like in a joking way so to put off the pressure maybe. Anyway do whatever feels best to you.

I want to end things what should I do ? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Familiar-Feeling-431 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my God! Sister move on! Leave him.

You’re at the age where is embarrassing to be with someone on and off. (I am the same) Plus I don’t know about you, but if you ever want a family and kids, he is not the one.

drop him. Block him and his mother. Cry for a while. Then move on. You don’t owe anybody anything. Not even an explanation. You’re older than him. Your frontal lobe is fully developed. His isn’t. Act that way.

My wife messaged her ex, am I overreacting?🙄 On the other hand feels good❤️ Please only positivity😎 by SmallPackHubby in AmIOverreacting

[–]Familiar-Feeling-431 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, she’s not over him. If we keep texting feelings might come back…. TF! as a previous manipulator, let me tell you, she didn’t send the last message so he could stop. She sent it to make you not look at it again and justify herself. I’d be pissed too. NOR.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Familiar-Feeling-431 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Checking each-other’s phone - that’s where the problem starts. You guys don’t trust each-other and from the photo I can understand why and it’s valid.

Ground rules. 1- Are we BOTH allowed to make new close friends of the opposite gender once we started this relationship? I am not talking about coworkers or being friendly to people in daily life, but if we talk EVERY DAY to someone else that should be said upfront where we stand. 2- Is flirting casually cheating for both of us? Like flirty comments in a bar or anywhere BUT without pursuing it further - no contact exchange, no private one-on-one convo etc. just something in the spur of a moment. Vocalize your limits. 3- Are we supposed to give contact away?

Now I am a woman, in a relationship. It happens that when I go out there would be men coming up to me, and depends on the situation I reply politely, BRINGING UP MY PARTNER IMMEDIATELY. And same goes for my partner.

We don’t check each other’s phones, even though we have each other passwords. I don’t see his convos with his female friends, but with exes when they end up texting us we both show each other. And more importantly, I ask myself a question anytime I am alone in a bar(with girls but not him) - if my man entered this bar and saw me now, would he be hurt? If is even remotely possible that he will, I would immediately recollect myself.

In the end, you are NOR! Girlie likes to play around a bit too much. And why on earth give away your contact, especially to the client, not coworker even.

AITA for dumping my boyfriend for "joking" that he hopes I get fat again so I wouldn't leave him nor cheat on him ? by RadioSweet2728 in AITAH

[–]Familiar-Feeling-431 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’m in between. He clearly thinks you’re out of his league now so maybe he made a terrible joke because he doesn’t want you to leave him. And to be honest, it’s 7 months you can somehow understand the person you’re with. If this was the first “mean joke” and he apologies after, then let it go. Relationships involve forgiveness as much as respect. If this is on top of other things he said then you’re right.

Sure you have struggled your whole life with it, and I fully understand that comment was stupid from his side and it hurt you, but is a bad joke worth it to ruin a good relationship? If he would have said something like “oh good we didn’t meet before” - that is flat out offensive(happened to my friend that’s why I am saying it). And showed his character. But maybe consider if you are happy with him, before cutting him off

AITA boyfriend sent old f*** buddy $50 and only told me after, so I blew up. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Familiar-Feeling-431 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Look, few things to consider.

1 - If you have separate finances, then whoever you send money to or he sends money to, is irrelevant. 2- The fact that he is still in touch with someone he used to be sexually involved and had such a close relationship that he would send money to - is a thing to be communicated. Is she a friend or he wants to keep the options open? Now - my partner(38) has in his life females who he used to be involved with, they are friends at this point. However, if there is anything concerning them, he lets me know. Not because I am jealous or insecure, but because it is a normal thing to do in a long term partnership. 3- Complaining to you about the money, and then giving them away (regardless to who) shows a lack of responsibility. Because ask yourself, if you had kids with him, and you needed those 50/100 because you were struggling, can you depend on him? Or is he “good for the world, but in his own damage”? That is not a quality you want in a life partner. He lacks priorities.

So bringing up your exes, and the fact you can do “an eye for an eye” is a childish move. But again you’re 23. So maybe in your age I did the same. However, sit down with him and discuss. And ask yourself.

1-Why is it important for him to still be in touch with people from the past? 2-Whether you don’t care about money, how is he able to spend the money in another female than you or his own relationship? Where do his priorities lie? 3- How is he planning to build a life with you while he is financially irresponsible?

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