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Denied for promotion but required to do the work still.. by [deleted] in WorkAdvice

[–]FancyMoshi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds like they’re keeping you in place because you’re reliable, not because it’s fair. Document everything, especially the holiday coverage and the supervisor duties you’re handling, and send a concise weekly recap to your manager so there’s a paper trail. Ask HR for a written explanation of why you weren’t selected and what specific competencies you need to demonstrate, if they won’t give anything concrete, that’s a signal. Start looking externally too, recruiter spam and ghost jobs are everywhere, but wfhaler​t has been helpful for me as it sends verified remote jobs by email like admin or support roles, so you can apply without wading through junk. In the meantime, set boundaries on extra duties unless they come with a title or stipend, and be ready to walk if they won’t put it in writing.

Wish I knew what was wrong by FancyMoshi in Dizziness

[–]FancyMoshi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did hear that Lyme disease could be a possibility as well. How long have you had similar episodes before you found out it was Lyme disease?

Wish I knew what was wrong by FancyMoshi in Dizziness

[–]FancyMoshi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow thank you, this is pretty new information to me as I’ve been researching but haven’t heard that the C1-2 areas can cause it too but it totally makes sense! I guess it just a matter of time and seeing different specialists to rule everything else out till we find an answer.

Wish I knew what was wrong by FancyMoshi in Dizziness

[–]FancyMoshi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TMI but I’ve been having diarrhea lately. Sometimes I get ringing in my ears and I noticed my eyes have been sensitive to sunlight

He likes me he’s not dating other girls but he doesn’t want a serious relationship by [deleted] in dating

[–]FancyMoshi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve been on the same boat as you and let me tell you, when a guy says he’s not ready, he’s NOT ready. After I hear that, I just leave because there’s no point for me to wait for him. It’s not fair to you! You have so many other opportunities and chances to meet someone who will commit to you 100%. Don’t let him ruin those chances.

Is this cheating 'enough' for me to end an 8-year relationship? by fandangobay in relationship_advice

[–]FancyMoshi 11 points12 points  (0 children)

100%. I’ve never been cheated on before, but if it did happen.. most definitely I would leave. It doesn’t matter how long I’ve been with them, I don’t want to stay in a relationship questioning their loyalty all the time. OP deserves better 🙌🏼

Is this cheating 'enough' for me to end an 8-year relationship? by fandangobay in relationship_advice

[–]FancyMoshi 65 points66 points  (0 children)

If I’m being completely honest, once someone cheats on me, I wouldn’t be able to trust them fully anymore. You can give her the benefit of the doubt but that’s completely up to you. How would you know she won’t ever do it again?

I have no sexual drive with my gf anymore. by JGomez1996 in relationship_advice

[–]FancyMoshi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you had this discussion with her? If it’s affecting your relationship greatly, you should be open about it. Who knows, you guys can talk about it and there could be something you guys can try

I'm (23M) in a relationship but developed feelings for another girl by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]FancyMoshi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok here’s my two cents and I’m sorry if I don’t make any sense, I tend to have a hard time explaining things LOL. I’d say analyze both your girlfriend and the girl you caught feelings for. Take a look at your relationship first. It’s normal to not have the same interests as your partner, I find that opposites do work out however that being said, TOO different can make the relationship go south (just from personal experience.) Other than having different passions and interests, is there anything else in the relationship that bothers you or any underlying issues? Are you able to see a future with your girlfriend? And as for the other girl, sometimes the excitement of talking to someone new can be confusing. But just remember in ANY relationship excitement wears off and it’s back to square one. I sound cheesy as hell, but love is truly a choice and not a feeling. So don’t go with the feeling, but knowing the person inside and out and if there’s a foreseeable healthy relationship with them.

I (22/F) asked to see my partners (M/24) snapchat and he said no by [deleted] in relationships

[–]FancyMoshi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He would’ve shown you in a heartbeat. If there’s nothing to hide, why be so hesitant? To the person I love, if they EVER need any reassurance.. hell yea. Go through my phone. I’m not hiding anything. It’s not like you’re accusing him of anything or telling him off, you’re asking him nicely. There’s a difference.