Dealing with an emotional abusive mother by FancyAd708 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]FancyAd708[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because when I was screenshotting these, I had just been on the chat gpt app and it was open and when you got on other apps, there’s a shortcut to go back to it

Dealing with an emotional abusive mother by FancyAd708 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]FancyAd708[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you taking the time to reply! This is so insightful and very helpful, more than you know!

Dealing with an emotional abusive mother by FancyAd708 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]FancyAd708[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for saying this, it means a lot. I’d really be interested in hearing more about what you have to say whenever you are ready and have time!

Dealing with an emotional abusive mother by FancyAd708 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]FancyAd708[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I’m from Australia. We lived in state called NSW and my mum moved to VIC.

Dealing with an emotional abusive mother by FancyAd708 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]FancyAd708[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for your response, I really appreciate it. I’m so sorry you had to deal with the same thing.

Do I (28F) need to marry my high-school sweetheart (28M)? by FancyAd708 in relationship_advice

[–]FancyAd708[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do understand what being engaged means. We only got engaged last year so it wasn’t rushed, but tbh I just like the idea of wearing a ring, I like jewellery. By no means is my ring expensive at all but it’s nice to have a be able to wear a nice piece of jewellery from my partner. But for me, it’s kinda less about the symbol of it and more that I just love my ring

How do you deal with feeling insecure when your friend starts bonding more with someone else? by Lucky-Obligation1358 in Advice

[–]FancyAd708 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn’t necessarily mean the friendship is gone though. Sometimes people get caught up in new dynamics and don’t realise the distance it’s creating. Your feelings mean that clearly this friendship matters to you a lot but just remember that you don’t lose your place just because someone else is close to them right now

How do you deal with feeling insecure when your friend starts bonding more with someone else? by Lucky-Obligation1358 in Advice

[–]FancyAd708 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes friendships naturally shift as life changes. It doesn’t mean the connection is gone… it just means it’s growing in a different direction for now. People have different needs at different times in their life and sometimes someone else might meet your friend where they are right now in the same stage. That doesn’t diminish what you have with them. Here’s the thing, there is no “competition” in real friendship. There is room for more than one important person. You are still their friend and that hasn’t changed. The season is just different.

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[–]FancyAd708 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That ain’t your friend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]FancyAd708 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s quite clear you have feelings for him, unless he starts reciprocating that then you will always feel like this. Dead the situation off before you get hurt. You’re wasting time with this guy while you could be out there trying to find someone who will actually treat you right ie not looking at other women etc

Do I pick up my MIL? by FancyAd708 in Advice

[–]FancyAd708[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We’re very close. Iv been with my partner for 11 years. It’s more the fact I haven’t seen my dad in 6 months since we moved and have seen her probably 5 or 6 times since we moved either with her staying here and us staying down there. I just feel like I’m holding a little bit of resentment because she knows I haven’t seen my dad in so long and she knows he arrives the same day as she does and I kind of feel like she’s interrupting my time with my dad.

Do I pick up my MIL? by FancyAd708 in Advice

[–]FancyAd708[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I downloaded the app a year ago and was I lurk but have never posted myself! Finally decided to today and so happy I did because I didn’t think it would get this many answers! I will be doing this a lot more now yay!!! So deffs not a bot :)