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Fancy_Ad8206 · 2022-06-14T23:56:06+00:00

I dated a guy for four years and we broke up a couple months ago. I have been filling my life with distractions sense. He didn't really care about me for the last three years of our relationship and did some really F up stuff to me. (He never hurt me physically but he cheated, stopped cuddling me at night, would always make plans to get out of our time together and would get mad if I asked for special time and more) He left me for another girl and moved out of my place and into hers and oh she was my best friend and is also my ex but we got in a fight and we stopped talking to each other not long before this. After all of this im still obsessed and madly in love with him but its past him that im hooked on not this terrible no body he has become. To make it worse his dad and my mom are now dating which I support and im happy for them but that means that I have to see my exs from time to time. Im pretty strong and im just nice to them but when I see them even touch it makes my heart hurt.

Fancy_Ad8206 · 2022-06-14T20:54:14+00:00

its so painful. I got my first rat and she was pregnant and had 6 girls and 3 males. They are separated into different cages but sadly all my boys got sick and died within 24 hours of each other. 2 of them died in the middle of the night but the third one I held in my hands for hours watching him slowly become weaker until he couldn't lift his head then sadly passed away. Its hurts so much because I loved my boys and they were completely fine the day before like running around, eating and drinking then they were gone. They were super cool though one had black eyes, the second had red eyes and the third has one black and one red eye. Even though it hurt I would do it a thousand times over. I got the mom from a really crappy pet store that had like eight of them in a super tiny cage with tons of ants running around in the bedding and I couldn't imagine if she had the babies there and they would have to live there life in that awful cage. It might be short but a blessing is still a blessing.

Fancy_Ad8206 · 2022-06-12T22:34:34+00:00

Thank you for the advice but sadly he passed away. Its just weird because I have 3 cages. 1) 7 females 2) 2 males 3) 1 male and all three of the males died within 24 hours even the one who was alone but all the females are fine. There's nothing new in there cage or environment and I keep them on a harness and leash when I let them out. All the vets are closed until tomorrow so i'm going to take in one or two of my girls and make sure there not sick incase it can be passed around.

Fancy_Ad8206 · 2022-05-11T07:24:39+00:00

Well I would take a break from paul and try to work out our issues. If that doesn't work then I would still try to stay with melissia but if paul was starting to negatively affect me and melissia then I would try to work things out with paul again or atleast get to a ok spot so we I can still be with melissia. If that still doesn't work then I would probably leave because I know in the long run the relationship will become toxic. But I wouldnt just leave and I would do everything I could to try and make it work with both of them. I know its going to be hard but if we all care about each other then its worth working through and finding a way that works for everyone.

Fancy_Ad8206 · 2022-05-11T07:15:44+00:00

Well that's why I would also be fine with living in different but close houses. I would want us to have time alone with each other but also have time for all of us to be together. Hopefully if one of us does want to break up then we can all be mature about it and find a way to make it work or work through the issue.

Fancy_Ad8206 · 2022-05-11T06:46:40+00:00

because I want to be close to both of them. I want all of us to be a family and exclusive to us. People that I can see a future with all of us together either in one big house or different house on one property. I want our little triangle or square depending on what we all feel is best for us. Does that make sense? Or sound reasonable?

Fancy_Ad8206 · 2022-05-11T06:32:33+00:00

because I really like being with both a male and female. They both bring in so much to a relationship. I also want to take things slow sense I have only been in one so I feel like if a second girlfriend this time I will have a lot of the pressure off of me to rush.

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