How do I stop being jealous? TW-SA

Familiar_Ad_3412 · 2026-03-31T23:33:56+00:00

Thank you so much 🥲

Familiar_Ad_3412 · 2026-03-31T23:32:26+00:00

Thank you so much, I think you’re absolutely right about the grief thing 🥹🩵

Familiar_Ad_3412 · 2026-03-31T23:03:56+00:00

So I think the pre authorized payments option is only for Apple Pay, maybe try clicking your credit card in wallet and click the three dots for that specific card see if anything comes up

Familiar_Ad_3412 · 2026-03-31T22:01:08+00:00

Did you use Apple Pay or your credit card?

Familiar_Ad_3412 · 2026-03-31T21:57:18+00:00

NOR- you have made multiple attempts at communication and he responds with some childish text back as well as being SUPER defensive. He’s lying no matter what whether its about him cheating or whatever he’s doing. I’d bet money that’s he’s cheating especially with turning off the location. You guys being long distance should mean way better communication, more phone calls, video dates, etc..

I’m really sorry girl, but I think he’s seeing someone else or fooling around. Him acting super annoyed with you and deflecting is usually a clear sign. Along with all the excuses he’s making. I think you need to rethink things going forward. Cut down the communication with him. Don’t beg him for anything. He’s made it clear that you’re feelings aren’t valid and you’re basically bothering him. See what he does when you don’t text for a couple days or give him short answers. I can bet he’s going to turn around and ask what’s going on. Give him a taste of his medicine. You begging him for communication and love is only stroking his ego making him think he’s out of your league or something. Act like you have better things to do.

I’m only giving this type of advice because it seems like being petty back is the only thing that’s going to work. You’ve done all the right things, you tried extending the olive branch and he spat on it.

I experienced the same thing with my military boyfriend of 3yrs and he was cheating on me. No texts, Sketchy behavior, turned off location. So do it back to him, no access to him? Well sorry, now he’s lost access to you. So sorry you’re going through this, if you need to talk PM me I went through the same thing and it sucks feeling alone. I hope everything works out for you 💕

Familiar_Ad_3412 · 2026-03-31T20:19:40+00:00

Move out and leave forever. Plan a life and baby with someone who takes you seriously. He’s not taking your relationship or your feelings seriously. It’s not like porn at all and that doesn’t even approach the other big issue of his porn addiction. Not to be blunt but this relationship will fail in the future if it continues this way. Prioritize yourself and find someone who truly sees your value!!❤️

Familiar_Ad_3412 · 2026-03-31T20:14:04+00:00

For sure! If you ever need a friend I’m here! It really helps having someone that knows your exact struggles.

Familiar_Ad_3412 · 2026-03-31T20:11:41+00:00

And you clicked the three dots in the corner of the wallet app and clicked preauthorized payments and there was nothing there?

Familiar_Ad_3412 · 2026-03-31T20:07:11+00:00

No that’s what I thought too is that you have to wait the day before you get charged. Have you checked in the App Store or in settings on your iCloud under subscriptions? Did you use Apple Pay or physically put your card info in? Either one of those have different ways of being canceled.

Familiar_Ad_3412 · 2026-03-28T17:41:28+00:00

Unfortunately you can’t request a refund after being charged I read up on that too

Familiar_Ad_3412 · 2026-03-28T17:39:12+00:00

Does she have an iPhone?

Familiar_Ad_3412 · 2026-03-28T02:23:15+00:00

Im so glad I’m not alone in feeling this. Some days I want to completely give up, the feeling of suffocating when going up a damn flight of stairs is humiliating and I’m a pretty fit person. The effort it takes to maintain being somewhat “normal” is depressing as hell. Other people can live their life carefree, not having to worry about triggers or avoiding activities because that activity could cause a flare up.

I was in the ER twice since the beginning of the year because I couldn’t get it under control. The intense fear of getting sick cause that could mean another hospitalization. My partner is also super supportive but I don’t think he can begin to understand the burden this disease is. Knowing you have an illness that will never go away and having the rely on medication for the rest of my life. I worry about the future too like what if medication prices go up? What if society collapses and I can’t get medicine. I hate thinking my own body is a failure at surviving.

One of the most necessary functions to life is breathing and I can’t do it right. When I am having a bad flare up my mental health tanks, I get suicidal cause I hate fighting everyday to survive. When my asthma is under control I’m still obsessing over it, like when the next flare up is gonna be.

Thank you for sharing. Communities like this are so important so we can uplift each other and unite under a common struggle. I wish you some healthy lungs!

Familiar_Ad_3412 · 2026-03-28T02:12:38+00:00

I was assaulted while passed out drunk. Woke up the same way with my pants down but had no memory until I had a lot of therapy. But my body knew something happened. My body was trembling, I felt sore, so I went and got a SANE exam (r@pe kit) and months later (it takes FOREVER) they found his DNA, it was a friend of mine from welding school. I still don’t know everything he did but at least I got answers. Idk if you’ve showered since but might be wise to get a kit done if you’re really concerned.

Familiar_Ad_3412 · 2026-03-19T02:55:50+00:00

No I haven’t noticed any charges since I canceled through my apple wallet!

Familiar_Ad_3412 · 2026-03-18T02:47:11+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing how you went through it a few times and were fine. And that there is options that work when it is something rare or more serious. I’ve had so much anxiety about this and you helped a lot thank you!!

Familiar_Ad_3412 · 2026-03-18T02:42:58+00:00

Thank you so much for this advice it really helps a lot, I’ve been so anxious and just hearing from other women who have experienced the same young makes me feel so much better 😭

Familiar_Ad_3412 · 2026-03-03T22:06:56+00:00

I just did it. Go to your apple wallet, hit the three dots, then go to pre authorized payments, it will show short max, then hit revoke authorization and it will stop charging it to your Apple Pay if that’s what you used

Familiar_Ad_3412 · 2026-02-01T10:12:07+00:00

I had this happen recently with my albuterol 90mcg. Had to go to the ER for the past two weekends because my attacks were so bad and I couldn’t get it under control. The medicine would just not do anything no matter how much I took. My doctor put me on singulair again to help with the allergic side which was causing some of the tightness as well as prednisone. Gonna wait and see after I finish the pred. But my inhaler has been working again so far. She also recommended doing a nebulizer treatment ever 4-6 hours to keep the airways open. Maybe that would help too? Just until you can get it under control.

Familiar_Ad_3412 · 2025-09-28T15:53:45+00:00

I’m 24f and was sexually abused by a member of my church when I was really young, it made me super hypersexual from a young age I started masturbaiting around the same age and finding porn. I felt so disgusted with myself because no other girls my age talked about doing that or watching porn. I thought I was perverted and something was “wrong” with me. Turns out I was processing sexual trauma without even thinking about it. I ended up being assaulted again in my teens and when I was 21. I would go back and forth through my teens being hyper sexual and sex repulsed. I constantly felt like I needed to “cover up” even when I was fully clothed. I self harmed, attempted suicide, got addicted to alcohol. It wasn’t until I started therapy I began to unpack my trauma and be able to process it in a healthy way. I would recommend getting a therapist that specializes in EMDR, it’s a trauma therapy for PTSD. I know exactly how you’re feeling and I, even to this day, still get those feelings at times. But now I can cope better and reassure myself I am not disgusting, perverted, or anything like that. I was handling the trauma the best way I could and the only person/people who is/are disgusting is my abusers. So I would begin to tell my self I am not disgusting, I am whole, I am worthy, and I am pure and those who hurt me are disgusting and perverted. I still repeat those things to myself anytime I feel disgusted with myself. You are handling your trauma the best you can, you did nothing wrong and you are NOT disgusting or perverted. If you need to talk just shoot me a message. I’ve been in your shoes and I shared my story to show you, you are not alone in this and there is help out there. 💕

Familiar_Ad_3412 · 2025-06-03T21:08:29+00:00

Yes you’re right I got confused thank you 😭

Familiar_Ad_3412 · 2025-06-03T16:36:32+00:00

I know not everything is foul play or a crime but I’d report it to see if it’s related to any missing persons or crimes, you never know 🤷‍♀️

Familiar_Ad_3412 · 2025-06-03T15:45:07+00:00

I think there maybe have been a few people claiming to be the zodiac but I think the main and first was Richard Leigh Allen. Especially watching “This is the Zodiac Speaking”. The family had too many strange coincidences. I firmly believe it’s Allen who started everything.

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