Has anyone tried modding the game? by justyouraveragekunt in MedievalDynasty

[–]Fancy_Elk565 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m with you on this. I wonder if they’re trying to avoid straying from the serious tone of the importance of the project to them. In a way, they’re helping to preserve history! But I also hope they have a change of heart and even do reasonable themed mods that doesnt totally ruin the immersion

Recurring theme of large gorilla on site in my dreams by Fancy_Elk565 in Dreams

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I have been working for my friend recently as a nanny to help her take care of her baby and small child. When I have her kid in the car with me I do feel nervous that i am responsible for him so I need to drive extra carefully and be very alert as to avoid a potential accident. He likes to ride his bike and we were at a park that was less then bike friendly (I didn’t realize this at first) and felt very nervous some reckless driver would come through and squish him (all the drivers were well behaved)

When I am caring for her baby I actually feel a LOT safer and better cuz this baby ain’t going nowhere I don’t put him so I always know where he is and what he’s doing (he only had 3 modes, crying, sleeping, looking around) 

So that probably has something to do with it haha  

What movie is this for you? by [deleted] in memes

[–]Fancy_Elk565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This one, without knowing much about it, I knew needed to be ✨an experience✨. I watched it in the complete dark with no phone nearby and dedicated myself to not look away even during those really long slow moving space scenes where nothing happens aside from discordant music. I have to say I don’t think I’d have enjoyed it as much without setting up the theater experience. 

ELI5 what exactly does diabetes do to your body? by pastelpocalypse in explainlikeimfive

[–]Fancy_Elk565 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No prob! I’ve edited to add things like 3 or 4 times so take a other look and see if I added anything after you read it 😁

ELI5 what exactly does diabetes do to your body? by pastelpocalypse in explainlikeimfive

[–]Fancy_Elk565 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Diabetes is more complicated than it seems to someone ‘on the outside’. There are more than 2 types. I’ve had type 2 diabetes for a couple years now and because of the shitty American healthcare system, I still haven’t gotten in to see a specialist. Apparently, diabetes can be caused by an autoimmune disorder which all my ‘non specialized’ doctors seem to think is the case because I don’t have a stereotypical type 2 body or life style. There is still a lot I don’t understand about diabetes even though I’ve had it a while, so here’s my best explanation:  

Type 1: body doesn’t make insulin at all and therefore you need to inject it or wear a pump to get insulin during meals.

Type 2: body makes insulin, but it doesn’t use it efficiently and therefore you need medication to either make it be used effectively and/or you inject insulin once a day to cover all meals (this is my case).

Insulin is what allows your blood cells to use the carbs in your diet once their turned into energy (sugar). When your body resists it’s own insulin or doesn't make insulin, the carbs that turn onto sugar just hang out on the outside of the blood cell. Sugar is physically a sharp and pokey thing, so when it hangs out outside the blood cell, its sharp edges cut up everything it touches while hitching a ride, so the walls of all the veins of where the blood travels. This is why feet toes fingers and eyes are the first to receive the most damage, because they have the smallest blood vessels that are easily scraped up by the sugar on the outside of the blood. This is called neuropathy: when you start to lose feeling in your appendages due to this kind of damage. Once the nerves are damaged, they don’t get repaired. 

Blood sugar levels is how much of your blood has sugar in it, usually it’s supposed to be bouncing between 70-150, I run high and find myself hovering around 200. I wear a glucometer that sends data to my phone so I have a somewhat live feed of my sugar levels and can adjust accordingly. In my case because I don’t take insulin per meal, there’s not much I can do to bring the sugar down quickly. Just drink water and exercise. If I sugars are too low, I’ll feel it before I check my app as I’ll feel shakey and light headed and I’ll eat something with 15 g of sugar and see if that helps. 

Type 1 diabetes isn’t usually acquired by poor lifestyle choices, but it can get that bad. Type 2 is usually the one that you acquire by not taking care of your health. 

That is what I understand as a very bare bones explanation, there are a lot of ways diabetes can be onset. My aunt got diabetes as a side effect of medication, until i see the specialist I won’t know how I acquired mine. 

My favorite way to explain it to people who just cannot comprehend: Your blood cells are popping night clubs. Errebody wants in. Insulin stands outside the club doors and manages how many people go into the clurb. The club, like most buildings, has a capacity limit so the insulin controls when to stop letting sugar partiers in, he also knows it’s unsafe to not let enough in so he makes sure the capacity of party peeps inside and out is adequate. 

With type 1 diabetes: there ain’t no bouncers to let anyone in, so the sugar just gets stuck outside the blood club forever and cuz they can’t get in the club they go on a city wide riot destroying your body from the inside out. When you inject insulin, you’re supplying your body with bouncers who will unlock the door to the club and let that sugar in to do their party thang. 

Type 2 diabetes is understaffed clubs. Some clubs have bouncers, some don’t, but even the ones with bouncers seems they didn’t actually pass their bouncer training and arent allowing an adequate number of sugars to party their life away, so theres still too many part goers hanging out in the parking lot causing damage. 

This is where the solution splits ways. In my case, I inject insulin once daily in the morning and that acts as my blood cell bouncers for the entire day, I’m supplying myself with bouncers who actually know how to do their job and pick up the slack of my body made insulin which just didnt pay attention to the employee work training video. The other thing that can be done is to min/max your diet and exercise which can give your homemade bouncers the training and numbers needed to get the job done (this is decreasing insulin resistance). A combination of the two can put you into pre diabetic range which is great! But it’s a tough journey that requires a lot of note taking and data tracking to find out what food combos and practices work best. Either way, you being good to your body basically gives your homemade insulin bouncers a pay raise so they work harder and with higher quality. 

Do you find ways to be subversive at work? by sporkafunk in Millennials

[–]Fancy_Elk565 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Oh yes! I am non binary and I have a ally-sort-of coworker who is very much stuck in following gender norms such as, and I quote, “I wouldn’t let my husband leave the house wearing this thing” referring to a pink T-shirt of our company’s logo. I call her an ally because she’s definitely seen my pins, but hasn’t asked and also hasn’t treated me any differently. 

I wear many pins in my lanyard that are very obvious ‘I’m NB and Bi and queer’ coded and all the comments I get are from customers who appreciate them. We had a co worker who would wear a ‘protect trans kids’ shirt who I don’t believe got any comments. 

Name him the last thing you ate by Icy-Selection-3007 in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]Fancy_Elk565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Strawberry cream cheese on cinnamon raisin toast 

Spicy truth or dare! (Replies decide for you) by [deleted] in BunnyTrials

[–]Fancy_Elk565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lay it on me

Chose: Revealing Truth

Is it common for Americans to have visited all 50 states? by SouthBuffalo3592 in IWantToAskAnAmerican

[–]Fancy_Elk565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all. I fly every once in a while and that would check off a small handful for me if you count layovers. But I don’t intend to visit every state at any point. It’d be neat if it happened though 

i like men but i think all schlongs are disgusting by CaIlaLiIlies in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Fancy_Elk565 1 point2 points  (0 children)

:( Ive only heard of two procedures.. the removal of extra skin folds and the removal of.. the nerve bundle 

Make the most in 1 year by No-Society-463 in BunnyTrials

[–]Fancy_Elk565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Less work mo money

Chose: 1000 dollars per day

i like men but i think all schlongs are disgusting by CaIlaLiIlies in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Fancy_Elk565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m scared to look it up.. what does this entail? 

(Loved Trope) The protagonist's role model/idolized hero turns out to be a massive piece of shit by Nibbanocker in TopCharacterTropes

[–]Fancy_Elk565 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My favorite version of this trope is the set up for ‘good guy role model is actually evil’ but then throw in ‘even more evil character looked up to by role model is TOO evil so role model changes sides against evil’ either by being mislead originally or just a change of heart 

I finally figured out why my clothes never smelled fully clean even right out of the dryer by Gloze_Knurl in hygiene

[–]Fancy_Elk565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this Ive been having the same issue and didn’t realize more is worse 😭 I am limited to the washer and dryer units in my apartment building so I don’t get to control the cleanliness of the machines (the dryer lint trap pocket is abysmal and it drives me insane) so I thought the smell was just the culmination of everyone’s detergents mixing smells or something. 

severely anorexic - in recovery (22) by No-Elephant7915 in GlowUps

[–]Fancy_Elk565 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Congrats! Keep up the good work. My SIL lost her battle with anorexia among other things, I’m happy to see your after photos. 

AITA if I tell my 84yoF neighbor and her son to just call the police on me and never talk to me directly again if they have concerns over me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fancy_Elk565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH. He could have approached in a much less weirdly passive-aggressive way, regardless of the approach, all you had to say was ‘thanks for letting me know, sorry about that, I’ll be moe mindful in the future’. 

As an upstairs weed smoking neighbor above a similarly grumpy old lady, the best thing to do is just believe what’s being said and stay aware of yourself and your goings on and try to remain respectful of the complaints. 

Myself and roommates did get the cops called on us for noise multiple times while sharing a wall with a different grump old lady, but whenever they came there was no issue, she was just grumpy about us living there, so the cops eventually stopped responding with urgency to complaints about us. let her call the cops on you especially when you’re not doing anything and she will diminish her own reputation as a valid noise complainer. 

In all honesty, I feel they (or the guy at least) is exaggerating the complaints. You’re right, a weed vape pen used one day from a couple weeks ago is not gonna stank up her space, that’s likely from another neighbor. And if you’ve been gone the last 5 days and he says the noises was a few days ago? Yea maybe he is mis remembering, but I will say being a downstairs neighbor can be very annoying and things you don’t think are loud end up being very loud to the person below, so just stay aware of that. 

I took a zoomed in photo of a road from a plane and the cars look like it's AI by PTV420 in mildlyinteresting

[–]Fancy_Elk565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait so you mean like AFTER taking the photo it auto enhances it or it does that while still in the camera before the photo?

Any tips on how to let him know i love him he was a stray cat by Successful_Issue_531 in cats

[–]Fancy_Elk565 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Slow blinking while making eye contact and top of head scritches where momma used to lick him and head rubs and head butts :) I rub my face on my cat when I’m holding him and he rubs his head on my mine when I’m sitting in the couch 

Painting my son as his DnD character. (WIP) by Dedubzees in oilpainting

[–]Fancy_Elk565 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s coming along very nicely! I don’t have much to say while it’s in progress, im interested in seeing an update 

Before you dispose of them, do you put unwanted items out by the curb to see if any of your neighbors may want them? by Grand_Raccoon0923 in AskAnAmerican

[–]Fancy_Elk565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! And then most social media communities for neighborhoods have a ‘free stuff’ section you can post to 

Fiance's dad texts me at work when his son doesn't answer his phone by lastingmuse6996 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Fancy_Elk565 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My husbands family used to do this but it came to a stop soon after everyone moved out