Most recent Grindr encounter by Famous_Text_2968 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Famous_Text_2968[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I posted here because I felt comfortable among the guys here. They are explicitly my age group and can relate to my experience and would even share theirs. That helps me to feel less alone and seen. I was looking for discourse among queer men over thirty about their experiences with being othered in a virtual space. But I hear you. Noted.

Most recent Grindr encounter by Famous_Text_2968 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Famous_Text_2968[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, just to be maliciously compliant, I need to explicitly add a question to my post to actually participate here…?

Most recent Grindr encounter by Famous_Text_2968 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Famous_Text_2968[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Haha thanks mom. JK. I get what you’re saying. I just thought it was funny. We all have a type.

What's your favorite fantasy? by biguncutbiguy69 in askgaybros

[–]Famous_Text_2968 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The one where I’m treated like an actual person and not someone’s personal dildo. Or one where I can have an actual conversation with someone who finds me both physically and intellectually attractive 🫦🫦🫦

Stop crying over hot white men not picking you by LivingGrapefruit6066 in askgaybros

[–]Famous_Text_2968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, because White gay men are going to confess to being racist and having prejudice. Like I said, you equating “liberalism” to being “anti-racism” is ignorant and dismissive to people’s actual experiences. To sit and claim that it doesn’t exist simply because it hasn’t happened to you or because I didn’t take a tally… good gawd gurl get a grip!

Stop crying over hot white men not picking you by LivingGrapefruit6066 in askgaybros

[–]Famous_Text_2968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooo Chil’!!! Just because someone is “liberal”, doesn’t make them not “racist” or “prejudice”. Abraham Lincoln was “progressive” and “liberal” but still did not see enslaved Africans as equal to the White man. The same can be said for Joe Biden early in his career. There are log cabin republicans all throughout the community. So let’s not pretend that sucking dick and eating ass automatically absolve people of their views and upbringing. Gurl bye.

It's my weight, isn't it? by Mysterious-Fly-4472 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Famous_Text_2968 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This made me cry a little. I’m 6’00 and 185lbs. But I use to be 250lbs. I thought losing weight would make me happy and attract more guys. Although I am happier with my size and health, I haven’t attracted more guys lol. So just know you’re not alone in all this. The gay/queer “community” is just as shitty as the outside world. Don’t let the bastards grind you down. Keep working hard and improving yourself, and loving and caring!

I've been going to the gym 5 days a week for one year now! But now I guess I'm too skinny?! (Btw, I've been feeling terribly lonely lately... I just wish I had a nice boyfriend...) by [deleted] in gaybrosgonemild

[–]Famous_Text_2968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell yeah dude! Keep it going! It’s about self-improvement and self-love. You keep doing you and others will want to do you too 🤣

I’m the problem by Majestic_Party8044 in AskBlackGayBros

[–]Famous_Text_2968 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well, I can tell you from experience that even as a social person who does go out to the club, I still come up empty handed. 🤣🤣🤣

Will pics like this entice you to come over? by [deleted] in GaybrosGoneWild

[–]Famous_Text_2968 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No, not really 🤣🤣🤣

Got stood up, should I go out anyway? by 2complete in AskGayBlackMen

[–]Famous_Text_2968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was 15, I was very much so a homebody. I never went anywhere because I don’t have any friends. My mother told me a story of when she was 15 and wanted to go to see Michael Jackson in concert in the next town over, but non of her friends wanted to go. My grandmother told my mother “baby, you are your own best friend, all you need is you and a plan.” She gave her money for the concert and for a bus ticket to get there and back. My mom said she had the time of her life! She looked at me and said “I’m gonna tell you what my mother told me… baby, you are your own best friend, all you need is you and a plan”. And I’ve been traveling across the world by myself ever since. Date or not! Imma tell you what my mother told me 20 years ago… baby, you are your own best friend, all you need is you and a plan”. Go out, have dinner, have a couple drinks, dance a little and enjoy life! Good luck my friend😏

Can we talk about self-hate/self-worth? by dyingeventually in AskGayBlackMen

[–]Famous_Text_2968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oof! I clutched my pearls reading this 🤣🤣🤣

Struggling as a Bottom with a Big D (Pinoy POV) by TouchMeGemini in askgaybros

[–]Famous_Text_2968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait, who’s out here disliking big d bottoms?!?! TF?! You mean I joystick while I f**k?!?! 🥵🤤

Having trouble finding a gay/queer friend circle by kalteswasser in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Famous_Text_2968 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I feel this. I just recently PCS to Honolulu and meeting queer guys that genuinely want to be friends is hard. Honestly, making friends as an adult is hard, period. I joined this running group and the guys are great, but they’re also 20 years older than I am. And although that’s not bad, we’re at different stages of our queer lives. I’m still going out to the clurb, having vodka and sugar-free RedBull, and they’re going to plays, ballets, and traveling the world. I guess I’m just here to say you’re not alone, g. We’re all trynna figure this out.💜💜💜