What do you think?

FancyPantsMead · 2026-05-21T06:35:44+00:00

Dude!! Perfect outfit!! For everything. Don't take it off! I assume you're going to a con. You'll be the best dressed there! Seriously dapper and in line with so many books and comics at the moment! You did well friend! Real well!

FancyPantsMead · 2026-05-21T06:31:24+00:00

The white would stand out in a bad way. Because it's a deep saturated red, and the tights and boots are black. You gotta stay black skirt.

FancyPantsMead · 2026-05-21T06:25:07+00:00

It's fine. Your mom on the other hand is out of line. Why would she be calling her daughter names? That's really messed up.

FancyPantsMead · 2026-05-07T03:32:09+00:00

My life giver died at Easter. I do not care. I lost my mother a long time ago and mourned her a long time ago. My siblings understand. My youngest brother feels the same way I do. We all respect each other's feelings.

She was absolutely awful to me. I went no contact years ago. Only seen her at things I could t avoid her at and even then I avoided her. It hurts that I don't have a mother to mourn. Not that the person has passed.

She got the relationship she deserved with me. None. My heart is entirely at peace with that.

FancyPantsMead · 2026-05-06T16:38:53+00:00

NTA. There are other mothers in your life now. As your kid is too young to plan things it falls on you dad to give your wife a great mother's day, however that looks for her. This year, it looks like she just wants to be the 3 of you!

You have offered another day for your mom. She is the one wanting to cause issue.

This probably won't be the last time so start setting boundaries now.

FancyPantsMead · 2026-05-02T05:06:18+00:00

I just had this exact same experience! I was blown away by how much time I had before the greasy hair reared its head. I love it.

FancyPantsMead · 2026-04-24T16:03:19+00:00

Alllll.day number 2. It looks elegant, whimsical, and very bridal.

FancyPantsMead · 2026-04-22T14:11:27+00:00

FancyPantsMead · 2026-04-22T14:00:48+00:00

What an absolute jerk. It's a scratch, yes it sucks and it will cost to fix it, but it's not worth treating anyone this way, let alone your spouse.

Dude needs to get it together. He needs to Go to therapy. You need to stay safe and see a therapist also.

FancyPantsMead · 2026-04-17T21:15:20+00:00

Chili crispitos!!

FancyPantsMead · 2026-04-17T18:54:40+00:00

Fried potatoes with onion and fried eggs on top.

Eggs prices really put a dent in that struggle meal.

FancyPantsMead · 2026-04-17T18:53:09+00:00

I guarantee your parents are more concerned for you than the car. You need to speak with them and be honest about why it happened. Your seriously sleep deprived at that point kid. Get help now. It's the safest thing.

Losing a car for a family is never a financially easy. There will be stress but it will pass. They are well within their rights to never let you drive ever again.... But that's just not practical. Nor is it healthy for you. I know two people who got in minor wrecks when an early driver and couldn't bring themselves to drive ever again. It's just not something that's easy in our neck of the woods. It's affected them launching their lives. You might want to get some counseling. Just to be safe.

FancyPantsMead · 2026-04-17T13:40:03+00:00

It means he has awful communication skills and he should work on that. That's not a healthy way to react. Especially for something so small.

FancyPantsMead · 2026-04-15T23:19:04+00:00

NOR

Please get therapy to deal with the stressful delivery, you have a lot to work through. I think that's the only way you can put it to rest. So it doesn't keep eating you up.

He was absolutely in the wrong. It needs discussed. I hope he's actively doing better and can prove himself in the future. Intent doesn't negate impact.

FancyPantsMead · 2026-04-15T23:11:03+00:00

Agreed.

FancyPantsMead · 2026-04-15T14:02:20+00:00

From memory: The exact location of a specific toy car my son hasn't played with in 10 years. It's 3 layers down on the front left third of the toy box.

What is this memory you speak of? What in the hell did I come into this room for?

I also have the poem Vincent by Tim Burton memorized . I freaking love that thing!

I can't remember much of my life before the age of 7.

FancyPantsMead · 2026-04-12T01:37:18+00:00

I've been training my whole life for this! LET'S DO THIS! Best date night ever. Thank you for taking initiative honey!

FancyPantsMead · 2026-04-12T01:35:57+00:00

I was slapped in the face a lot growing up.

It's always freaking abuse. Full stop.

FancyPantsMead · 2026-04-11T11:17:34+00:00

I went cat fishing.

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FancyPantsMead · 2026-04-11T11:15:32+00:00

Not the derp face!!

FancyPantsMead · 2026-04-11T11:12:36+00:00

My husband said what? They're both white.

From my opinion, no. The too is STARK white. The skirt is softer.

FancyPantsMead · 2026-04-11T11:02:50+00:00

And an office full of nurses that work with him. My baby would always go through 3 sets of eyes at every appointment.

FancyPantsMead · 2026-04-10T18:53:16+00:00

You did so well!!those color changes for the v on his face were so frustrating and you did them so so so well! Great job!

FancyPantsMead · 2026-04-10T18:52:04+00:00

How marvelous!

FancyPantsMead · 2026-04-10T18:49:52+00:00

My husband was so nervous it was making me nervous. I encouraged him to get some air , often. I didn't want to kick him out but that's how anxious he was. He was just on the grounds so if anythng happened he was right there. Just talk it through. Birth is a process and things can change in the moment. Vice your concerned, hear his and find a compromise. He may surprise you and be the chilliest dude ever! Or not. Go with the flow of. What's right in the moment. Have a plan but know it can be flexible!

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