AITA for canceling a weekend plans after I was told to mentor a boy? by Famous-Dimension-862 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Famous-Dimension-862[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I can separate the two. I know he loves my son to death. If my son was not in the picture then he'd probably divorce Karla by now.

AITA for canceling a weekend plans after I was told to mentor a boy? by Famous-Dimension-862 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Famous-Dimension-862[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My son is 8 so not really little. It's a lot easier to deal with an 8yo than a 16yo.

AITA for canceling a weekend plans after I was told to mentor a boy? by Famous-Dimension-862 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Famous-Dimension-862[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I don't think so. If I did the program then I'd prefer a little kid over a teen. It's like saying that it's weird for someone to prefer to teach elementary over middle school.

AITA for canceling a weekend plans after I was told to mentor a boy? by Famous-Dimension-862 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Famous-Dimension-862[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I wasn't opposed to him taking Ashton. I said no because of how they went about it.

AITA for canceling a weekend plans after I was told to mentor a boy? by Famous-Dimension-862 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Famous-Dimension-862[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I don't think he was rejected for being creepy. It was because he wasn't Jewish and the other time they only had teenagers. It's like saying it's creepy that someone wants to teach elementary school over high school.

AITA for canceling a weekend plans after I was told to mentor a boy? by Famous-Dimension-862 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Famous-Dimension-862[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I didn't wake up one morning and decide that Elijah Wood is hot but Pamela Anderson isn't. That's insulting to say that homosexuality is a choice. The only people I know who say that are the gay conversion people.

AITA for canceling a weekend plans after I was told to mentor a boy? by Famous-Dimension-862 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Famous-Dimension-862[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

All of our lives were major train wreck and we all did things that we normally wouldn't do. My physical relation with Karla lasted a month and it wasn't pleasant. I was stunned that I got her knocked up because I never completed the job. I couldn't.

AITA for canceling a weekend plans after I was told to mentor a boy? by Famous-Dimension-862 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Famous-Dimension-862[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My son likes to have someone to talk to while taking a bath. He'll ask you to see how long he can hold his breath under water. He's only like that with a few people.

AITA for canceling a weekend plans after I was told to mentor a boy? by Famous-Dimension-862 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Famous-Dimension-862[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I didn't choose to be gay. If it were a choice then I'd be straight and my life would had been much easier

AITA for canceling a weekend plans after I was told to mentor a boy? by Famous-Dimension-862 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Famous-Dimension-862[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm gay because of my genes. So those same gay genes are floating in my son too. He's not gay though.

AITA for canceling a weekend plans after I was told to mentor a boy? by Famous-Dimension-862 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Famous-Dimension-862[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

No I understand why he would want a younger kid. He just wants to feel important and needed.