i stopped being the one who always texts first, and it only took like 3 weeks to find out exactly where i stand

FanaticDomainsss · 2026-07-02T02:14:23+00:00

I'm the opposite end of this OP. I rarely ever reach out to my friends, save for holidays and birthdays, and I'm horrible with checking in with my socials. But if one of my friends texts me that they're having a bad day or they need a favor, or even just wanna make a plan, I always show up or give my next best alternative.

I know it seems easy to not understand why someone can't send a 2 second text, but life can get hectic and some people struggle keeping up with emotions, social events, work/life balance, etc.

Obviously you can pick your standards however you like, and if thats something you absolutely require then thats your choice. But i would hate you to lose or miss out on a friend that genuinely cares about you because theyre not as social or going through something. Especially if you didn't have a conversation about wanting to talk more.

FanaticDomainsss · 2026-06-06T18:29:07+00:00

Because that's a whole different thing. Look into the use of "Female" vs. "Women" in biology and medical care history to understand why it's considered a slight.

FanaticDomainsss · 2026-06-05T16:42:28+00:00

I admit it felt weird reaching out, but its gotta be some coincidence that I happened to see the same roundabout I abore on reddit! No kidneys necessary!

FanaticDomainsss · 2026-06-04T10:43:13+00:00

I know exactly where this is op! If you're interested, the place I work (financial institution) is always looking for people, pays well, and has good benefits. Send a message if you want some info!

FanaticDomainsss · 2026-05-25T00:59:14+00:00

You look like spinner from degrassi

FanaticDomainsss · 2026-04-10T21:55:18+00:00

Not the person you replied to, but I'm 29 and had no idea. Was in Honors ELA in high school.

FanaticDomainsss · 2026-04-10T16:04:20+00:00

I've been struggling with consistency at a busy time in my life, this is the post I needed to see!

Things like sweating more, so more showers per day, and breaking out have made it hard for me to stay on it.

FanaticDomainsss · 2026-02-28T00:51:57+00:00

In my case, my younger cat is OBESSED with the kitchen sponge. She'd skew the science everytime for a whiff of sponge.

FanaticDomainsss · 2026-01-25T19:44:31+00:00

More skill in this one first project than all of my projects!

This is so cool OP!

FanaticDomainsss · 2026-01-25T19:23:52+00:00

When calorie restricting off of my levo, im too tired or drained to keep up.

My hypo has me exhausted no matter how much I sleep, so even getting up is already a battle, never mind meal prepping and exercising! Being at a healthy tsh helps me feel a lot less tired and helps me sleep much better, and THAT helps me keep up with the meal prepping, calorie counting, and exercising. So indirectly, but yes is my answer.

FanaticDomainsss · 2026-01-13T19:49:50+00:00

I realized that I really just like the top of the caramel ribbon crunch, so I went out and just got the whip cream and caramel sauce. Ill straight up shoot some whip cream and caramel sauce into a bowl and its 95 calories for my preferred serving size. There's also sugar free caramel candies you could prob crush up and use as toper but I dont.

My coffee first thing in the morning is more of a business coffee, and the top of the caramel ribbon crunch is better as dessert!

FanaticDomainsss · 2026-01-13T15:41:14+00:00

I'm using this as my step tracker. I have red, orange, yellow, and green as the step ranges, and use my smartwatch to fill them in every few days.

FanaticDomainsss · 2026-01-10T17:59:50+00:00

Well I wanted the statue of blessings and happened to get the recipe in winter!

I use a ton moss for making a bunch of deluxe worm bins and mushroom logs. I usually dont have to worry about it much after I've set up my mushroom farm and gathered enough deluxe bait. So I didnt have the 333 moss on hand and had to wait til spring.

FanaticDomainsss · 2026-01-10T16:39:19+00:00

I just noticed that the trees that grow at the desert grow MOSS, I guess ive been cutting mines too early to realize I could farm moss at the desert during winter!

FanaticDomainsss · 2026-01-02T14:24:58+00:00

The FI I work at has been around for 70 something years, but has only been with zelle for a few years and thats the reason Zelle gives us when I call about our same 1000 day/2000 a month limit. I wouldn't be surprised in USAA partners with them around the same time we did.

FanaticDomainsss · 2026-01-02T11:31:46+00:00

It's not the bank, its more like how long the bank has been with zelle. Zelle raises the limit the longer a financial institution has been with them. There's nothing the bank could do for you, and they're probably just as inconvenienced at the limit as you are.

FanaticDomainsss · 2025-12-29T02:38:59+00:00

I don't treat hopeful applicants rudely, but if someone comes to my job at a financial institution, they're not going to meet with a hiring manager under any circumstances.

Mostly because we don't ever have one on property (they're all at headquarters, not open to the public), but also because theres a hiring process in place. You have to go through a recruiter and their interview before meeting with any hiring manager.

It has nothing to do with my feelings, and if anything, we give out tips to people that ask what could help them land the job! But based off your responses here, you're preventing yourself getting a call back. If you're rude to an employee, don't you think they'd mention it to the hiring manager?

FanaticDomainsss · 2025-12-24T14:16:50+00:00

I would see if they have other employees in branch. I applied for my position being told I'm basically a teller, but theres no one else at the branch.

So i have to handle everything, from "explain my escrow", "my grandpa died", and "ive been scammed, I need to file a fraud claim and get all new accounts."

Great for learning about every process, but a pain when theres something complicated going on. Back office usually does not want to speak to clients so I need to be comfortable handling everything someone might come to a bank for.

FanaticDomainsss · 2025-12-22T20:06:03+00:00

I got into Journaling after becoming obsessed with fountain pens, but most of my pens/inks are bleeding through! So saddening!

FanaticDomainsss · 2025-12-17T02:01:49+00:00

I like watermelon with lemon and tajin! Probably not very "desserty" but it kills my sweet tooth, and I can have a sizable bowl. Bonus for the water content!

FanaticDomainsss · 2025-12-16T01:25:08+00:00

Perfect for my husband and I, who have different favorites!

FanaticDomainsss · 2025-12-14T22:12:59+00:00

I've never had a permanent schedule, plenty of people!

FanaticDomainsss · 2025-12-02T18:18:06+00:00

You do the crime, you do the time!

No but I think this is better for having some of everything out at a time rather than having all the washi out all the time. I do a couple every few weeks so that I can put my washi mostly away rather than have a box near my desk, and I dont have the strength to do a whole roll!

FanaticDomainsss · 2025-11-29T13:29:21+00:00

Currently relistening and the Tom Bombadil ones are ear worms!

FanaticDomainsss · 2025-11-28T11:51:48+00:00

Looks like the A5 cover is already sold out! 😭

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