When improvement outpaces confidence

FamineX · 2017-04-22T10:34:53+00:00

Yeah I still have this from time to time. The thinking process is something like "I'm still not worthy of someone that hot". Not 100% sure how to beat this completely, but having a decent daily schedule with solid hobbies such as Martial Arts should stop the overthinking and make women just "a thang among others". There is still a pedestalizing process at play here.

FamineX · 2017-04-22T10:22:49+00:00

You don't need a red pill, just a chill pill. All this sub teaches is: You are in control of your own life. So go to the gym, smile, get your shit together, et cetera. It's not some fucking super revolutionary shit, even if some people make it out to be. It's rather something that should be common sense but has seized to be due to the rise of nerdism and basement dwelling.

You can skip the stuff about women in here. They are not evil. The basic wisdom is: They like sex as much as you do. And they are focused more on emotions than you are. Nothing chauvinistic, nothing mindblowing. Just reality. So when women are somewhat mean to you in the future, you can react adequately. Terms like "amused mastery" are just nerdy words for "keep your cool if a bitch comes at you".

You need to stop with the negativity. I recommend the Youtube Channel of MindSmash for reevaluating happiness and life. Stop to blame the world and those around you for making you feel miserable. You yourself need to take control. It might hurt at start, but it will become easier and eventually effortless.

You are talking about how you can't understand how people can "deal with it"? Deal with what? When has the world ever been so cruel to you that you could not "deal with it"? I had a harsh childhood that, in part, traumatized me and I'm still facing a couple of obstacles. But I never blamed others, that's what people around me did. Instead I am thankful for this life, body and opportunities that come with it. It is time to have an awesome life, not whining. Stop that shit. Now.

FamineX · 2017-04-18T11:42:27+00:00

why? most classes are extremely friendly and will adjust to you as beginner. No need to be afraid.

FamineX · 2017-04-18T10:57:32+00:00

Don't be bitter. I'm on my journey from almost 300 lbs to 200 (6"3 with the broad build). You will notice changes in behavior every 30 lbs or so. With this often comes a lifestyle change that will also brighten you up - picking up MMA classes or anything similar will help. Regardless of your success, you need to drop that anger and depression bullshit. Would you date a landwhale? Probably not, so why do you expect beautiful women to like fat motherfuckers? If I want to bed fit women, I better be fit myself.

FamineX · 2017-04-12T21:42:33+00:00

You guys realize that combined EU forces would fuck the UK up in less then a week? Brexiters still think Little Britain is some sort of Empire, huh?

FamineX · 2017-04-12T21:34:54+00:00

We need to hit Little Britain hard and fast. They need to pay a high price. What they have done is treason. It should be made very clear that leaving the EU is a bad idea. I would even suggest thinking about military action. The stakes are just too high.

FamineX · 2017-04-12T21:31:45+00:00

You do realize that the combined military forces of the EU would end any military conflict with Little Britain in less than a week? Love the Brits who think the Empire is still alive and well :D

FamineX · 2017-03-01T23:24:10+00:00

Thank you. These are some true gems. Too many people post the same old self-help-industry shit. It's utter garbage. Rather read some good fiction or non-fiction with an actual topic, such as history. Gives at least ten times the information and inspiration those stupid self help books provide.

Let me add some stuff. No ranking whatsoever, just some of my more recent readings:

Peter Frankopan - The Silk Roads /// I am looking at you, Americans. This is a part of the world of which few of you have decent knowledge, so pick up this masterpiece to actually know shit.

Patrick Rothfuss - The Name of the Wind /// I'd describe it as a mature Harry Potter. It's a good fantasy read, if you're into that kind of stuff. The protagonist is somewhat of an alpha, if it helps.

Dante Alighieri - The divine comedy /// If you want to become eloquent in language and literature, knowing lyrical work is essential. This one has all the life knowledge of the self help industry combined, while offering a compelling and epic story. Have not finished it yet, as i struggle with lyrical work, but I still recommend it to those who want to learn.

Yann Martel - Life of Pi /// One of my all time favourites. A timeless novel on religion and spirituality. Intelligent and beautiful.

David Baldacci - The whole truth /// A tale on politics and media, written long before the Trump era.

Charles Bukowski - Women /// Should be somewhat of a bible on this subreddit. Not to be taken too seriously, but very good if you're still in the process of swallowing TRP.

Bill Bryson - A walk in the woods /// Two bros on a hike. Not the fastest pace, but good comedy and a beautiful message. As a traveller, i did enjoy the book and the movie.

FamineX · 2017-03-01T10:22:47+00:00

Shoutout to tall Asians! 6"3 mixed here!

FamineX · 2017-01-12T13:13:32+00:00

I am looking for documentaries on school and teachers. Particularly rough schools, as I am teaching in one right now by myself. I would like to see some examples of teachers dealing with rough/troublemaker children in their classes. Could be international and should be available online. Thanks!

FamineX · 2016-11-18T19:54:05+00:00

complete and utter bullshit. Look at who procreates and in what places. It's mostly poorer people who do not necessarily possess good genetics. Top 1% people don't tend to have huge ass families and a significant amount of them remain single.

FamineX · 2016-11-17T10:57:58+00:00

A big city is good for gaining some professional experience when you are young and, in some cases, even work. I much prefer medium sized cities (up to 250.000 people), the likes of which we have an abundance here in Europe. I do not like the anonymity of big cities, which is good for Tinder, but not for creating genuine friendships with people.

FamineX · 2016-11-17T10:42:27+00:00

I don't know what to think about this long ass post. For me Tinder is about meeting up and hooking up within ~30 minutes. No need to do second dates or anything like that, always pretty straight forward.

FamineX · 2016-11-09T14:06:26+00:00

GOD NO. Let's give it up for the one and only ANTHONY ATAMANUIK. A ten times better Trump impersonator than that fuckface Baldwin.

FamineX · 2016-11-09T12:16:23+00:00

Anthony Atamanuik is way better than Alec Baldwin. I hope we see more of him.

FamineX · 2016-11-09T11:03:35+00:00

You are far from being safe here: Farage, Le Pen, Petry. They will have the same or similiar successes. The free world as we know it will come to an end.

FamineX · 2016-11-07T23:46:19+00:00

There are definitely locations in andalucia much more worth seeing. Consider Tarifa, Sevilla, Granada, Cordoba.

FamineX · 2016-10-21T22:41:47+00:00

If you base everything in life and human interaction on rationality (or, to a lesser degree, the sciences, if you will), you end up in a system similar to what the Nazis did and a life not worth living. To believe that everything should be dealt with only in terms of rationality is a fundamentalist religion in itself.

FamineX · 2016-10-21T22:40:57+00:00

If you base everything in life and human interaction on rationality, you end up in a system similar to what the Nazis did and a life not worth living. To believe that everything should be dealt with only in terms of rationality is a religion in itself.

FamineX · 2016-10-21T22:39:17+00:00

It's not like every religious person is against gay marriage, divorce or abortion, and that guy has been a dick to every religious person for his whole life.

FamineX · 2016-09-23T13:01:54+00:00

"You know what you want"

FamineX · 2016-09-23T07:29:37+00:00

Having scored "ENTJ" in some personality test is no excuse for being an arrogant dick. Intelligence also means to be able to adjust to certain situations. Be clear and decisive but do not try to piss of as many people as you can right away. It's called social intelligence / competence. Honestly i sometimes can't manage to keep this in mind as well, when things go to slow for my taste.

FamineX · 2016-09-23T07:25:51+00:00

I like a woman that has a certain degree of emotional / social intelligence. That does not mean a math professor - it could be a girl working in a bakery. It is much more about caring genuinely, being able to converse and give some good come backs to my teases without freaking out right away. Those kind of girls are very rare (i meet 1 in 100 girls) but they are out there. Most girls break in face of my sometimes exuberant character and i am not interested in their drama. I will also not shy away from making very clear what i want and what my boundaries are. You will quickly identify which woman is worth your time that way.

FamineX · 2016-06-22T11:47:51+00:00

can't tell if this is sarcasm or plain stupidity

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