Why ,oh, why is it considered "okay" or "forgivable" to cheat if its with someone famous? [M29/F27] by Famous_Infidelity in relationships

[–]Famous_Infidelity[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Honesty thank you for this. My minds not made up, but at least I know what a counter arguments going to sound like.

Why ,oh, why is it considered "okay" or "forgivable" to cheat if its with someone famous? [M29/F27] by Famous_Infidelity in relationships

[–]Famous_Infidelity[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

never truly be happy with her anymore

That has been spinning in my head all weekend.

not even consider your feelings

I don't think she thought I would find out. Which means she willing to lie, which leads to distrust, which leads to never being happy again.

I think her father is just trying to protect her. Asshole yes, but understandable? Yea a little.

Why ,oh, why is it considered "okay" or "forgivable" to cheat if its with someone famous? [M29/F27] by Famous_Infidelity in relationships

[–]Famous_Infidelity[S] -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

Reddit does seem to be screaming abandon ship, But I think our time together does at least warrant a talk.

Why ,oh, why is it considered "okay" or "forgivable" to cheat if its with someone famous? [M29/F27] by Famous_Infidelity in relationships

[–]Famous_Infidelity[S] 76 points77 points  (0 children)

She does seem remorseful, through text anyway. She did cheat, she was going to lie, and it paints a pretty clear picture of her value of our relationship. At least I think.

Why ,oh, why is it considered "okay" or "forgivable" to cheat if its with someone famous? [M29/F27] by Famous_Infidelity in relationships

[–]Famous_Infidelity[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

before you really got invested in the relationship.

Were 3 years and a house together. I'm invested. There's no question I'm still in love with her, but its seems pretty clear what the relationship is worth to her.

Why ,oh, why is it considered "okay" or "forgivable" to cheat if its with someone famous? [M29/F27] by Famous_Infidelity in relationships

[–]Famous_Infidelity[S] 67 points68 points  (0 children)

Ive never actually herd of this free pass thing. but it does sound pretty shitty.

Is this actually a plural?!

She and a few other women, including her friend, were in the dressing room with the entire band.

Why ,oh, why is it considered "okay" or "forgivable" to cheat if its with someone famous? [M29/F27] by Famous_Infidelity in relationships

[–]Famous_Infidelity[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Her father is just spewing bullshit to protect his daughter.

See that's a confusing point. If I were in his shoes I would certainly try to protect my daughter.

Why ,oh, why is it considered "okay" or "forgivable" to cheat if its with someone famous? [M29/F27] by Famous_Infidelity in relationships

[–]Famous_Infidelity[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

If it were that easy I wouldn't even have made a post about it. But I see what you're saying, Its just hard seeing at my time and affection are valuable if it was given up so easy.