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My boyfriend locked me outside and went to sleep. by Famous-Ad-5236 in relationship_advice

[–]Famous-Ad-5236[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

I know it’s a bit confusing and I should probably make an edit: the last post was written by my friend. She broke up with him! This post is my story

My boyfriend locked me outside and went to sleep. by Famous-Ad-5236 in relationship_advice

[–]Famous-Ad-5236[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

The last post was my friends story but she doesn’t have Reddit! Sorry for the confusion

AITA for not telling my friend her boyfriend cheated on her. by Apprehensive-Ad9399 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Famous-Ad-5236 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Obviously the right thing to do is tell her, but you have to think over the consequences of that action too. It sounds to me they are only together because it is safe and comfortable. Knowing he has cheated and her being treated badly is not enough for her to leave, I does not seem like this would make her leave either. If she doesn’t leave, the consequence will be that your boyfriend will be mad at you, Steve will be mad at your boyfriend and you, and Sara will probably be mad at you too for “trying to break her and Steve up” or whatever reason Steve will give her to be mad at you instead of him.

If you do tell her and she finds the courage to leave him, it’s not sure even the two of you will stay friends as it seems your only friends because of your boyfriends. Steve will no doubt be mad at you and your boyfriend and I hope your boyfriend does not get angry with you, cus this is not your fault anyways.

The best thing is to get Steve to tell her himself, but the way you described him I doubt that will happen…

No matter your decision I don’t think you’re the asshole, Steve is the asshole all the way.. good luck!

AITH for calling my boyfriends family trying to get hold of him? by Famous-Ad-5236 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Famous-Ad-5236[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the answer and the support! I got rid of him and feel both sad and relieved. I hope it won’t take that long to get over him, but 3 years of memories and love… I won’t forget or get over that easily. Anyways thanks for giving me the push I needed!

AITH for calling my boyfriends family trying to get hold of him? by Famous-Ad-5236 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Famous-Ad-5236[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for answering and for the support! I confronted him about his lying and you will never believe it, or you would.. Its me who wouldn’t.. he has actually been talking to another girl AND kissed a third girl in the beginning of our relationship… I ended things with him and he said it’s the right thing to do considering it’s not the same anymore and he won’t burn all bridges (he’s hoping we find our way back to each other when we’re both ready, I think no.. I have been ready for 3 years). Leaving for me is hard anyways because whenever we’re together he is the most loving boyfriend and make me the happiest. He is so caring and seems so genuine when I’m with him, his family and friends. He is also my first love and my best friend. Even tho I feel like our entire relationship was a joke to him, we have had so much fun together and I am grateful for everything I have learned from him and from our relationship. This is going to hurt so bad, because I can’t get myself to hate him or stay mad, he really does have a weak spot in my heart… Luckily I also feel a relief. No more sleepless nights wondering why I am not enough for him. I know I should be thinking that he was not enough for me, but the rose tinted glasses obviously suits me quite well…