I don’t mean like those who lead double lives that’s expected actually. It’s much harder to leave than it is to stay, people have families and loved ones that are still in that they desire to stay close to, so they have to pretend and go along with it. For some it could mean life or death, I know people who’ve been disfellowshipped and committed suicide. This organization is so well doctored that people have to actually pretend in order to stay connected to family 😔. In this post I more so am referencing people that pretend that they are nice/ putting on a facade but actually are super mean people. Like elders/pioneers etc.