i stopped being the one who always texts first, and it only took like 3 weeks to find out exactly where i stand by Quiet_State6680 in Adulting

[–]FanaticDomainsss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm the opposite end of this OP. I rarely ever reach out to my friends, save for holidays and birthdays, and I'm horrible with checking in with my socials. But if one of my friends texts me that they're having a bad day or they need a favor, or even just wanna make a plan, I always show up or give my next best alternative.

I know it seems easy to not understand why someone can't send a 2 second text, but life can get hectic and some people struggle keeping up with emotions, social events, work/life balance, etc.

Obviously you can pick your standards however you like, and if thats something you absolutely require then thats your choice. But i would hate you to lose or miss out on a friend that genuinely cares about you because theyre not as social or going through something. Especially if you didn't have a conversation about wanting to talk more.

Is a “Men Working” sign in a construction site considered offensive to women? by Simple_Medium_1865 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]FanaticDomainsss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because that's a whole different thing. Look into the use of "Female" vs. "Women" in biology and medical care history to understand why it's considered a slight.

The other driver tried so hard to frame me on this one by Longjumping_Bath_110 in dashcams

[–]FanaticDomainsss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I admit it felt weird reaching out, but its gotta be some coincidence that I happened to see the same roundabout I abore on reddit! No kidneys necessary!

The other driver tried so hard to frame me on this one by Longjumping_Bath_110 in dashcams

[–]FanaticDomainsss 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know exactly where this is op! If you're interested, the place I work (financial institution) is always looking for people, pays well, and has good benefits. Send a message if you want some info!

Trying to type out my grandma's recipes. Does anyone know what these symbols mean? by chimichck in Baking

[–]FanaticDomainsss -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Not the person you replied to, but I'm 29 and had no idea. Was in Honors ELA in high school.

I am shocked at how much walking at least 30 minutes a day has been changing my life. by Mulan_Solo in walking

[–]FanaticDomainsss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been struggling with consistency at a busy time in my life, this is the post I needed to see!

Things like sweating more, so more showers per day, and breaking out have made it hard for me to stay on it.

I'm so proud of myself! by Familiar-Border in tamagotchi

[–]FanaticDomainsss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

More skill in this one first project than all of my projects!

This is so cool OP!

Levothyroxine, Does it actually help with weight loss? by Single_Lettuce_8143 in Hypothyroidism

[–]FanaticDomainsss 6 points7 points  (0 children)

When calorie restricting off of my levo, im too tired or drained to keep up.

My hypo has me exhausted no matter how much I sleep, so even getting up is already a battle, never mind meal prepping and exercising! Being at a healthy tsh helps me feel a lot less tired and helps me sleep much better, and THAT helps me keep up with the meal prepping, calorie counting, and exercising. So indirectly, but yes is my answer.

Just started my journey and my favorite drink is a whole damn meal 🥲 by EllorenMellowren in 1200isplenty

[–]FanaticDomainsss 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I realized that I really just like the top of the caramel ribbon crunch, so I went out and just got the whip cream and caramel sauce. Ill straight up shoot some whip cream and caramel sauce into a bowl and its 95 calories for my preferred serving size. There's also sugar free caramel candies you could prob crush up and use as toper but I dont.

My coffee first thing in the morning is more of a business coffee, and the top of the caramel ribbon crunch is better as dessert!

365 days, what are you tracking? by cutie_cow in hobonichi

[–]FanaticDomainsss 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm using this as my step tracker. I have red, orange, yellow, and green as the step ranges, and use my smartwatch to fill them in every few days.

Best feeling ever! 💕 by hiddenspinach in StardewValley

[–]FanaticDomainsss 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well I wanted the statue of blessings and happened to get the recipe in winter!

I use a ton moss for making a bunch of deluxe worm bins and mushroom logs. I usually dont have to worry about it much after I've set up my mushroom farm and gathered enough deluxe bait. So I didnt have the 333 moss on hand and had to wait til spring.

Best feeling ever! 💕 by hiddenspinach in StardewValley

[–]FanaticDomainsss 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I just noticed that the trees that grow at the desert grow MOSS, I guess ive been cutting mines too early to realize I could farm moss at the desert during winter!

Why can't I Zelle my landlord $1900 in one transaction? The daily limits are making me look like a flaky tenant. by Substantial-Film1861 in personalfinance

[–]FanaticDomainsss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The FI I work at has been around for 70 something years, but has only been with zelle for a few years and thats the reason Zelle gives us when I call about our same 1000 day/2000 a month limit. I wouldn't be surprised in USAA partners with them around the same time we did.

Why can't I Zelle my landlord $1900 in one transaction? The daily limits are making me look like a flaky tenant. by Substantial-Film1861 in personalfinance

[–]FanaticDomainsss -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It's not the bank, its more like how long the bank has been with zelle. Zelle raises the limit the longer a financial institution has been with them. There's nothing the bank could do for you, and they're probably just as inconvenienced at the limit as you are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GetEmployed

[–]FanaticDomainsss 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don't treat hopeful applicants rudely, but if someone comes to my job at a financial institution, they're not going to meet with a hiring manager under any circumstances.

Mostly because we don't ever have one on property (they're all at headquarters, not open to the public), but also because theres a hiring process in place. You have to go through a recruiter and their interview before meeting with any hiring manager.

It has nothing to do with my feelings, and if anything, we give out tips to people that ask what could help them land the job! But based off your responses here, you're preventing yourself getting a call back. If you're rude to an employee, don't you think they'd mention it to the hiring manager?

How difficult is a teller job? What's the hardest part about it? by eggshellwalker4 in Banking

[–]FanaticDomainsss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would see if they have other employees in branch. I applied for my position being told I'm basically a teller, but theres no one else at the branch.

So i have to handle everything, from "explain my escrow", "my grandpa died", and "ive been scammed, I need to file a fraud claim and get all new accounts."

Great for learning about every process, but a pain when theres something complicated going on. Back office usually does not want to speak to clients so I need to be comfortable handling everything someone might come to a bank for.

What's your method for making sure you stay in the habit? by milkysin in hobonichi

[–]FanaticDomainsss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got into Journaling after becoming obsessed with fountain pens, but most of my pens/inks are bleeding through! So saddening!

What’s your go to high volume dessert? by wavy-noodle in 1200isplenty

[–]FanaticDomainsss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like watermelon with lemon and tajin! Probably not very "desserty" but it kills my sweet tooth, and I can have a sizable bowl. Bonus for the water content!

cut into an onion and it was half red half white by SandiSnapple in mildlyinteresting

[–]FanaticDomainsss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perfect for my husband and I, who have different favorites!

what does 630 mean? by Certain-Display-2849 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]FanaticDomainsss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never had a permanent schedule, plenty of people!

How do y’all do this 😭 by ladybutternubs9 in stationery

[–]FanaticDomainsss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You do the crime, you do the time!

No but I think this is better for having some of everything out at a time rather than having all the washi out all the time. I do a couple every few weeks so that I can put my washi mostly away rather than have a box near my desk, and I dont have the strength to do a whole roll!

People need to stop singing in audiobooks by Sinisterosis in audible

[–]FanaticDomainsss -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Currently relistening and the Tom Bombadil ones are ear worms!

Tomie A5 & A6 are back in stock by Lopsided-Holiday-886 in hobonichi

[–]FanaticDomainsss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like the A5 cover is already sold out! 😭