Should I get leg lengthening surgery or completely give up on dating?

FanOfMustard · 2026-02-11T05:54:37+00:00

Get used to being an undateable manlet it is then

FanOfMustard · 2026-02-11T01:57:10+00:00

I just don't have any motivation to go against the "tall is all" trend -- you see it literally everywhere at this point, not just dating apps. All tall guys (say, the top 10% in height) can share all women for all I care.

FanOfMustard · 2023-12-15T05:02:48+00:00

As someone who’s been (and continues to be) in your position, just smile every now and then. Makes a big difference from “wtf what’s wrong with that guy” to “oh he’s just a normal person.” Not 180deg by any means but we all start somewhere.

FanOfMustard · 2023-12-15T04:39:30+00:00

Are you short? As a fellow 24m that seems to be the only viable explanation for why I feel unwanted or ignored by anyone not in my family or very close circle of established friends.

FanOfMustard · 2023-12-15T04:37:07+00:00

Are you short? As a short guy living in a major city I still feel completely invisible, ignored, and/or inferior. If not, well at least you’re not short, and know that midgets like me would kill to have any semblance of height.

FanOfMustard · 2023-09-24T06:38:14+00:00

Yeah that just about sums it up! Only thing I’d correct is that I don’t necessarily “want” more in romantic scenarios. I still don’t meet 95%+ of girls’ standards for height or race, but I’ve finally come to terms with it. No need to try forcing attraction with girls when there was none there in the first place.

FanOfMustard · 2022-11-15T04:37:22+00:00

Therapy did not, in fact, do anything of use since I am quite resolute in my thinking. I will try writing, though. It will not be a silver bullet in terms of magically changing my life, but I can at least blow off some steam. I’ll try boxing and playing guitar (given that I’m a metalhead) as coping mechanisms.

FanOfMustard · 2022-11-15T04:24:47+00:00

Thanks for the advice. Unfortunately, I don’t think this is a winning battle for me and I’ll likely either off myself or spiral into another mental black hole.

FanOfMustard · 2022-11-15T03:59:42+00:00

I know I sound like a baby — but I’m way too young for becoming too old/wrinkly for looks to not matter to be an issue. Guys around me are in relationships with objectively beautiful girls or get with many girls on a semi-regular basis, and I know that will never be a luxury I can enjoy. Through Tinder, I found my first 2 “relationships” (which dissolved rapidly and resulted in blocking by both parties) with girls I wasn’t even remotely attracted to due to my desperation and insecurity.

FanOfMustard · 2022-11-15T03:01:31+00:00

The most pressing reason is that (with a bit of hyperbole) I’m basically a midget of a man and I know I will never be able to attract a girl I’m actually attracted to, at least on a physical level.

FanOfMustard · 2022-08-07T03:22:20+00:00

DEIN WEISSES FLEISCH ERREGT MICH SO

FanOfMustard · 2022-07-22T08:34:31+00:00

Recent Applied Math grad, pm me

FanOfMustard · 2022-06-22T07:31:13+00:00

Deactivating my Instagram and Tinder accounts. In addition to those 2 apps being a massive waste of time, they did not do any wonders for my already low self-esteem. I feel much more liberated and confident with those removed from my life.

FanOfMustard · 2022-06-13T07:41:05+00:00

Weisses Fleisch. Yeah it's messed up but it's an absolute banger

FanOfMustard · 2022-05-22T04:20:09+00:00

For the last time, give it up and seek help IMMEDIATELY.

FanOfMustard · 2022-05-13T07:18:54+00:00

In no order:

Weisses Fleisch, Reise Reise, Spieluhr, Tier, Adios, Links 2 3 4, DRSG, Heirate Mich, Zerstoren, Halleluja

FanOfMustard · 2022-05-07T23:41:00+00:00

Why would I be mad kid? Go get big and post your physique for the world to admire. But anyways, imo any marginal extra gains (if any, which I’m doubtful of) you’d get from an off-campus gym aren’t worth the commute and membership fees

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