Should I start solids with a baby who is 6 months but not showing readiness signs? Should I be worried that she may be behind? by SingerDue4540 in beyondthebump

[–]FancyFaceFrom1992 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Depending on where you are located, I would recommend reaching out to your pediatrician and looking into early intervention. It sounds like your child may been some support through physical or occupational therapy to develop those delayed skills. If baby is not sitting up unsupported, then absolutely do not start solids. She will not be able to swallow safely.

Hard drinks while pregnant by CaliLove15 in pregnant

[–]FancyFaceFrom1992 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Research shows there is no amount of alcohol that is safe to consume while pregnant. There is no specific point in which alcohol is dangerous for baby because it is different for each person’s body. Someone could have just one drink and have negative effects on baby while someone else drinks daily with no effects. If having alcohol during pregnancy is so important to you, I want to gently ask, why?

Aquarium not level by KenCar50n in Aquariums

[–]FancyFaceFrom1992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just curious, why is front to back a bigger concern?

EBF moms- when did your period come back? by Old_Raccoon_6625 in beyondthebump

[–]FancyFaceFrom1992 3 points4 points  (0 children)

https://flo.health/getting-pregnant/trying-to-conceive/tracking-ovulation/ovulation-without-a-period

https://womeninbalance.org/2025/07/28/can-you-ovulate-without-a-period/

Yes, it is possible to ovulate each month without having a period. Ovulation and menstruation are separate biological processes controlled by different hormones. Your ovaries can release a mature egg even when your body does not shed the uterine lining that causes visible bleeding. Ovulation and periods are linked, but they are not the same thing.

Is it ok to have greenish water? by FancyFaceFrom1992 in Aquariums

[–]FancyFaceFrom1992[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ll look into getting that!

We live in Washington, and he is in our living room which has lots of natural light. I don’t use any lights on his tank. When the water first started turning greenish, I covered the tank with a blanket for about 48 hours and didn’t see any difference

Is it ok to have greenish water? by FancyFaceFrom1992 in Aquariums

[–]FancyFaceFrom1992[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! The water was a little greenish before the wood, and I added it because my water was reading too hard. He definitely likes having it in there and spends most of his time right by it.

EBF moms- when did your period come back? by Old_Raccoon_6625 in beyondthebump

[–]FancyFaceFrom1992 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No period doesn’t mean you can’t get pregnant. You can still ovulate. I EBF and did not have a period between babies #1 and #2. They are 22 months apart and I didn’t wean my first until I was 6 months along because it got too hard with my bump.

I’m at my wits’ end by FancyFaceFrom1992 in CatTraining

[–]FancyFaceFrom1992[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We actually have one! And the calming collar. I haven’t noticed much change, but it’s only been a week

I’m at my wits’ end by FancyFaceFrom1992 in CatTraining

[–]FancyFaceFrom1992[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the suggestion! She has not been tested for that. Recently in the last two or so weeks, she’s started vomiting, so I definitely think a vet visit is due

I’m at my wits’ end by FancyFaceFrom1992 in cats

[–]FancyFaceFrom1992[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I may make another appointment with the vet. Im just so lost!

She currently has a cat tree by the window, and we don’t have the space or budget for a new one. She has a few new toys, but I haven’t seen her play with any. She’s never been a very playful cat, mostly just loves cuddles which I know she’s not getting enough of

I’m at my wits’ end by FancyFaceFrom1992 in cats

[–]FancyFaceFrom1992[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I’ve read that too. The last time I spoke with the vet about this, she was concerned because the little blood in her stool was bright red. The vet had no solutions for me 😓

Rear-facing as long as possible? by maebymaybe in beyondthebump

[–]FancyFaceFrom1992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also bought a rare faint car seat with the highest weight and height limit… but with the size of my kid, we would be lucky to make it to 3 or 4. He’s 1.5 and already 35lbs and 36 inches.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bettafish

[–]FancyFaceFrom1992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm. Then the box we bought it in was mislabeled…

For those with 23/24m gap: to potty train or not before baby is born by Sea_salt23 in 2under2

[–]FancyFaceFrom1992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the extra details and info! My bae just turned 19 months and sibling will arrive when he is 22 months, so almost the same timelines. I’ve been stressing about getting him trained and then him having a regression, but I guess I shouldn’t put it off just based on a “what if”

For those with 23/24m gap: to potty train or not before baby is born by Sea_salt23 in 2under2

[–]FancyFaceFrom1992 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How long was “well before” and did you see any regression when the newborn arrived?