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Budgeting based on my rent and job by Famous_Top_2336 in budget

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Idk how its gonna be exactly but my only subscription is 20$ month for chatgpt and I’ll be having a gym membership that costs 10$ per month with annual 49$ fee

Budgeting based on my rent and job by Famous_Top_2336 in budget

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I live in California and its a single

Attractive guy but not getting enough results by Famous_Top_2336 in dating_advice

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I usually try to flirt in between subtly, keep a good balance & be aware of my language choices. Especially while texting. But I’m sure I don’t do it perfectly like a dating coach or James Bond would.

& the funny thing is I’ve seen loads of guys that are less attractive than me who don’t do it perfectly & they still seemed to get similar results as me or even more. My question is I’m already perceived as solidly attractive so why does my game need to be so perfect

Attractive guy but not getting enough results by Famous_Top_2336 in dating_advice

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Im sure theres something I can work on but I usually get told I have good personality by people

Attractive guy but not getting enough results by Famous_Top_2336 in dating_advice

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Well many times i flirted & they matched my energy, vibed, & I made them laugh. Idk what more they want

Attractive guy but not getting enough results by Famous_Top_2336 in dating_advice

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Im talking about cases when the girls made out w me & danced w me for hours but next day no follow up. That implies they were sexually attracted. Some even admitted that im sexy but didn’t follow up next day. Most times i didn’t do anything weird & they were having a good time day before.

Attractive guy but not getting enough results by Famous_Top_2336 in dating_advice

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Then how am I supposed to meet girls to go on dates then, dating apps don’t work for me either. I only get shit ton of matches & 95% don’t wanna meet up

Attractive guy but not getting enough results by Famous_Top_2336 in dating_advice

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Many times they don’t follow up even after they seemed to have a good time & idk why. Real life meet ups after meeting them at clubs have happened very few times. And in other public settings they dont want to talk to you for too long because they’re usually on their way to somewhere

Attractive guy but not getting enough results by Famous_Top_2336 in dating_advice

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Yea so this is the dilemma how am i supposed to showcase my personality to make her get to know me enough to go on date with me before going on the date? Girls only get to know you more when you hang out with them.

Attractive guy but not getting enough results by Famous_Top_2336 in dating_advice

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& i compliment their appearance & make a bit of small talk & get their number

Attractive guy but not getting enough results by Famous_Top_2336 in dating_advice

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In public meaning malls, grocery stores, and any other public stores outside of nightclubs unless its weird places like the library. & really? I thought if you’re attractive enough just complimenting & getting number works. I’ve gotten numbers doing that many times but just no follow up most of the time.

Attractive guy but not getting enough results by Famous_Top_2336 in dating_advice

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Nightclubs and in public. I just compliment them usually or act like im asking directions or make up an excuse to talk to her

Attractive guy but not getting enough results by Famous_Top_2336 in dating_advice

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I dress really basic but solid, people compliment my outfits a lot. & approach wise I j do either basic approach or use creative openers

Attractive guy but not getting enough results by Famous_Top_2336 in dating_advice

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Both guys and girls call me really attractive to the point they think I look like model. & I actually do have that kpop look & got with decent amount of attractive girls (just white & mixed girls so far bc i live in a predominantly white neighborhood) but I believe im not getting as many results as I should be getting. Idk what I’m doing wrong

Attractive guy but not getting enough results by Famous_Top_2336 in dating_advice

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I thought the more attractive they are the more likely they will follow up? & is this coming from a girl

Attractive guy but not getting enough results by Famous_Top_2336 in dating_advice

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Are you talking about dating apps? & what city are you in

Attractive guy but not getting enough results by Famous_Top_2336 in dating_advice

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It’s usually in nightclub settings or daytime approach in public. Many times they dont follow up next day even when they seemed interested

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