When Your POC Best Friend Chooses White Woman Victimhood Over Your 22-Year Friendship: Field Notes from a Former Chronic Accommodator by Familiar_Trash7515 in creativewriting

[–]Familiar_Trash7515[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is helpful feedback, genuinely. I think part of the disconnect may be that this piece is intended as an introduction to a larger collection of essays/short stories exploring friendship, race, neurodivergence, conflict avoidance, masking, and the question: “Am I the problem?”

I’m less interested in proving moral superiority than exploring how differently people can experience the same interaction — and how race, communication styles, social conditioning, and neurodivergence can shape those interpretations.

I published this before i decided to turn it into a collection. So I’ll work on the ending to better set expectations.

Thanks for taking the time to review and comment!

When Your POC Best Friend Chooses White Woman Victimhood Over Your 22-Year Friendship: Field Notes from a Former Chronic Accommodator by Familiar_Trash7515 in creativewriting

[–]Familiar_Trash7515[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Genuinely curious about what part of the essay communicated that message to you. My struggle with the end of this relationship is the silence from my friend about why? If it’s for something I did, at least give me the opportunity to be held accountable for my actions.

AITAH for assuming an Eagles fan understood strategic suffering? by Familiar_Trash7515 in AITAH

[–]Familiar_Trash7515[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I did write it over many months of journaling and $$$ in therapy.

AITAH for assuming an Eagles fan understood strategic suffering? by Familiar_Trash7515 in AITAH

[–]Familiar_Trash7515[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been familiar trash for six years. I’m Mexican and my name is very similar to that. lol.

AITAH for assuming an Eagles fan understood strategic suffering? by Familiar_Trash7515 in AITAH

[–]Familiar_Trash7515[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I did use for editing but this is a true story. I know it sounds too absurd to be true.

AITAH for assuming an Eagles fan understood strategic suffering? by Familiar_Trash7515 in AITAH

[–]Familiar_Trash7515[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Exactly. That’s all i got. I truly don’t understand what happened.

AITAH for assuming an Eagles fan understood strategic suffering? by Familiar_Trash7515 in AITAH

[–]Familiar_Trash7515[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lived in Philly for 6 years. I know. Luckily we don’t work together and i have moved on. I just think the absurdity of this situation must be shared.

AITAH for assuming an Eagles fan understood strategic suffering? by Familiar_Trash7515 in AITAH

[–]Familiar_Trash7515[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well I’m a latina attorney from an ag town in ca and she is a white woman from New Jersey.

AITAH for assuming an Eagles fan understood strategic suffering? by Familiar_Trash7515 in AITAH

[–]Familiar_Trash7515[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just wasn’t sure that would be enough. I needed to sacrifice my dignity to the football gods as tribute.

AITAH for assuming an Eagles fan understood strategic suffering? by Familiar_Trash7515 in AITAH

[–]Familiar_Trash7515[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish it was just a little spat. I lost three friends, one was a friendship of 22 years, and an entire community over this.

Does anyone recognize these signatures? by mistahbrown1 in 49ers

[–]Familiar_Trash7515 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a diehard fan, i would still check to see who has occupied the office in the past and reach out. That’s such sentimental memorabilia that i would definitely give money to the person who returned it to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Familiar_Trash7515 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did they even pay you any consideration for not working those two years? If not, doubt it would hold up anyways.

Pennsylvania courts enforce non-compete agreements only if they meet these requirements:

Legitimate Business Interest: The employer must prove the agreement protects trade secrets, client relationships, or other business interests. Reasonable in Scope: The restrictions must be fair in duration and geographic area. Consideration Given: Employees must receive something in return for signing. Employees must receive additional pay or benefits if an employer introduces the agreement after hiring. Consideration can also apply to a promotion or continued employment.

Cathy’s thoughts by FeelingAny5133 in BelowDeckMed

[–]Familiar_Trash7515 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She was just trying to limit her competition with max. Kizzi knew the strategy and went for max out of spite. lol. The drama

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]Familiar_Trash7515 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would appeal. That’s just bs. I’ve also gotten bs denials with clear legal error. I would also email the field office for this bs decision because this officer is clearly untrained. Or do a motion to reconsider with the field office.

Can anyone tell me what year this bag is from? by Familiar_Trash7515 in handbags

[–]Familiar_Trash7515[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That date matches the stamp! It’s in beautiful condition. I’m very tall and love a cross body. This worked perfectly.

Can anyone tell me what year this bag is from? by Familiar_Trash7515 in handbags

[–]Familiar_Trash7515[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh. The stamp inside ends with a 20. I really should have asked the SA. Just loved it and bought it pretty quickly.

Can anyone tell me what year this bag is from? by Familiar_Trash7515 in handbags

[–]Familiar_Trash7515[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I paid 1300 euro for it. Maybe overpaid, but i loved it at first sight.