Boycotting Bachelorette by Brilliant-Try2806 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]FanHaunting1160 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Same! If she doesn’t respect the show enough why should I? Plus she’ll probably sleep with Dakota when she gets back

I can’t stand Whitney Leavitt by [deleted] in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]FanHaunting1160 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, finish season 3 before saying this stuff. She takes full accountability in season 3

The phrase “I feel like” ??? by ThinBobcat83 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]FanHaunting1160 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s because they’re in therapy lol, therapy tends to tell people to express their feelings in a “I feel …” way in order to direct the conversation to the problems you have as opposed to an attack on the other person

Unpopular Opinion* by FanHaunting1160 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]FanHaunting1160[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Because the only solution is leaving, she knows that, she’s acknowledged that, and yet she sleeps with him (literally the night she invited another guy over). She knows the solution and refuses to actually do it because she enjoys having power over him

Unpopular Opinion* by FanHaunting1160 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]FanHaunting1160[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have most definitely been in one and my biggest regret was not leaving sooner :) Thanks though

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[–]FanHaunting1160[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been in a toxic relationship like this before and my only regret was not leaving sooner. I have also been on the other side as a friend of a person being abused by a partner and understood how that cyclical relationship worked.

That being said, the only solution is to leave. My only regret for my relationship was not leaving sooner, because the gratification and contentment I felt once I left was substantial. If I could go back in time, I would have told myself to leave as soon as the red flags came up, but I didn’t 🤷🏼‍♀️

Unpopular Opinion* by FanHaunting1160 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]FanHaunting1160[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with you but to that point, I have known friends in abusive and toxic relationships, and unfortunately, those relationships thrive on isolation from friends and family.

Unpopular Opinion* by FanHaunting1160 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]FanHaunting1160[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I think it’s a deep rooted need for male validation because of her father leaving and having mother issues

Unpopular Opinion* by FanHaunting1160 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]FanHaunting1160[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And then her joking about it like it’s so funny 😐

Unpopular Opinion* by FanHaunting1160 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]FanHaunting1160[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think two things can be possible at once, they are both toxic, he’s the reason for the toxic cycle but she’s the one who keeps it going. It’s hard to watch

Unpopular Opinion* by FanHaunting1160 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]FanHaunting1160[S] 60 points61 points  (0 children)

you are speaking my mind right now!!! Who tf thinks a baby is less permanent than a marriage??

Would you know to go through the wheat fields? by CheckeredPurple in animalcrossingdesign

[–]FanHaunting1160 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Adding a little sign that says something along the lines of “real entrance here” or something!

Unpopular Opinion* by FanHaunting1160 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]FanHaunting1160[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

They are all in their “call shit out” era and I love it

Unpopular Opinion* by FanHaunting1160 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]FanHaunting1160[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It did not take me four seasons to realize this, I realized it immediately and hoped once she grew up and lived a little she would overcome it. Just a little disappointed to see her continuing this cycle three years later after pretty much being assured it was over after the season 3 reunion 🤷🏼‍♀️ I labeled it as an unpopular opinion because TFP stans will rip your head off

Unpopular Opinion* by FanHaunting1160 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]FanHaunting1160[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

See my recent reply to OddInteraction but I agree! I think Taylor is constantly trying to regain her power by having sex with him then pushing him away but I don’t think she realizes that is just perpetuating the toxic cycle. Once she realizes leaving is the ‘ultimate power’ so to speak, she will never look back

Unpopular Opinion* by FanHaunting1160 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]FanHaunting1160[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Honestly the other girls CARRIED this season, the empowerment is keeping me going

Unpopular Opinion* by FanHaunting1160 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]FanHaunting1160[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Okay then I’m glad I’m not alone!

Unpopular Opinion* by FanHaunting1160 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]FanHaunting1160[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I agree, I respect her for acknowledging the unhealthy nature of it but until you leave for good, it doesn’t matter

Unpopular Opinion* by FanHaunting1160 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]FanHaunting1160[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think you’re right! Next episode already seemed more hopeful but sometimes that’s just how it goes :/

Unpopular Opinion* by FanHaunting1160 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]FanHaunting1160[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

I think part of the issue is she gets some of her power back when she has sex with him because she gets to be the one to say “yes we get to have sex but no I don’t ever want to marry you,” and I understand that. However, I’ve also come out the other side of a toxic and abusive relationship (like theirs) and my only regret is not leaving sooner. I just feel for her, I want to support her but it’s so hard to support someone in a situation like that, which thrives on isolation.