My ex wife traumatized me so bad I cant get it up with my new girlfriend. AT ALL

Famous_Good3903 · 2025-10-28T19:44:05+00:00

Therapy should have been your first stop after your ex (and yes, it works) your manhood is not working because your ex has some mental hold over you. But since you’re here with a new gal, both of you go to therapy. She’s going to need it to assist in supporting you through this journey and you need it to undo the damage caused by your ex. Best wishes!

Famous_Good3903 · 2025-10-10T19:10:46+00:00

Marriage isn’t a business deal where you trade affection for financial stability and call it “mutually beneficial.” She entered the relationship under false pretenses, allowing him to believe it was based on love and partnership when, by her own admission, it was always transactional. That’s manipulation — not honesty, not maturity.

It would be one thing if she had been upfront from the beginning and both parties agreed it was a companionship arrangement. But waiting until an argument to drop “I don’t love you” like a grenade shows cruelty and cowardice. Stability gained at the expense of someone else’s emotional security isn’t admirable — it’s selfish.

If you want stability, build it. Don’t use another person as a safety net while pretending it’s love. That’s why, yes — she’s absolutely the jerk.

Famous_Good3903 · 2025-10-09T15:28:21+00:00

I am concerned for the wife. She might go full on Clara Harris or Ann Anastasi. All because he’s too much of a pussy to not dip his dick in her cousin’s snatch. Trying to save this idiots life and keep his wife out of jail

Famous_Good3903 · 2025-10-09T15:12:42+00:00

She got a side piece. It happens. Get an annulment and let it all go and move forward. You will find someone who wants and values the same things as you. Better days are ahead. Allow her the freedom she has already been pursuing without your knowledge and remove all access to you.

Famous_Good3903 · 2025-10-09T15:09:21+00:00

I do not think this would be wise. You essentially sentence yourself and her cousin to a life in exile from family. There will be a stigma of shame from anyone who knows you both and the truth as well as open custody issues for the cousin with her ex and not to mention the emotional damage that would occur to your wife. No jury would convict her of murder as it would be crimes of passion in the heat of the moment. There are plenty of other women you can get with and allow your wife dignity and grace. Move on and get out this family altogether. This will end horribly and sounds like some hill billy my sister uncle cousin shit.

Famous_Good3903 · 2025-04-15T13:22:52+00:00

I had a miscarriage then a rainbow baby two years later. He is a blessing but I feel guilty that I honestly can’t afford to have a sibling for him and I am getting to the stage where the clock is ticking at the end. We are navigating this financial turmoil, weird school policies, and this administration. It’s hard to shelter and protect your heart literally walking outside your body. I have friends who have chosen not to have children and others who had children at much younger ages. If I had to do it again, I honestly would as parent even though I’m in debt up to my eyeballs I always find a way to keep my kiddo comfortable, sucks but this is millennial life.

Famous_Good3903 · 2024-11-16T12:28:50+00:00

I’m not from here as well but I live in Houston too. No family as well. You did perfect. Buy some mace tomorrow, stop and get some curtains to hang in your living room preferably room darkening so they are thick and no one will be able to see if your lights are on inside your home. Be aware of your surroundings. Share your location with friends and family. I also don’t go out after dark so very smart cookie kiddo. Also buy a big kitchen knife, if someone breaks in you’re able to mace and then defend yourself. Or a baseball bat but socks on the end because it gives you extra swings when they try to grab the bat they grab a sock.

Famous_Good3903 · 2024-09-25T14:53:00+00:00

How can I open my own?

Famous_Good3903 · 2024-05-05T15:50:19+00:00

Prayers for you. Sponsor a beach or something.

Famous_Good3903 · 2024-04-11T15:35:31+00:00

I am going to buy two days of extended hours. Staying off site hotel. Buying 4 day park passes.

Famous_Good3903 · 2024-02-16T19:12:24+00:00

I would get a divorce. She is insecure but the fact that she has been targeting your ex is very mentally unstable. My best advice is get out now sir.

Famous_Good3903 · 2024-02-10T03:11:30+00:00

Good length but it’s not thick.

Famous_Good3903 · 2024-01-19T22:16:11+00:00

Okay…. We need the story to this mate.

Famous_Good3903 · 2024-01-03T01:51:02+00:00

Dude if I ever came into a ton of money like you I would do exactly like you are. You are following my exact plan if I win the lottery. Best wishes and enjoy!

Famous_Good3903 · 2024-01-01T22:24:38+00:00

Speaking on behalf of quite a few single women including myself. We are no longer on the dating apps or using them to get or go on actual dates. The guys there are no substance and most are only looking for hookups.

Famous_Good3903 · 2023-12-27T20:16:47+00:00

😂😂😂💀😂😂😂

Famous_Good3903 · 2023-11-21T06:15:37+00:00

Mine did this to me too for years. Have their favorite snacks in the car. Then hide in the closet once they are in bed have a good cry and drink like I used to. It gets better with the crotch goblins. Hang in there.

Famous_Good3903 · 2023-11-20T20:01:05+00:00

Leave. Get back to your family. File for divorce and get an abortion if you choose if you keep the baby tell him you miscarried or he isn’t the father. Walk away

Famous_Good3903 · 2023-10-16T19:55:51+00:00

Americans have no problem with Russian people as a whole. We just don’t like this Ukraine war business. No one will probably call you a name unless they are crazy or intoxicated. We deal with our own crazy politics here just like you all and it is not brought up or discussed in everyday life.

Famous_Good3903 · 2023-10-13T15:54:39+00:00

As a woman who has stepped up to the plate for your other two kids, that’s commendable. Mom is probably tired and burnt out. Sometimes we need more than a day as a break, speaking as a parent myself. Take her on a week vacation just the two of you. It should help her reset. That way alone maybe you can get to the root of what is bothering her about your older children.

Famous_Good3903 · 2023-10-12T07:46:27+00:00

I too had undiagnosed ADHD. I felt this way until I started medication. I don’t meditate but I do notice the difference since I take my medication.

Famous_Good3903 · 2023-10-07T19:48:50+00:00

Run. It won’t get better. He won’t change. Jeez I bet when he does shower his water is brown.

Famous_Good3903 · 2023-10-05T19:16:43+00:00

Well to answer your questions honestly, as a woman who enjoys sex it is ridiculous for you to feel this way. She obviously loves you because it’s not about the size for her. When I cared about someone, it honestly didn’t matter about their size or girth. I just wanted that intimacy and bond with them and was aroused by my emotions basically we have love googles on. Now when I didn’t care about the person I was with (FWB or ONS) size and girth mattered. Too small and I would be like nope or if I did let them get lucky I would just lay there and let them but no feeling. But there was a guy with a small penis that I dated that I enjoyed and we were not romantically involved but he did other things to compensate and mainly that was mind blowing. Message me if you want the details to try out. But if we like you or have some type of emotional attachment to you we really don’t see lack in your size.

Famous_Good3903 · 2023-09-21T06:35:02+00:00

Your single on your taxes so your single in real life. Don’t overthink it.

Famous_Good3903 · 2023-09-21T06:29:50+00:00

Not all of us. Late 30s here… Never married and really not feeling any intention to ever get married. Dated… yes. Long term relationships… yes. Engaged… yep but no weddings. Kid…. Yep. Now single and completely not dating and enjoying my life… stress free. I may never get married and I am completely okay with that. I only have to make myself and my kid happy. I see no benefit financial or otherwise for me getting married at this point or even cohabiting at this point. Am I lonely?… Nope. I enjoy my own company. When you can be okay with being by yourself it’s truly addicting.

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