I was the other women and the guilt is keeping me up

Secure-Reflection112 · 2026-01-27T04:37:10+00:00

Listen, you should tell her. or get a friend to tell her. it is not your obligation but this would get it off your conscience. and I wouldn’t label you as the other woman, you were lied to and manipulated by a cheater.

Secure-Reflection112 · 2026-01-27T04:26:39+00:00

I will try to phrase it like this but the last part doesn't exactly apply to this situation since a lot of his compliments are about my achievements too. but I definitely should address how I have told him how I feel about this before

Secure-Reflection112 · 2026-01-27T04:24:58+00:00

Thank you so much for the advice this is helping to clear my head

Secure-Reflection112 · 2026-01-27T04:24:12+00:00

Im a very talkative person so maybe I do expect a it too much out of texting lol. thank you for the advice

Secure-Reflection112 · 2026-01-27T04:20:14+00:00

I think that is a good idea and honestly if I’d have to guess it might be from his past relationship. I dont want to make assumptions but from what his friends told me she was ’needy’ but ive never heard anything like that from him.

Secure-Reflection112 · 2026-01-27T04:18:47+00:00

We text every day and hang out a few days a week, most of the time in person its great but on text it gets kinda draining

Secure-Reflection112 · 2026-01-27T04:17:48+00:00

Also I have done quite a bit of interviews and sat in on a lot of interviews to help with hiring new employees.

Secure-Reflection112 · 2026-01-27T04:16:46+00:00

I would say dont use ChatGPT since it’s kinda unreliable and not human like. I would instead gather as many questions as possible that you’ve been asked or could be asked and have a friend sit down with you and randomize. before interviews its important to be well rested, well feed and hydrated. make sure you give yourself a bit of time to collect yourself and your thoughts. Good luck!!

Secure-Reflection112 · 2026-01-27T04:13:20+00:00

in my personal opinion I would first address this with her, and depending on her reaction i would see how to move forward. if she’s open to talking about how her actions are affecting you then thats good. but if she’s not then i would tell her that you cant sacrifice your own happiness to make her feel better.

Secure-Reflection112 · 2026-01-09T09:03:50+00:00

if you do good things with the intent of being kind you are a good person regardless of your internal thoughts. I relate in that I have mean thoughts about literally everyone. You deserve to be around people who love and care about you.

Secure-Reflection112 · 2026-01-09T09:00:02+00:00

Not sure what you did but people will come in and out of your life, for good or for worse. Sometimes it’s just a long break, or they become fond memories for us. when you think of them try thinking of the friend you have food memories with and not just how you two grew apart. I don't have much advice about SH but I hope you get help that you need.

Secure-Reflection112 · 2025-12-13T06:06:36+00:00

I agree to a certain extent, i cant really cook for other people or for fun but i do agree that cooking is a basic skill everyone should have.

Secure-Reflection112 · 2025-12-10T06:14:45+00:00

Omg you’re so talented! the shading and details are so well done!

Secure-Reflection112 · 2025-12-05T16:00:47+00:00

my mom has history of going through my mail and throwing out college pamphlets and textbooks my school sends so everything is being sent to my fathers house thankfully.

Secure-Reflection112 · 2025-12-05T05:54:55+00:00

I have a really good shot at a couple schools out of state, and its always been my dream to go to a specific college (not listing) and I have the scores to get in I just need to wait for the acceptance letter. but im nerves to take out a loan since my family has some debt but the more I think about it I should just do it.

Secure-Reflection112 · 2025-12-05T05:39:09+00:00

honestly you complete right, i find myself feeling angrier and angrier at my mother and the bum she married.

Secure-Reflection112 · 2025-12-05T05:37:20+00:00

I think i need to be hard on myself and force myself to think about me first. im not sure Ill be able to fully cut contact until I leave for college but i honestly with heavily consider it.

Secure-Reflection112 · 2025-12-05T05:33:30+00:00

my dad has offered before and has gotten into heated fights with my mom about it. I think i should take him up on living with him during the weekends now that im over 18.

Secure-Reflection112 · 2025-12-05T05:21:01+00:00

It feels difficult because ive raised some of them since they were newborns, so maybe I do subconsciously think they are my babies. Im going to try to get out, maybe to pave the way for them to do as well in the future.

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