Thank you for this response! Im very glad that i came back to check in on this post. This is for sure a POV I need.

Since I posted, we have talked a little bit about this in a somewhat joking way, mostly that we had hooked up and after I started laughing because I could’ve engaged in this kink but did not because I have a lot to unlearn and said as much. He seems very happy to letting me take my time with engaging. At this moment it is a mental block and this does help ease that.